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i have been through some real bad times in my life, i can help with most problems as i am very good with practical things. i try to put myself in the place of the person asking the question.

i live in england.

seeing people stress free makes me happy.

i am in a relationship.

Does it hurt alot?

Q.   hey i was just wondering for those of you females out there...if you could tell me how bad a bakini wax hurts??? my mom offered to pay for my first one and im thinking about getting it down in the next day or two....any comments, ...

A.   9 August 2007: go for it, if u dont experience pain, how will you know what feels amazing compared to just good.... (read in full...)

His best friend is female.

Q.   MY BOYFRIEND HAVE A FEMALE BESTFRIEND, WHAT ADVICE CAN YOU GIVE ME?...

A.   9 August 2007: my bf's best mate is a girl and he only has a few good friends that r blokes really, this to me feals great cuz i know he is more understanding about girly stuff, period pains the usual stuff! i know he would never cheat because we love each other, ... (read in full...)

She has got looser, is she cheating?

Q.   i suspect that my wife is cheating on me.her vagina has become looser suddenly.it was tighter for more than one year after the birth of our one and only child.is my suspicion right?...

A.   9 August 2007: i agree with aunt em, she is going through changes after her pregnancy, maybe that is how tight she will stay now, if u were that worried about her tightness u should've forked out for a private sesarian. ... (read in full...)

How do I get passed the feelings I'm having?

Q.   How do I get passed the feelings I'm having? Everytime this one person gets mentioned (one of my girlfriend's exes, let's say Tim) I feel very low and get vivid imagages of the two of them together. This is due to my girlfriend who shared her past...

A.   9 August 2007: truth is she probably doesnt even think she is doin it half the time. i would just ignore it and change the conversation, if she starts on about tim again (u know who i mean) if that fails... talk to her i agree with skeez, yes communication is key ... (read in full...)

After one night of smothering me with attention, my boyfriend hasn't contacted me!

Q.   Hey. On my 15th birthday my boyfriend was all over me and got really close to me and i can't say i didn't like it cause i did but the following mornin he left really early but said a few things that made me think he regreted his behavior. He pays me ...

A.   9 August 2007: because he is young and doesnt fully understand, remember guys mature slower than girls so he wont be thinking on the same level as you anyway. this time next year he'll be old news. trust me and forget about it, it was good while it lasted, and a ... (read in full...)

I'm unhappy! Do I lie to myself and stay with him or let him go?

Q.   i have been in a relationship for ten months with my current boyfriend and i am not sure if i should let him go or keep him around and lie to myself that im happy and everything will get better later on because right now i am very unhappy and i dont ...

A.   9 August 2007: first of all you need to get the ex out of your head. u broke up for a reason, secondly, if it isn't working, why r u having 2nd thoughts, because i think it is great at some points and your just having a down moment. everybvody gets them. id try ... (read in full...)

My partner is unwilling to stand up to her difficult daughter!

Q.   I've been with my partner for about 5 years now and her daughter has always been a bit off. About eighteen months ago without a word of explanation she stopped talking to us (her mother and myself) and prevented her from having any contact with...

A.   9 August 2007: this makes me angry. i wished sumtimes my step dad would butt out, so i'd say let the family get on with things, its not really your place to say anything, yes u r the boyfriend but you arent the grandfather. and the daughters wishes will always ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has been texting other women in secret!

Q.   ive just found out recently that my boyfriend has been texting other women in secret and it has crushed me i have been trying to forgive him as he said there was nothing in it.all the trust i had has gone and i have a knot in my stomach the size of ...

A.   9 August 2007: i had this happen to me, but the girls were sending my bloke pics of their privates, (not nice to see on his mobile) i regret not ending it there n then n sticking around to find he is a cheating moron, sometimes your heart just wont let go! i know ... (read in full...)

We have sex 3 times a week... how many times is it therefore normal for him to please himself?

Q.   Can someone please tell me what would be "reasonable" and "normal" number, for a guy in a relationship (have sex about 3 times weekly or even more when schedules are not so busy) to mastrubate? Lets say we have great sex three times a week. What ...

