I'm scared of being on my own and I think that's making me too clingy with friends!
Q. I have a problem which I experience a lot and it is that I'm just too dependant on everyone in my life. I hate being on my own and I feel so pathetic all the time because I need someone there to talk to or to do something with, as I get bored and ...
A. 29 September 2005: Don't worry most people are afraid to be own their own and the thought of it scares us especially if we are so used to people being around us. Don't be ashamed that you want and love being in company but the only thing here would be not to be too ... (read in full...)
I'm confused over how to act when I have dinner with my ex...
Q. Hi all, I am having dinner with my ex (we're on a break) this Monday, and for the last few months, I have made it clear that I am serious about my intentions with her. The last time I spoke with her, she could have told me it was over, or she ...
A. 27 September 2005: A women wants a confident and assertive man in their lives, we like to chase a man and love a man in control, so that is how you should be when you have dinner. You don't have to be off towards her just understanding to her needs aswel as yours. ... (read in full...)
Are we breaking up, or just taking a break?
Q. My girlfriend and I are on the verge of breaking up. We have been together for close to two years. Our stages in life are different. She has her career started and I don't have a steady job. We live together and she pays for all the bills until I ...
A. 27 September 2005: Sometimes people in a relationship need to have a break, the first 2 years are the hardest in every relationship and as yours is coming into the 2nd year it could just be the case that your partner needs a break, it can sometimes be the best thing ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my attraction? Do I say something or keep it to myself?
Q. I met a man just two weeks ago (at work). He is amazing. He has been dating someone for the past two years though. I don't want to come between him and his girlfriend but I want to let my feelings be known. Is this something I should keep to ...
A. 27 September 2005: Tread carefully here, the last thing you want is to get together with a man who cheats on his partner to be with you because you will never be secure in this relationship. keep your feeling to yourself for the time being and just be friends. A great ... (read in full...)
It just seems wrong that my girlfriend wants to hang out with her ex!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 4 months. I am so in love with her and have asked her to move in with me. She has been with quite a few men before, including a one night stand with a guy she used to work with. She is still friends with this guy ...
A. 27 September 2005: Firstly if you trust her a 100% then this shouldn't be an issue. If this realy bothers you, you must tell her other wise she won't think it is a problem. If she is going to her ex's party suggest you go with so you can both get a night out. If she ... (read in full...)
Three in a bed and we were all drunk. I swear I thought it was my boyfriend touching me!
Q. I have done a really bad thing and I just don't know what to do! The other night my Boyfriend of 4 and a half years and myself stayed with one of our very close male friends. We shared his bed, which we have done before. I was in the middle. We w...
A. 27 September 2005: Firstly listen to yourself not your friend, you didn't do anything wrong so there is no need to keep this from your boyfriend , he will be upset but with this so called friend. If you keep it from your boyfried and some how it comes out , he will ... (read in full...)
Plenty of sex with my boyfriend, but no orgasms while we're at it. What's wrong?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for two years. I have never achieved an orgasm during sex. He has made me orgasm using his hands and usually after sex he will "finish me off". This is always nice but lately I've been feeling a bit turned off and fed ...
A. 26 September 2005: It is true that alot of women experience this problem but there are many ways to get get an orgasm in bed. Before we go on to the bed senario , try a few things firstly and alot of women might or might not know this but Take a relaxing bath firstly ... (read in full...)
Stuck in the middle... Do I choose with my heart or my head?
Q. Never, ever felt so utterly confused in my life. At least there are no kids involved. I married my partner, Tom - not real name - (of 6 years) 2 and a half years ago. I never so much as looked at anyone and 'thought' I was happy...until someone ...
A. 26 September 2005: The only way to know what situation is right for you would be if both your heart and your head are telling you the same thing. Giving your marriage another go might be the right thing to do in some cases but if you don't love your husband it isn't ... (read in full...)
How do I pick just one of the 2 girls I like?
Q. I like this girl, and she knows I like her, but I also like another girl in the same way. I am torn between the two of them. Both are single and flirt with me in their own ways (so I am told by friends). I am really close with one of them, but not ...
A. 25 September 2005: picture yourself with each girl , tally up what you have in common with them firstly, find out what they want from a relationship, what their likes and dislikes are, ask them questions about themselves, see how interested they are when you talk ... (read in full...)
Could my pubic hair be off-putting to guys, even though it's tidy?
Q. I have pubic hair insecurities. I am an attractive 23year old girl who is confident with my body, however I am afraid that my pubic hair could be unattractive! I know this sounds dumb, but how important is it to a guy? I wax my bikini line to k...
A. 25 September 2005: if you feel its too coars them condition it with hair conditioner to make it soft and a trim every now and them . the colour is not important believe me it's the last thing on their mind , it's whats behind it that matters to them. don't worry you ... (read in full...)
I didn't specifically state "no lap dances", but I think it's cheating anyway...
Q. My boyfriend had a one night stand 2 years ago. I had a lot of trust issues, but I gave him a second chance! I have just found out that he has been going to lap dancing bars since this period. While we hardly set down what he can and cannot do, he ...
A. 25 September 2005: being in a healthy relationship, shouldn't be about rules about what he can and can not do because he'll feel trapped and restricted and he'll do it anyway. if he's cheated once , it's possible he'll cheat again but it's not always the case but the ... (read in full...)
My ex wants to stay friends, but she also wants to prevent me going out with her best friend!
Q. My ex-girlfriend has a new boyfriend but she is jealous because I want to go out with her best friend. We stayed friends after we broke up and talk on the phone a lot, but she is always trying to make me jealous and I'm not that kind of person. What ...
A. 25 September 2005: it's best to stay clear of your ex's friends, not only will it cause problems between you and your ex, it could more than likely end their friendship and yours. she has a boyfriend but it seems she might still be holding onto the feelings she ... (read in full...)
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