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I want to love him again - maybe I just need personal space?
Q. i dont what happened, suddenly im just not feeling inlove with my boyfriend anymore and for no apparent reason either. Somtimes the love feeling returns but only for just short periods of time. how could i have gone from being totally inlove one day ...
A. 15 December 2006: you were so much in love with him before because the relationship was new. now that you know eachother it is not that fun. if you spice things up it might re light your fire towards him. do something different that usual, like climb a mountain ... (read in full...)
Can someone be sure of their sexual orientation at 14?
Q. can you be sure of your sexual orientation at 14? i believe im bisexual and have been for i don't know how long i came 2 terms with it about a year ago but can i be sure of it at my age? i am sure of my feelings and im nnot asking for help with my ...
A. 15 December 2006: i have known that i like the same gender as i since i was very young. just don't ignore it, you will miss out in a lot of situations and you will feel ashamed of your self. there is nothing wrong with likeing girls when you are 14.... (read in full...)
My teacher and I have feelings for one another - I'm graduating soon so would it be wrong to take things further?
Q. Im in love with my teacher!!! He's only 5 yrs older than me and he's so sweet and kind!! He treats me differently to everyone else he makes me feel so special!! This is the happiest ive ever been..and i know its wrong to feel this was towards a ...
A. 15 December 2006: just lay low for the rest of your schooling, do not be seen in public with him because that can mess up a lot for both of you. when you graduate then it is all fair game, go for it!... (read in full...)
Our boss says coworkers are not to date each other - he doesn't know his bro and I are falling for each other!
Q. Well i just started a new job about 3 weeks ago and Im in a little bit of a situation. I have a thing for the bosses brother and he feels the same about me, we have been sneaking around, and I am starting to fall for him. The problem is my boss told ...
A. 15 December 2006: ask your boss if it is true. you never said if his bro worked there, but i assume that he does. but you should find out the rules before you loose your chance with this guy!... (read in full...)
I'm afraid if I try to contact her again after all this time, it would be awkward - any suggestions?
Q. I am interested in this girl, only the thing is I haven't spoken to her in about half a year. Recently, i was thinking about how we used to be friends a few years ago, and all the fun times we had, and it just brought back my interest in her a lot. ...
A. 15 December 2006: try setting up a group of friends to go to a movie that she might like and send an invite to her asking her to come along, just make sure it is not like a couples thing. afterward all go out for pizza or something. that will give you two a chance to ... (read in full...)
I confronted my wife about the affairs I found out about and she claims they're over - the last email was 4 days ago!
Q. My wife and I have been married 23 years. We have two daughters, one in college and one in third grade. I love her deeply, passionately, and openly. She is always saying how lucky she is to have me. I pay attention to her, I notice new clothes, ...
A. 15 December 2006: leave her and take the child that is in the 3rd grade, she does not need to be around a mother like that. you will never trust your wife again. relationships are based on trust, and with out it you two have no buisness together. if you do get ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my parents about how I got drunk and did sexual things with older guys?
Q. Hey, A copule of weaks ago, i got drunk and ended up giving two lads blowjobs,toss of two lads and fingerd by one. They were all 16,17 and 18 and i am only 13. But the problem is i was half asleep and very drunk when all of this happend. Should...
A. 15 December 2006: the only person that should be getting in to trouble here is you. why would you even put your self in to a situation where that could happen. you obviously said yes to all of the actions that took place. i really wish that people would stop blaming ... (read in full...)
My gf slept w/ her ex while drunk. We sorted it out, but I still feel upset!
Q. Ive been going out with my gf for 3 months, we are both 20. Last week she went to a club and got incredibly drunk, met her ex bf, went home to his house, slept with him, and came home the next day. When she rang me to tell me what had happene...
A. 12 December 2006: leave her. 3 months, imagine in 10 years when you have 3 kids together and a house. she goes out and gets drunk and sleeps with another guy, how will you feel then? she only sounds very sorry because she is desperate. she knows that her ex doesn't ... (read in full...)
After being married 3 months, I drunkenly kissed another man in front of my husband!
Q. I have made a major mistake!! I have only been married for 3 months and already have sort of cheated infront of my new husband! Its was works night out and I got really drunk I cant even remember the night I had difficulty getting a cab home when ...
A. 12 December 2006: you need to stop drinking, or only drink at home with him. he will never forget the kiss, but make sure you give him a good reason to forgive you, because if you do not, you will be in for a lot of crap. he will bring it up all of the time. make ... (read in full...)
Two months ago he was talking of marriage, but now says he can't see me in his future! How do I cope?
Q. Having a hard time coping. My boyfriend of almost a year broke it off with me. This came as a shock. At first he said that we may get back together. He just couldn't picture spending the rest of his life with me, and he needed time to think. ...
A. 12 December 2006: forget about him and the horse he rode in on. i have been there done that. he is using you as a crutch. he justneeds a rock all of the time and chances are that he has already found a new one that he is polishing up this moment. men like him need ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with him but he's afraid of commitment. I this this fear is also affecting our sex life.
Q. Im have been seeing a guy for 6 months. He is jsut getting over a bad two year reltionship and has had a problem committing to me but has been honest about that from the beginning. he is a fraid of doing somehting wrong and hurting me. He has said ...
A. 12 December 2006: sit back and wait. make a pact to only have sexual contact if the both of you know that it doesn't mean marriage. let him heal. you can not push him into your arms, make him fall into your arms. let him know that you will never hurt him and that you ... (read in full...)
I'm in an abusive relationship, but I want out. I'm afraid nobody would want me b/c I have three kids!
Q. help. ive been with a bloke for nearly 5 years and we have 3 very young children together (17 months and twin 7 months). our relationship started out great but over the past 12 months ive slowly grown out of love with him for many reasons. he has ...
A. 12 December 2006: leave him, and do not respond to that other guy. find a safe place because your bf will not just let go. build up your self-worthiness. do something with your life that has nothing to do with relationships, then one day when you least expect it, the ... (read in full...)
We argue and I want to leave...but I love him too much!
Q. me and my bf always argue a lot and we don't solve our problems coz we just don't understand each other and i can not take it anymore, i feel like leaving him but i couldn't do that coz i love him soo much. what do i do?...
A. 12 December 2006: you do not love him. you love the idea of him. you can not "fix" a relationship, you can only flow in a relationship. if that is not happening than do both yourself and your bf a huge favor, break up and loose eachothers phone number. if it was ... (read in full...)
Why would I tell this peson, I didn't love them ...when I really do!
Q. Have you ever told someone who you really loved and said that you didnt love them but you do but you told them that you didnt even tho you do? If you do love the person but you tell them that you dont to there face but you didnt mean it (and i d...
A. 12 December 2006: if the words came out of your mouth, then chances are that you dont TRULY love that person. evaluate your love. make a chart of good things and bad things about this person, then mabe you will find out why you said that.... (read in full...)
I like him and he said I'm special, but he got with my friend! I don't know what to do.
Q. I feel really upset at the moment, because this boy i really liked, got with my friend on saturday on her 15. me and him like muck around, he said he loved me. we've been quite far and i have given him head. but i want more with him, i want him ...
A. 12 December 2006: forget about him, and your friend. i have been told that i am special too, by all of the guys i've slept with. that is why they say that, to get into your pants. appreciate yourself and stop thinking "oh if i make him cum he will love me". use the ... (read in full...)
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