A.   9 August 2007: yes everyone is different but the males sexual peak is in there 20's. personally my view on this is... my bf is 28 and we have sex 3 times a day. we have it at 6am before work, then sometimes we meet up for a quicky at lunch, we do it somewhere ... (read in full...)

He's getting married to someone else..Kicking myself for not telling him how I feel for him! How can I deal with this?

Q.   A few years back my best friend proposed to me. At that time,I did not feel anything. But some time in the last year or so, I believe I have fallen for him. Just when I wanted to tell him, he informed me that he is getting married. Now I am ...

A.   9 August 2007: maybe yes you shouldve taken his offer but there is nothing worse then marrying for the wrong reasons. you should always marry for love, it seems to me (please donot take offence) he was in a rush to marry. if you truly love him then let him go. ... (read in full...)

My bf's friend is scummy and keeps hitting on me! How can I make this stop?

Q.   Hi. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. His best friend, someone he's known since he was little, will not stop hitting on me. He openly asks to have sex with me, asks to see me naked, and to have threesomes with his girlfriend -- ...

A.   9 August 2007: put your foot down. tell the boyfriend... i wont see you whilst he's around. end of. he'll soon take the hint that you dont like him and his mate will have to change sooner or later. you dont wanna give your bf too much of an autimatum (cant spell) ... (read in full...)

She's married, I'm a straight female, but I can't get a 'prior' kissing incident with her, out of my head!

Q.   Right im 24 f and i have the best mate ever she is 37 dead down to earth easyin goin funny and SEXY.. now that the problem im straight and she is married but last year we kiss-snog it were quick but never been meantions again and i cant get her out ...

A.   9 August 2007: you done it once you can do it again, i would bring it up in a conversation, i'd make her laugh n giggle a bit to break the ice, and then say, am i a good kisser cuz i dont think iam. just act insecure n if she leans in to kiss you GO FOR IT! good l... (read in full...)

After 5 years, last night he said he loved me, while having sex, for the first time ever! Where did that come from?

Q.   Hi! How is everyone today? Okay, I have a question for you all, being I am unable to find an answer no matter where I go or who I ask. So, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly five years now. We were more like best bed buddies up until one year ...

A.   9 August 2007: something has happened to your bloke, maybe a bit of a shock! but a good one and now he is realising how good everything is and how much he actually loves you, it takes alot for a bloke to say they love you, especially during sexytime. my bf says it ... (read in full...)

Am I gay, straight, or just gender confused?

Q.   Hi, I'm having a bit of a tough time. I feel attracted to guys physically and emotionally, but since I was 5 I've imagined dating girls. I was a bit of a tomboy and use to pretend to be a boy. Recently I've been attracted to one girl in particular. ...

A.   9 August 2007: when i was younger i was confused, i think we all get confused about everything from time to time, thats why there are sites like this. if you get turned down by this girl then at least you tried, if you cant bring yourself to do it then id say you ... (read in full...)

I'm 2 months pregnant but I don't know if the baby I am carrying is my fiancee's or secret lover's!

Q.   I have been cheating on my fiance of 1 year with a man who is currently married to a friend of the family. They have been married for 10 years and have 2 kids. I had a baby on Jan. 10th and I don't really know who fathered my child. Is it my fiance ...

A.   8 August 2007: i cant really answer this but i'd say... shut up. u dont wanna ruin 2marriages least of all your own, count our blessings n b happy u have a child, i know i would x x x when and if u have a break up with your husband at ne point tell him then, if u ... (read in full...)

While drunk, he admitted to still being in love with his ex. He and I been together 4 years and have a son!

Q.   My boyfriend's wife/soulmate threw him out after 15 years of marriage. We got together 4 years ago and have a son together. He still jumps when she asks for anything, and uses their children to get what she wants. She has recently split with her ...

A.   8 August 2007: i would go with my heart, tell him to go to her. this will make him see your worth fighting for. men r wierd like that! u know him well enough as youve been with him for 3yrs, i'd let my heart lead on this. honestly x x x ... (read in full...)

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