I cannot accept porn versus my own esteem.
Q. I have awful body image issues. This is very embarrassing. I have a boyfriend who loves me and I know he watches porn on Redtube. He's told me so. He knows I'm insecure, but he doesn't understand it. Now, I don't nag him about this, but I feel very ...
A. 25 February 2009: also sweetie can i just add- magaizine porn is mostly airbrushed, and have you ever looked at yourself on cam, when you know you look good one minute and look bad the next - well the whole point of porn is ever only to catch the good sides, y... (read in full...)
I cannot accept porn versus my own esteem.
Q. I have awful body image issues. This is very embarrassing. I have a boyfriend who loves me and I know he watches porn on Redtube. He's told me so. He knows I'm insecure, but he doesn't understand it. Now, I don't nag him about this, but I feel very ...
A. 25 February 2009: i know this sounds hard but , in my opinion(thats all it is hunny) the only reason guys like porn is that its fantasy- theres no way in this world that i look like anyting my partner watches-no way- but i feel, at least hes looking at it as a f... (read in full...)
Online dating!
Q. Has anyone had any good outcomes from online dating? I started online dating in September 2008 and met someone in November, it didn't work out and shes put me off for life :(. She was very insecure and has major ex boyfriend issues, I didn't find ...
A. 16 February 2009: do you have msn ?
spend a bit of time chatting on there or something like that ,
just talk about random things.
as for getting to know some one before meeting,
you wont really know them until you meet,
i say when ever you were both comfortabl... (read in full...)
I am not happy with her double standards!
Q. I have a girlfriend of over 4 years. She has 2 kids (18 and 20) due to her request of no sex or sleeping over while the kids were in the house, until they were 18 years old. This request was made years ago. Now that they are both of age I told her ...
A. 16 February 2009: i think you are right in being upset, if her daugther can go behind closed doors, i see nothing wrong with you staying over the night, you have been together for four years? its not like shes bringing different guys home and setting a bad exampl... (read in full...)
Can women and men just be friends?
Q. does anyone think men and women can just be friends?...
A. 23 December 2008: i used to think that was possible, but recently , iv found that it isnt always,
a few weeks ago , a guy friend i 'had' came round for a few drinks with me and my boyfriend, when my boyfriend went to bed, this guy told me that the only reason he was ... (read in full...)
Any advice on this guy that just broke up with his girlfriend?
Q. this guy i like just finished with his gf last night iv liked him for ages and hes always seemed to flirt with me last night he told my pal about his break up then how he liked me she told him to tell me cos i like him to but he said he di...
A. 23 December 2008: you should probably give this guy a bit of space, depending on how long him and his ex were together and how they felt about each other can affect how things work between you two, you could end up being his rebound girl - thats not a fun thing ... (read in full...)
Lesbian's girlfriend's love has faded and now she seems to have feeling for a new guy.
Q. My girlfriend, let's call her 'W', and I have been officially a couple together for 2 years (we were friends for 7 years so our friendship foundation is very strong) but last month, she emailed her friend to tell her that she has developed some ...
A. 23 October 2008: i think that first reply was a bit unfair,
you said you might of been neglecting her when dealing with family problems,,
how long was this for ?
when she asked for space, did you really leave her alone?
as i know from personal experiance... (read in full...)
Are we cousins? Please help. I'm confused, hope you're not!
Q. I have a question, please help me? So here it goes, my aunty's mom was married to my aunty's husband, and she has a kid from my aunty's husband, and the kid wants to ask me out, but im afraid that he is my cousin. Does that make him my cousin? ...
A. 23 October 2008: erm ....i think then that this guy could be your cousin! have you asked your mum or auntie or any one about this?
you dont have to tell them why , just tell them your doing a family tree or somthing like that.
but ,depending on the laws in your... (read in full...)
A boy I liked a lot, broke up with me, now likes my best friend, what do I do noe?
Q. Hi . Yeaa Im young , believe me i know it , but it seems lately that everything i hope for and anything that makes me happy , suddenly goes wrong for no apparent reason , i feel like im not meant to be happy :( I recently dated a boy that i reall...
A. 20 October 2008: the only advice i can think of for you hunny is ,
try and for get about him ,
try and find somthing to get you out of the house and keep your mind off him and other things.
everyone meets that guy that they like a lot -it doesnt last very... (read in full...)
I've really fallen for my boss!! What do I do??
Q. I've really fallen for my boss, however, if we get together it will result in him losing his job. He's quite a lot older than me, however, i really really like him, i'm infatuated with him and he's in my head all the time. He'll make comments to...
A. 2 July 2008: catdog, lucy lou, i noticeed it was a month ago u guys were having boss problems , im going through the same thing now , do you guys have any adivce?
im fed up of being shouted ta on here cause of how i feel about my boss ..cheers guys ?xx... (read in full...)
Can my mom have him arrested for statutory rape?
Q. Okay I seriously need to know the answer to this question. Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19 and we've been dating for about 3 months. My mom is accusing us of having sex and is threatening to get him for statutory rape. He told me that she it's ...
A. 2 July 2008: you could show this to your mum,
what is the legal age in your state?
the phrase statutory rape is a general term used to describe non-forcible sexual relations that take place when an individual (regardless of age or gender) has sexual r... (read in full...)
My ex, his new interest and his friend are making my life horribly hard. How can I cope?
Q. Hello everyone. Heres my situation and im going to keep it very very short and to the point...my ex, his new interest and his friend have been giving me a really hard time for the past few months and I need some help to cope with it all. Ok so m...
A. 1 July 2008: oh my god thats a really hard one ?
first of all his friend that is your friend, get rid, as much as you guys may get on, just cut it off, explain to him that if hes going to constanly update you about them, that your friendship will not work... (read in full...)
Did I cheat or did I not cheat? I'm so confused....
Q. Ok, so the guy that I am dating (but he claims we are not in a relationship "JUST dating") stopped speaking to me for two weeks. I thought he was not coming back. History: Long story short, (about 3 years ago) I was married for a year and my no...
A. 1 July 2008: this happened to my sister and her ex, he was an amazing guy, but one day he just upped and disapered for a week, no one knew were he was , my sister was devastated, rang all the hospitlas his friends and everything.
as i said he was amazing , so t... (read in full...)
Is it worth pursuing a relationship with my cousin when we are both interested?
Q. i remember driving down the road a couple of years ago, thats when it all started, i saw a guy,only from a side angle,i thought he was gorgeous,i couldnt keep my eyes off him,i wanted to see his face more than anything,but the lights changed and we ...
A. 1 July 2008: hey guys thanks for the answers, i gave it alot of thought , and iv not doen anything about it, more of the fact that i dont wana loose him as a friend, i love him too much for that ... maybe in a few years time ill see how i still feel , and if i... (read in full...)
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