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writes:Ok I'm in need of help... Heres the long story short. I was with my girl friend for about a year. She is two years older then me and she and I have both been thru a lot in past relationships. She and I both agree that what we shared together was something, that something being love. She and I also both agree that we have never been in love with any one else in our pasts so this is something special. We broke up last wednesday because she was not acting like her self And while we were drinking, I turned the tv off and asked her why she hasn't been herself lately. She poured another glass of wine and poured me another glass of whiskey and she told me that she was scared, that what she was feeling was scary, and that at points in time she felt smothered by me and she believed that I was more in love with her then she was with me. She finished off with "and i want you to know that I'm not breaking up with you"... Well my stupid drunk ass asked her how is that not breaking up with me?! You aren't sure how you feel and your not sure you love me as much and I love you... Mistake!!! Because she took that into consideration and we broke up that night... I told her that I should leave but her better judgment of just how drunk I was made me stay the night. She fell asleep in my arms, in the morning we woke up , and started kissing and next thing you know, BAM!!!! we are having sex... When I make her come she is begging me to come too... When it's all done and over with she takes a shower before she has to leave for work.. And when she is done in the shower we have a talk about our relationship and she leaves it at we are on a break.. 5 days go by before we talk and she finally calls me to meet her for drinks. She breaks up with me and tells me how it's the hardest decision she has ever had to make. That she thinks we rushed into things too quick, and that she does not want to have a bf/ gf relationship with me because we skipped the "friends" stage. I leave after drinks on a good note and she makes no contact for 5 more days only to call about getting her stuff back... She sounded upset, and when I went to get off the phone she said, have fun at your party this weekend.. A party she read about from one of my friends on facebook... And I said I didn't think it would be much fun, due to the weather, but I invited her, because I want to be with her still, and she sounded a little more happier then wen we started talking... I ended the conversation with I'll bring your stuff by on wed, where she replied how she "felt lost without me texting her good morning and good night every day"... We got off the phone and I'm lost... What the f**k does this girl want, how do I get her back and is it too late?!??
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reader, kryssy +, writes (21 May 2011):
 if she told you that she felt lost because she hasn't gotten your sweet texts, then she obviously didnt know what a good thing she had when she had it. that should show her a lesson, and she does want you back. i predict that next time, she will honor the love that you give her. ~good-luck~
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