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writes: Have you ever told someone who you really loved and said that you didnt love them but you do but you told them that you didnt even tho you do?If you do love the person but you tell them that you dont to there face but you didnt mean it (and i dont mean joking wise) What would have been the reason for telling the person in the first place? Reply to this Question
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reader, lovelikethis +, writes (12 December 2006):
if the words came out of your mouth, then chances are that you dont TRULY love that person. evaluate your love. make a chart of good things and bad things about this person, then mabe you will find out why you said that.
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reader, stina  +, writes (12 December 2006):
 Hey there Anon,
So let me get this straight - you're lying about loving someone? No, I personally have never done that. I think before you go telling someone you love them, that you should really mean it.
If you're telling someone you don't love him/her when you actually do have feelings of love, then it seems like you're protecting yourself from something. You need to find out why that is and address it.
The only thing I can say to this insanely confusing question is to be honest in your relationship. I honestly have no idea if I actually answered your question (lol), but I hope this helps you in some way or another.
Take care.
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reader, Manya +, writes (12 December 2006):
What's it called, a tautology? I think that maybe you are trying inadvertently
to test your person. Maybe you are afraid of being hurt -- that if you say you love them,
they won't say "I love you" back.So you say you don't love them even though you do? Maybe you need more assurance from the person.
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reader, Dr. Reality Check  +, writes (12 December 2006):
 Er, what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2006): Yes, feelings can easily get muddled up. You can feel angry about an argument and for a moment only feel that you don't love someone. Sometimes you again become aware of how much you love someone a minute later. It is just hard to "undo" what's been said, but you can prove your love to them again over time. Good luck
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