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For a few months now my penis doesn't get fully erect, is this due to excessive porn watching?

Q.   Hello, I have a dilemma. I'm 15 and for a few months now, I have noticed that my penis will not get fully erected at all. I have been masturbating to porn for a while now and was wondering if it had anything to do with that. I have noticed tha...

A.   3 November 2008: Watching porn can be exciting but watching it all the time can lead to an unrealistic expectation about sex its not real maybe you know that and your body is telling you try not watching porn for awhile and focus on what kind of REAL woman you would ... (read in full...)

Can a marriage survive if you're more like brother and sister?

Q.   I am married to a lovely, caring man. The problem is I just don't love him anymore. I spend my time thinking I want to get divorced and I just can't shake the feeling we're wrong. When we have sex, I cry - it just feels wrong. We're good frie...

A.   23 September 2008: The real question is was there something that happened that changed for you and if hes as great as you say then try and fix it goood relationships are hard to come by now a days. We all at some point yearn for the newness but at the end of the day ... (read in full...)

I never told my boyfriend about the guy pinning me down making me do sexual things! I feel like I'm dying inside because of it.

Q.   My heart is breaking into a million pieces, and its all my fault. i have been with my bf for over 4 yrs, and jus over a month ago i made the biggest mistake of my life. i cant eat, i cant sleep, i jus feel like dying. i work with the same company my ...

A.   23 August 2008: invite your boyfreind over and sit him in front of the computer and let him read what you typed for us I suggest you leave the house tell him you love him and make him promise that hell read it till the end no matter how hard it is. Good Luck and ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm not good enough for my girlfriend. How can I be a great boyfriend?

Q.   Hey I've been going out with my girl for 3 months,we have a wonderful relationship but like all we have our ups and downs.. At some points I feel as if im not good enough for her She is basically anything a guy can ask for she's nice,smart,beaut...

A.   18 August 2008: Be yourself that should be enough ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 years old, going to have sex for the first time. What position is best?

Q.   I am 13 and me and My And My Boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 months now and i no he wants too have sex and so do i but i am a virgin so he will be my first. i am really scared.! What position is best for the first time? Everyone says ...

A.   7 August 2008: Frigid who cares what about being known as easy thats more of a pill to swallow. You could decide to wait and be a roll model for your freinds and teach and learn a valuable lesson about self control and the will to not do something that your unsure ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 years old, going to have sex for the first time. What position is best?

Q.   I am 13 and me and My And My Boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 months now and i no he wants too have sex and so do i but i am a virgin so he will be my first. i am really scared.! What position is best for the first time? Everyone says ...

A.   5 August 2008: whenI was thirteen my boyfreind wanted to have sex and I said no he of course cheated on me but I new how he felt about me if he cares for you he will wait My next boyfreind wnated to ahve sex and I said no and he respected me for it and I was glad ... (read in full...)

I've been seeing a married man for 6 years and I think he's talking to other girls online!

Q.   Hi: I have been seeing a married man for 6 years now, he tells me he loves me but he keeps chatting with women on line and wanting to get to know them better. When I ask him about he says it is not true but I know otherwise, what should I do?...

A.   5 August 2008: What did you expect for him to not cheat on his mistress hes a dog and you should be ashamed of yourself for sleeping with someones husband and you surely do deserve to have your own (husband)dont you think ... (read in full...)

Why won't by boyfriend tell his ex about us? He got her pregnant!

Q.   my boyfriend got his ex girlfriend pregnant while we were together i forgave him his son is now 6 months old and he goes to her house to see him..he says he doesnt want to tell his ex-girlfriend about us because she hates me and wont let him see his ...

A.   5 August 2008: My ex boyfreind kept me a secret for quite awhile then she found out he went over to her house to see the kids me being niave I believed it until one day she said well you to must be very happy and in love but what kind of a man is he if hes f___ing ... (read in full...)

My partners 16 year old daughter has stripped in front of me on two occasions. Do I tell her mother?

Q.   My partners 16 year old daughter has stripped naked in front of me on two occassions and i am confused as to tell her mother or not....

A.   18 July 2008: two times why not say something the first time be careful it could look bad in the eyes of the mother Id talk to the daughter if you can something like this should have been dealt with right away not after two times I would think if I was the mother ... (read in full...)

He's saying he'll give me all his love 'til the day I become someone's wife. What shall I do?

Q.   Hi all My boyfriend is in love with another girl. I want him to be mine. We were great friends for 2 years. He thought i don't care him, well cos i was very rude to him from the start to hide from him that i'm in love with him. He was shocked to h...

A.   18 July 2008: How r u gonna find anyone to love and marry u when your hangin on to a dream that he cant fulfil and by some freak chance that u do find someone youll b so confused and messed up from being with this ahole that youll screw it up because your used to ... (read in full...)

