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writes:I've really fallen for my boss, however, if we get together it will result in him losing his job.He's quite a lot older than me, however, i really really like him, i'm infatuated with him and he's in my head all the time.He'll make comments to me, such as, that my legs are distracting him etc etc.I know we can't be together, he's married, has children and the age gap is massive. What do I do?
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reader, lianne x  +, writes (2 July 2008):
 catdog, lucy lou, i noticeed it was a month ago u guys were having boss problems , im going through the same thing now , do you guys have any adivce?
im fed up of being shouted ta on here cause of how i feel about my boss ..cheers guys ?xx
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reader, wildman  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 Why are you infatuated with him? Does he treat you special or some other reason. How much age difference is there 20 years maybe?
Is he really harrassing you or do you lead him on with the comments? You probably need to look at why you are after him? I think you should look elsewhere for a companion. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008): File a sexual harassment suit against him....it is inappropriate for a boss in a position of authority to make sexual comments or comments about your body and that it is distracting him from work.
He is a sleaze, trust me you aren't the first chippy that he has had eyes for at work, probably a whole string of brokenhearted women that he has used and they lost their jobs...trust me he won't be the one losing his job if you got together, you would, and his wife would see to it that he fired you the minute she found out or even had suspicions that he was flirting with you.
Wise up, stop paying him any attention or thinking about this unavailable asshole....get a different job outside the company or demand to be moved to a different department where you don't have any contact with him.
The only one that stands to get hurt here is YOU.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008): You get your mind sorted out immediately!
You are heading for disaster, not only will you get hurt but you are risking hurting his wife, innocent children, his career. Is that worht it?
Get these fantasies out of your head, stop thinking about him, if need be change jobs!
I suggest you contact a terapist in your area, or get councelling, get help; before you hert yourself and others!
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