Meeting my LDR boyfriend's family for the first time. Does this mean that he's thinking long term with me, or conceptualizing marriage?
Q. Hi Dear Cupiders, I've been involved in a long distance relationship (LDR) with my boyfriend of 10 months. I'm African American and he's Nigerian. We're both committed and love each other dearly. After the multiple visits to and from NYC and Atl...
A. 18 July 2014: Hello there! This is "Missy" responding to the anonymous poster. I appreciate you relaying the advice on the subject of what this all means. I wanted to expand a bit more so that all is understood about why I chose to post this particular quest... (read in full...)
I told him we would only kiss if we were together, then he asked me to be his girlfriend.
Q. I am 21 female and don't know if I will regret the night I had. I am a virgin that has urges for sex but learn to control myself, wel I was drinking, tired and my heart was secretly hurting and 1 of my guy friends who I havnt seen for awhile wanted ...
A. 28 December 2013: No you are not a ho. You have to project to him that you're worthy of a date. If this guy likes you enough, he will treat you out and not play games. Is this guy within the same age bracket as you? 18-21? If so, his maturity level is in question if ... (read in full...)
I cant deal with this! My ex got married within 6 months of breaking up with me
Q. I am in intense emotional pain right now. I found out today that my ex got engaged and married within six months of breaking up with me. I was still pining over him and he moved on with no issue. He never informed me directly. I found out quit...
A. 2 June 2013: Yes, I agree with the first posted answer. I think its time for you to move on past this guy and his marriage. Even though the news itself came as a shock and is causing you sorrow, you should begin to think that this man missed out on an amazing ... (read in full...)
Should I give serious thought to reconciling with my ex, or is it finally time to move on?
Q. My ex-boyfriend and I started talking again. For some reason, it seems to be a reoccurring thing where we’ll go for awhile without talking and then, he’ll re-enter my life. Under the circumstances, however, we’ve agreed to be friends. And that’s all ...
A. 25 March 2013: Hello Dear Cupid, I have a quick update on this long distance connection between myself and this guy I've known for more than seven years. I purchased a flight to see him for 4 days during the third weekend of May for a wedding he invited me to... (read in full...)
He asked to be friends with benefits: Should I drop him as a friend?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm in the middle of a dilemma. I met this guy 3 months ago via an online dating site and we hit it off right away as friends. During the time, he was relocating from his home state to Atlanta to start anew with his father who just ...
A. 5 July 2011: Thank you for those who commented on this post. This situation was definitely an eye opener for me, and a learning curve that you should always find out who someone is before jumping into any such relationship. You never know what their intentions ... (read in full...)
I am very depressed over the way my calves look! Can ANYTHING be done with them?
Q. Even though this isn't a relationship question, please, please help me. This is bothering me so much that I am literally almost in tears as I write this. I hate my legs, so much that I have become depressed. I am cursed with the most freakishly ...
A. 4 July 2011: Hey. Don't beat yourself up over your calves. I have big calves as well, and have struggled with finding boots that fit. Sometimes it frustrates me when I walk into a store and I can't buy the boots that I want because their too tight around the ... (read in full...)
Running out of things to talk about need help!
Q. Ok so I've started seeing this woman who I really like a whole lot, we'll be going out again soon. The problem is its almost as if I'm running out of things to say. Does anybody have any conversation starters topics to discuss on your 4th or 5th ...
A. 2 June 2011: Hello there! By the 4th or so date, you two should have been past the awkward phase or have moved on completely! Maybe you like this girl and you want to give it a try. I really commend your efforts and patience because most guys I know, wouldn't ... (read in full...)
Ideas to make my sex life more fun and enjoyable for both of us....
Q. Please help me, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend and after that we have been having sex everytime we have a chance but this las time my boyfriend asked me what would I like him to do do for me or that we should try something neew, and that he ...
A. 19 April 2011: Hello! I would suggest referring to some books or articles on how to make sex more fun. You have many ideas to pull from those resources, and then make a decision that's right for you and him. Since you guys are just exploring intimacy together, I ... (read in full...)
What gives him the impression that I'm perfect?
Q. Several weeks ago, I registered in a dating site that's fairly popular among college students, graduates and working class professionals (bet 18-30 years old). I figured I give it a try considering I haven't had success finding a suitable mate ...
A. 19 April 2011: *Note* - I forgot to include this key piece of information in the message, but by the time this written, he asked if we could meet up in a public park. Of course, I agreed. So we are meeting sometime this week. I didn't want to jump into meeting him ... (read in full...)
Is losing your virginity supposed to hurt?
Q. Hi eyeryone! Okay so here is my question. My friend told me that she lost her virginity and i asked how did it go and she said it hurt really bad but in the end felt good. so i was wondering. Is losing your virginity supposed to hurt or is that ...
A. 12 December 2010: First, you should have sex when your ready and with the right person. Preferably, a boyfriend or partner who loves and cares for you as you do for them. It'll make the experience much more pleasurable and sacred since it will be with someone you ... (read in full...)
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