Living with my boyfriend but messing around with his friend!

Q.   Hi I'm a 22 year old male whos been with my boyfriend now for close on two years. I moved in with him last October and everythings been fine...until now. Last weekend I kissed one of his best friends and don't know what to do. I first met his ...

A.   18 July 2008: being in a committed realationship is about trust and respect now a days people have lost the concept of that and do whatever they choose with no regard with others shame on you how would u feel u shounldt do it again or tell your partner why hurt ... (read in full...)

He only comes to see me when I have money, why can't I leave him? Is this love?

Q.   I need to know why am I doing this repeated. My boyfriend, he fights with me over money, takes every penny I have to the last drop just to get what he wants. Realised now that he is married with a 1 year son and he claims to be married bcos of his s...

A.   18 July 2008: Oooooh my god u poor poor woman u deserve better think about what u wnat 4 yourself hes using u in every single way its not love ur in love with the dream of what u think he could b but he never will be what you need pick a dream 4 yourself one ... (read in full...)

He likes having sex with me but won't commit. What do I do?

Q.   i was wondering if i could get some help... i recently decided to break of a so called open releationship (though there was no sex involved just other stuff)as i didnt want to carry on playing second fiddle to his ex. he always said to me that ...

A.   18 July 2008: well hes happy isnt he there a phrase that goes like this If you love someone let them go if they come back they are your if they dont they never where good luck... (read in full...)

He's saying he'll give me all his love 'til the day I become someone's wife. What shall I do?

Q.   Hi all My boyfriend is in love with another girl. I want him to be mine. We were great friends for 2 years. He thought i don't care him, well cos i was very rude to him from the start to hide from him that i'm in love with him. He was shocked to h...

A.   15 July 2008: Im sorry but ARE YOU FOR REAL move on hes using you and if by some freak chance he leaves her and ends up with you chances are hell screw around on you too and if you dont want to hurt her then Dont and frankly you deserve better my god ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is now willing to have anal sex, now I need some advice, please.

Q.   Hello All, Well i am 27 and hve a gf. I want to do anal sex and i am kind of crazy for that. I like to see movie with anal sex, also i discuss the same with my gf. First she was not ready but now she said YES over the phone. Whenever we met she ...

A.   15 July 2008: It doesnt have to be a horrible painful thing what she should do is lie down on her stomach and you have to do all the work but very carefully and always use protection lubricant isnt necesarry when you have spit yes i know it sounds gross its the ... (read in full...)

What do I do when the love of my life won't give me the time of day?

Q.   me and my girlfriend have been going out for 5 months. during that time she ignored me the second week we were going out she cheated on me she has lied to me about many thing and last of all she is very aloof and rarely thinks bout peoples feelings ...

A.   12 July 2008: Sorry but she sounds like a spoiled brat Just think what shed be like if you got married and had kids WOW think long and hard and ask yourself if your in love with the dream or her and RUN good luck... (read in full...)

Is the any way to get over the anniversaries of our meeting?

Q.   Hey, I don't really know how to think and feel a moment. It's been just over a year since my first love left me, and just over 3 years since I first met her face-to-face (we met over the internet and had a long distance relationship for 2 year...

A.   12 July 2008: FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT it works say it in your head when you feel down and just fake it eventually you wont good luck... (read in full...)

I've had a few sexual partners but I have never had an orgasm, now I'm getting worried. What can I do?

Q.   I'm a 19 year old female, i've had a few sexual partners but i have never cum, i don't even know what it feels like. Is there anything wrong with me? My boyfriend doesnt seem to be bothered that i havent cum yet, but i keep thinking about it and ...

A.   12 July 2008: The best way to have an orgasm is to discover how to give yourself buy a pocket rocket and do some self discovery I never had them until.... and now i can have 15 in a row with my man but you also need to be sexually matched with your partner in ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and I were together, broke up, got back together, and then broke up. Is there any hope?

Q.   my boyfriend and i were together for about a year and living together for about 8 months. we had recently broken up for a week and then got back together. everything was great at first i mean we were gonna get a new place together and he was so ...

A.   12 July 2008: i did the very same thing for 5 years and its took me 7 to get over it and i still have scars that reappear from time to time what you have to realize is that your responsible for you and if you dont love yourself nobody else can change the locks ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and I were together, broke up, got back together, and then broke up. Is there any hope?

Q.   my boyfriend and i were together for about a year and living together for about 8 months. we had recently broken up for a week and then got back together. everything was great at first i mean we were gonna get a new place together and he was so ...

A.   12 July 2008: i did the very same thing for 5 years and its took me 7 to get over it and i still have scars that reappear from time to time what you have to realize is that your responsible for you and if you dont love yourself nobody else can change the locks ... (read in full...)

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