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writes:HiI'm a 22 year old male whos been with my boyfriend now for close on two years. I moved in with him last October and everythings been fine...until now. Last weekend I kissed one of his best friends and don't know what to do. I first met his friend about twelve months ago and we instantly got on, but I didnt see him again until about two months ago, when we went out for a meal with my boyfriend and his boyfriend and it was then I noticed how nice he was and I caught him looking at me a few times but didn't think anything of it at the time. Then two weekends ago he came round for a few drinks with me and my my boyfriend, but my boyfriend went to bed about 2am and we stayed up drinking. Nothing happened this night, but we were flirting with each other and play fighting with cushions and he travelled on the bus with me to work, when it took him out of his way. I thought I imagined the spark between us, but last weekend he came around while my boyfriend was out with work and we watched films and drank quite a lot. After my boyfriend came home and went to bed, we stayed up again and ended up kissing each other. I felt really bad and he did too, but a part of me wanted it to happen. While I walked him home, we ended up kissing again and played a game of dare, which ended in both of us getting naked, but nothing sexual happened. When we got to his house we admitted we'd been naughty and that it probably shouldn't have happened, but I can't stop thinking about him. I seen him two nights ago when the four of us went out, but we were both quite quiet with each other and on one occasion I caught him looking at me...I don't know what to do..I need advice!!!
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reader, Sisyphus  +, writes (20 July 2008):
 You don't seem so keen on your boyfriend but are excited by this new guy. Do the right thing by yourself and your BF, breakup with him. THEn see if this new guy is interested.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (18 July 2008):
 you dont mention much about your boyfriend other than that you live with him. is this his sole purpose-as a flatmate, or do you like him? do you love him? its important to know to offer you advice.
it sounds to me that your boyfriend is just a piece of the furniture, and this new horizon acctually excites you. if you want to go for it do so if it will make you happy but be aware that your living arangements may become a problem and there will be fallout when a best friend steals your boyfriend. i would consider taking my friends partner unacceptable...
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reader, loria  +, writes (18 July 2008):
being in a committed realationship is about trust and respect now a days people have lost the concept of that and do whatever they choose with no regard with others shame on you how would u feel u shounldt do it again or tell your partner why hurt him with your selfishness
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reader, bebe girlie  +, writes (17 July 2008):
Go for it ! .. Life is short isnt it?
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