Can't get my boyfriend to stop being sneaky and watching porn behind my back!
Q. Hi folks, this is making me upset while i'm thinking about it but i can't get my boyfriend to stop sneakily watching porn. It's so upsetting because i lost my virginity to him but that doesn't mean we don't have amazing sex. We play lots and i ...
A. 7 May 2009: You'll have to be honest a lay the law down, you dont have a problem with it, its his attitude that is the problem.
Tell him how hurt you are and that he risks ruining your relationship as you feel he is not being honest and going behind your bac... (read in full...)
We're engaged so shouldn't I be his benefactor on his life insurance policy?
Q. My fiance` has just recently turned in his papers for benefits at his semi-new job. One of those benefits was life insurance. He rarely deals with his folks and out of curiosity, I asked when the last time he even talked to them was. His response ...
A. 6 May 2009: I can see why you are troubled - but as you are not married yet it is not relevant as you are not his next of kin.
Perhaps drop the subject and bring it up in a month or two calmly and just talk about whether it will be the same when you are marr... (read in full...)
Is he really just friends with this girl?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. I fully trusted him... he could go where ever he wanted, do whatever, and talk to whoever because I believed he would always be true to me. Then he began to mention a girl he had been ...
A. 6 May 2009: He should not be asking this girl to your place on their own when you are out. It seems a very odd thing to do.
I would confront him with your evedence and see how he reacts but my intuition tells me that he is up to something no good.
Sorry h... (read in full...)
My fiance won't let me see his email! Is this childish?
Q. My fiance refuses to let me see his email. He signs on under his own account on my computer. He says it is something that is "just his" and won't give me the password. We are both in our 40's. I think this is childish...or he's hiding something. The ...
A. 6 May 2009: He is hiding something. So why not ban him from using your computer?
He will only ever show you when he has got rid of any incriminating evidence and then make a bif show of how you have not trusted him.
I could read my guys emails if I want... (read in full...)
Questioning my partners use of the company mobile
Q. my partner recently went on a business trip. He uses a company mobile phone and when I ring it the ring is a british telephone ring. I have also rang his own mobile phone and that ring is the same as abroad. I confronted him about it and he said the ...
A. 6 May 2009: Why not ring the phone company without telling them who you are and ask them the question?
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Women all around him but he says he's just being friendly
Q. My boyfriend is says he quite honest and this is making me insecure. Weve spilt up a few times and things have happened where he done stuff. And even though were trying again i dont think i trust him. Here is what i mean. Everytime he goes somewhere ...
A. 6 May 2009: Why exactly are you with this idiot? Talk about big ego! Dump him, after all 100 other women have so there must be something wrong with him!Sounds a bit like a mummys boy to me.
There are loads of lovely men out there who dont have this problem,... (read in full...)
I told my parents that my little sister has been watching porn on the net. Did I do the right thing?
Q. I checked the history and saw that my little sister was checking out porn, but I didn't say anything and didn't tell my parents. I just gave her a blinded/empty warning.. I wanted to see it with my own eyes before I tell..... So yesterday I caught...
A. 6 May 2009: You did exactly the right thing. But get your parents to install a block on the computer so that she cant do this again.... (read in full...)
I've become so abusive and jealous since I got pregnant!
Q. hi everybody, this really sucks im in a relationship and hes great but im 7 months pregnant and lately im feeling so jealous and insecure cause sometimes he looks at other women and i feel so ugly if he leaves for 1 hr., im already thinking hes ...
A. 6 May 2009: Hi there
Dont worry its quite normal to feel horrible when you are pregnant. Its the hormones that can turn your feelings all over ther place.
Tell your man how you are feeling - that you are sensitive at the moment as you are getting bigger a... (read in full...)
I just cant see myself raising my daughter. I don't think I even love her.
Q. Hey, I'm basically wondering what's the best way to end a long term relationship when you don't want to give the real reason? Bit of background... I'm 18 and so is my boyfriend. We've been together for 5 years and we have a daughter who's 2....
