He's out of my league!
Q. So I started talking to this guy a few months ago. I never thought he could like me because i just feel he's out of my league, but he's shy and he's hot but doesn't know it if you know what i mean. Our conversations have included: -Aski...
A. 28 December 2010: There's no such thing as a League and being out of someone's league, but I know the feeling you're describing. That sounds like you have a self-confidence issue regarding your looks. It's probably normal to feel that way but since he's only willing ... (read in full...)
How long does it take to get divorced and who pays for it?
Q. How long does the average divorce process take and what all does it involve if there is a child in the middle? when the parents have a mutual agreement on child support payments and visitation, do the parents still have to pay for the divorce? I...
A. 28 December 2010: It varies state by state, country by country. My divorce included a 4 year long custody battle so took about 5 years total. it took me 3 years to pay for the danged thing. but who pays? EVERYBODY PAYS, the couple, their kids, their family members ... (read in full...)
At 16, should I have already started having relationships?
Q. i am a 16 year old guy and i have never had any type of relationship with a girl. i haven't even kissed one and most of my friends have already, well you know. is this normal or should i hurry it up?...
A. 28 December 2010: Take your time. I didn't have a girlfriend until I was 17, and it was kind of a disaster. I didn't have sex until later, after all my other friends, and I think I turned out ok. There's no sense in rushing it - dang you're young, and you have so ... (read in full...)
Do women's sex drives fall off in their mid 30s?
Q. The conventional wisdom seems to be that a woman's sex drive peaks in her early 30s. Is this consistent with people's actual experiences? I've had an on/off relationship with my girfriend (35 years old) for about 8 years (we were "off" for about ...
A. 28 December 2010: Your sex drive may have already peaked. If you're no longer interested in sex, it could be the other stuff you have going on in your life: work, stress, kids, money, whatever. Or it could be a change in your hormones. See a doctor because in some ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I need space! My girlfriend just doesn't understand!
Q. So me and my girlfriend have been together for about 4 years now, first 2 years were fine but the last 2 are getting worse, always trying to look through my phone on who I talk to and what about, everytime I plan something with friends she pulls the ...
A. 28 December 2010: Sounds like your girlfriend has trust issues. If you really care about her, and yourself, then she has no need to worry about you spending a little bit of time by yourself and with friends. Have you been to couple's therapy? Is she taking medication ... (read in full...)
I don't want this problem to keep going on!
Q. So I am completely new to this but here it goes... I have been seeing a guy for a year and a half. Starting out we had an amazing relationship. We were both comming out of marriages... his 8 years mine 2. He left me and went back to his ex twice, ...
A. 28 December 2010: Practice this line in front of a mirror before confronting him: "Adios, Amigo. You make me feel bad by leaving me over and again, so I am through with you. Have fun with your other conquests - I'm going to meet someone who gets me, who cares enough ... (read in full...)
Should I tell dad that his new fiancee is the same girl I had sex with at a drunken frat party?
Q. i met this really hot girl at a frat party and we got drunk and had sex. she was a year older and graduated a few months later so nothing after that happened. my parents got divorced a year later and when my dad started dating he got engaged with ...
A. 28 December 2010: What the heck is your dad doing engaged to someone who is essentially your age? That's kind of messed up (and inappropriate). Of course I'd tell him. Go into the details of your drunken hookup - and you don't need to skirt around the issues: let him ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with the idiot but now he has a girlfriend!
Q. I dated this guy for almost six months. Things were going great, we had the best of times...then all of a sudden, stupid me decides to break up with him because I took something that he said completely wrong...and, well, i didn't want him back for a ...
A. 28 December 2010: Maybe you'll get him back, but really you should find someone new. If you guys still like each other in 6 months or a year, great. But if he's going to try to connect with new people, you'd be foolish to squander your opportunity to check out other ... (read in full...)
Am I outgrowing occasional sex?
Q. About 4 years ago just after university, I had what I thought was a one night stand with an acquaintance who was in town over the weekend. At times over the years, he has come into town and propositioned me (sublety). Sometimes I said I couldn't ...
A. 28 December 2010: Sounds like you're growing up. You would prefer to be in a real, honest, sharing relationship and casual sex just doesn't fill that need. There's no reason to feel guilty - you're an adult engaging in consensual behavior - but there's also little ... (read in full...)
Are chivalry and fidelity things of the past?
Q. After getting my heart broken about a year and a half ago. Am I naïve to still believe in chivalry and fidelity? ...
A. 28 December 2010: Fidelity and Chivalry are still alive and well... in our collective imagination. One tends to think of the knights of the round table, but recall it was Sir Lancelot who fell in love with King Arthur's wife and caused her unfaithfulness. Having an ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend broke up saying he needed to find himself
Q. My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago - his reason being that he needs to "find himself". He hasn't been himself for the past 6 months - he's been confused about his feelings, his career path, etc and feels that he is no longer g...
A. 28 December 2010: I wouldn't hold your breath. He's obviously got some growing up to do, and if someone needs their space, give it to them. You might want to look at getting your own place. Whenever I've been in a position where someone wanted more freedom (to date ... (read in full...)
Whos the daddy? Should I find out? Or keep it in the closet for a later date?
Q. I am 30 partner 31 we are not married. Backstory- We dated for two years and had moved in with each other, and was still in the experimental sex mode when I found out we had fallen pregnant. With twins. We had a foursome(completly protected- co...
A. 28 December 2010: You should get a DNA test to know for certain. My ex-wife was pissed that I spent $500 to find out if my daughter was mine or someone else's, but I _needed_ to know and didn't want it hanging over me. It's pretty obvious that she was mine based on ... (read in full...)
My aunt's father in law made inappropriate comments and now I feel really uneasy around him!
Q. I have a bit of a problem. Over the holidays me and my relatives went to visit my aunt's in-laws and their family, who I used to feel comfortable around. They're usually nice and welcoming people, so I had no reason not to like them. But, on t...
A. 28 December 2010: You can either let his statements bother you, or you can move beyond them and just ignore the jerk. I know it's difficult to do sometimes, but one shouldn't let others control how they feel. However, you probably should get your bad feelings off ... (read in full...)
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