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I'm a single man but have the insight of being on the outside looking in, it's amazing what you can see from there.

Have some good and some not so good relationships so might have a fair idea what your going thru as well :-)

I'm best friends with a man who's wife is an adulteress!

Q.   My best male friend’s wife has been cheating on him for years. I have not said anything because I don't want to get in the middle of it with them. I have remained friends with his wife up until she accused me of messing around with her husband just ...

A.   10 January 2011: It might pay to sit your male friend down and have a serious talk with him about whats been going on. Point him in the right diresction so he can see for himself what's been happening.... (read in full...)

Sometimes I need space! My girlfriend just doesn't understand!

Q.   So me and my girlfriend have been together for about 4 years now, first 2 years were fine but the last 2 are getting worse, always trying to look through my phone on who I talk to and what about, everytime I plan something with friends she pulls the ...

A.   28 December 2010: Dirtball pretty much summed it up for you there. It's a double standered and thats not what a relationship should be. You broke it off for a reason and got back when you thought the problem was fixed. The problem has not been fixed so dont sta... (read in full...)

Depressed and Panicked... 32 yr old single female.. is there any chance for me?

Q.   I feel so truly depressed.. after making some bad decisions over the last 3 years, in terms of relationships. I've ended up single... i will turn 32 in 2011 and its causing me serious stress and depression. People keep telling me i'll meet someon...

A.   27 December 2010: A young women like your self living in a big city has nothing to worry about finding men. By the time men are in there 30's most of them want to find Miss Right not Miss Right Now. Dating Sites and Friend's (As mentioned here) are the best way... (read in full...)

Son's girlfriend cheated, now his whole outlook on life has changed.

Q.   I need help really badly. My son he has been down for the last year or so. He had a girlfriend who he loved a lot. He did things for this for this girl that were super romantic and she reciprocated. I liked her. 5 years later,, and I repeat my son ...

A.   27 December 2010: Sound's like he got hurt realy badly there. Right now he's just venting and getting all the anger out of his system. This can take awhile but the way he was raised will shine thru in the end just hang in there and try to keep talking to him. He mi... (read in full...)

Why would she stay with him after he cheated on her?

Q.   Hello All! My question is "Why does a girl stay with a guy after she finds out that he was cheating on her?" I dated this guy for a few months and then found out he had a girlfriend the whole time. I told the girlfriend and she still is with him...

A.   27 December 2010: No your not crazy at all. There's a lot of reasons why she took him back, one might be that she see's it as she one uping you. Or another might be that she didn't want to throw away all the time she put into there relationship. At the end of the d... (read in full...)

When I think of my ex I get all these negative feelings!

Q.   i was told that i cant stop thinking about my ex. i wish her the best but when i think about her all thses negetive feelings come up and i want them to go away. what can i do?...

A.   27 December 2010: Thank you for the advice. I wrote a letter (Did not post it) and got everything i wanted to say out. Feel much better now and am now looking fword not back :-)... (read in full...)

What are the signs that he could like me?

Q.   How do i no if sumone liks me, i cant stop thinking about this guy, i really like him slept with him a few times but cant tell him how i feel, we do txt sumtimes but thats it I will say sumthing eventually but i need to no sum signs that he mi...

A.   27 December 2010: I'm sorry to say he's not that into you. Right now your only there because your aviable at the time. If you broke it off with him you might get a lot of texts saying what's wrong etc etc but thats only because he has not found another booty call ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has caught me flirting online, and now he hasn't spoke to me for over a month!

Q.   question to the guys. my boyfriend of four years has caught me flirting online. its not the first time and we always broke up because of it. i never cheated i did it for a laugh when he was at work,i did text them but never met any. i denied it and ...

A.   17 February 2010: You say that you didnt do anything wrong, in his mind you sure did. Have you ever thought that maybe your not the first women to do this to him? And that in his experence the flirting has gone to meetings and more?... (read in full...)

My ex has totally frozen me out of his life

Q.   When my ex and I broke up last month after 2 years together I messaged him to ask him if there was someone else. It didn't really bother me by then if he was or wasn't because he had been acting so distant toward that I felt by the end we had ...

A.   10 January 2010: He's moving on in his own way, it has nothing to do with you in a bad way at all. Just let him get his life sorted and see what happens from there.... (read in full...)

Friend keeps breaking dates

Q.   i have kept making dates with a female friend but alwyas get an excuse for her not turning up. yet when she wants me there for a date or somthing else, she gets upset if i dont show on time. what can i do to make this an even playing field so to ...

A.   8 January 2010: Thank you for the advice, i will try that and see how it goes.... (read in full...)

Why doesn't he tell people we're going out together?

Q.   Me and my bf has been dating for 3 yrs and he still can't admit to anyone that I'm his gf and that he loves me. Its been going on since we started dating, he says he loves me and all this but then he's saying to everyone that I'm not his gf,its ...

A.   8 January 2010: If he loves you then he shouldnt be afraid to say it around other people, might be an idea to ask him about it face to face and see what he says.... (read in full...)

If I befriend him I'm afraid I'll lose my other friends

Q.   Hello! Please help me out. I started a new school this week and everything's going pretty much ok, I've started to fit in with people and such: But there is a boy there who I think is rather sweet (He has a very mild form of dyslexia) but he's ve...

A.   8 January 2010: If you like this guy and think he would be a good friend, who cares what others think. At the end of the day it's the outsiders that can be your most loyal friends for life i've found.... (read in full...)

She wants the best of both worlds!

Q.   Me and my ex girlfriend were together for 3 years and have now been separated for a year and a half. During the relationship we lived together and raised our children together. We broke up because of trust issues and during the first year of ...

A.   8 January 2010: By the sound of it, she dont want you to move on and to only be there when her life falls apart to pick up the pieces. The passion she gives you is a teaser to keep you in touch with her. Best thing is to move on and only keep what ever you say to ... (read in full...)

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