A. 6 May 2009: You have got an awful lot on your plate for someone so young. No wonder you feel like this. I would go and see your doctor and explain the situation to them, they will be able to point you in the right direction. You may be right to get out of yo... (read in full...)
My heart is stuck on my teacher.
Q. I guess im stuck. Just out of luck. He's going to retire, and I don't know what to do. This isn't some question on what I should do to stop him, this is something about me. I can't live without him. Mr.Syre, the most amazing man of my life, tho...
A. 6 May 2009: Oh dear. You have a big crush. It happens to all of us at some time or other and when you are old a grey (like me!) you will look back and laugh at this - I PROMISE!
You have fallen head over heels in love but unfortuately with someone you cant... (read in full...)
Love my husband but feel the temptation to cheat on him with a co worker, what should I do?
Q. Help, I am married and I think my co-worker and I are falling for each other. I started a new job in a new country about 5 months ago. It was the first job I had in a long time where I've really enjoyed my colleagues and the work I've been doing,...
A. 6 May 2009: I agree with the others, dont get sexually involved with this man. You will regret it. Someone always gets hurt in the end - I know that you are receiving a lot of attention and are enjoying the romanitic flirting - who wouldn't BUT if you go too ... (read in full...)
Should I go on holiday with my partner to please him even though we have unresolved arguments?
Q. My partner of 2 years recently asked me to go on holiday with him. Our situation at the moment is not all that great, and we argue almost daily. I've never been abroad before and I have a phobia of flying, so if I'm actually going to do this I nee...
A. 6 May 2009: I'd sort your problems out first before you go on holiday - imagine it - you have the stress of the flight - being abroad and cant get home - with his family - AND you have an argemnet. Not much of a holiday is it?
I'd try to resolve your argument... (read in full...)
His ex still has control over him!
Q. I have been dating someone for 16 months. Relationship is wonderful except that his "ex" still has her control over him. He does not agree with this and it is a constant argument for us. He's out of the marriage because she cheated, lied and ...
A. 6 May 2009: They will always have to have some contact because of the child....but some people really have trouble letting go. Sounds to me that she does not want him but she does not want anyone else to have him either.
Shes just on an ego trip and wants to... (read in full...)
If he doesn't want to continue, why doesn't he say so?
Q. I just need help with this situation because I don’t know if I’m being paranoid or what. I’m 23, have never really had a proper relationship, so I don’t really know what’s considered normal, acceptable, etc. I’ve ‘dated’ guys in the past but it ...
A. 6 May 2009: I agree. Give him another 2 weeks but if he does this again dump him.
It is odd behaviour and a man who is mad keen will usually be really making an effort to see you when he can ( although admittedly some men do play games and like to act cool... (read in full...)
How do I handle her?
Q. My girlfriend that I have been dating for 8 months is starting to drive me crazy. She thinks that whenever there is something wrong its always about her. I know she loves me and i feel the same with her but it seems as though she is trying to get on ...
A. 6 May 2009: I think that she is high maintenance too! Some of us women do like to think that the world revolves around us and that we should have all our own way ( to be fair - some men are like that as well!!!)
You must be honest with her and tell her the ... (read in full...)
We only argue about my breasts!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we have been living together for the past 5 months. Since we began living together, he has started to get very upset when I wear strappy tops or anything that shows any sin around my ne...
A. 6 May 2009: I think that he is a bit of a control freak. If he cant handle this without getting so upset that he throws things around then there is something wrong with him.
Tell him that you are an adult and will dress how you like and if he does not like... (read in full...)
I need advice on breaking up with my violent boyfriend
Q. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years, of which we've lived together for 2. He's always been an "angry drunk", and last night he crossed the line. The beginning of the relationship, he would be angry, but direct it towards ...
A. 6 May 2009: I agree. You must get rid of him now. Its only a matter of time before he hits you, men like this always start in a small way and it gets worse and worse.
Go to the police and get a court injunction keeping him away from the house. It may not ... (read in full...)
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