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*andy_kane
writes:I dated this guy for almost six months. Things were going great, we had the best of times...then all of a sudden, stupid me decides to break up with him because I took something that he said completely wrong...and, well, i didn't want him back for a while. Had no idea why. But now he has a girlfriend and I am going crazy because I suddenly realize that I am inlove with the idiot. Will I ever get him back?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (28 December 2010):
 He's moved on like you should. You just want what you can't have. It's natural, especially after a break up.
You two had your chance. It didn't work. Hopefully you'll have better luck with the next guy. If you really do love him, you wouldn't be calling him an idiot. You would also want his happiness first and foremost. Let him be happy.
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reader, lawyerbait +, writes (28 December 2010):
 Maybe you'll get him back, but really you should find someone new. If you guys still like each other in 6 months or a year, great. But if he's going to try to connect with new people, you'd be foolish to squander your opportunity to check out other people by instead sitting at home ruminating over what you DON'T have with that guy. You're still young, and there's so many things you haven't seen and done and experienced. So make some new friends, even boyfriends, and learn about what you want and need. If the idiot comes calling a year from now, awesome - but maybe you'll outgrow him in the meantime.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2010): No, I don't think you'll get back together with him and I don't think you should try. I think you should take a loss with him and move on.
I don't believe you're in love with him either, I think you're jealous of what you're missing out on...given your feelings only started when he started seeing someone else.
Sounds like you should move on too.
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