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writes: I like this girl, and she knows I like her, but I also like another girl in the same way. I am torn between the two of them. Both are single and flirt with me in their own ways (so I am told by friends).I am really close with one of them, but not so with the other. Somebody help me please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2005): somebody once told me to do what FEELS right... if your heart doesn't show you the way then maybe its not the right time...
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reader, wwww.datinghaven.com +, writes (25 September 2005):
durrrr!
Pick the one you close with, thats the one you personally have more feelings for.
If that relationship fails then im sure you can choose the other one, but simply dont make it seem like she was second best, you would need to say that she was the one for you and that you simply made a mistake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2005): When you really like someone there is nobody else, you just know it. If you have feelings for both, and you actually want a real relationship then you should just lay low for a while. Rushing into something will just complicate things and may close some of your options. I suggest getting to know both girls, try to hang out with them one on one a lil bit. A good way to do this without leading them on too much is to start with something small like lunch. You may find that one of them isn't really what you thought they were.
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reader, laurette +, writes (25 September 2005):
picture yourself with each girl , tally up what you have in common with them firstly, find out what they want from a relationship, what their likes and dislikes are, ask them questions about themselves, see how interested they are when you talk about yourself and things in general. get to know them both as friends and you will be drawn to the one you feel the most closeness to . if you stil can't make a decission, then move on but whatever you do , do not decide to date both because that is a disaster waiting to happen and you will end up loosing in the end.
good luck.... you heart will tell you....go with your instinct and who you think you would be most proud and happy to be with... don't worry too much you will be drawn to the one whom you heart cares for most....
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2005): There is no need to chose at this point. You don't know either of them well enough. Try spending ssome time with one of them and just see how it goes.
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