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*irstylou
writes:Hey Everyone :)iv posted a couple of time about this Guy i really like, i think so much of him. for sum who dont know iv bn seein him for 6 months, yet not in arelationship bcoz he's told me he aint ready for 1 or hasnt got the time bcause of work.well i was in hospital for a week and he came to see me in there on wednesday.. well he stayed 5 mins and went and the nurse who showed him in.. came in after he'd left and said to me ' well who would have believed he was your uncle' i looked at her stupid, i started to get upset but tried not to how her and said' he aint my uncle, he's my friend, i cant beleive he told u that'well since that day, he didnt come to see me which he sed he wud, he aint ringing me.. he'l txt if i txt him but thts it.. he seems so distant and its hurting me :( and it aint helpin me either coz i was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes and its not helpin my sugar levels.im trying to forget bout him and not get upset but i can't :( all im doing is thinkin of him and crying over him. He used to be so close to me, always ringing.. now it feels like he cant be bothered with me. i dont know what to do about it all.. please help me out. xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, kirstylou +, writes (23 March 2008):
kirstylou is verified as being by the original poster of the question LazyGuy - no this hospital i was in allows any1 to see me, my other mates came in..so theres no problem..and this guy im off about isnt my boyfriend, we aint in a relationship because he says he aint ready but i beleive it's because im 19 and he's 35.. he feels awkward with the age gap and well he hasnt told anyone about me :( because he reckons they wont like.. so thats why he lied to tht nurse..cause him and her know each other. I wanna talk to him and ask him why he's being so distant and why he told her i was his neice but im afraid it will piss him off :( i hate him being in a mood with me see.x
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (22 March 2008):
 Don't some hospitals have rules for allowing ONLY family members to visit? Maybe he thought they wouldn't let him visit if he claimed to be your friend. I have seen my share of hospitals and never been escorted in by a nurse unless the ward had limited access for some reason.
That could be a reason, or he wanted the nurse to think he was single.
You know him, ask him, but the non-responsivness seems to suggest he ain't intrested anymore.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (22 March 2008):
 You should forget him, you want someone who will be proud to declare you as their girlfriend, not pretend he's single!
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (22 March 2008):
 Dump him !!!!!!
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