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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My self esteem has reached an all time high and I feel great! :D Guy's are flirting with me and I am flirting back. I feel very attracted to some of the guys and when I really, really hint that I like them, nothing happens. and I've realized, life is too short to wait for someone to make a move. I feel like I need to take action. So, is it wrong for a girl to ask a guy out on a date? and how would I go about doing that?
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (8 March 2008):
 Just ask out whichever one you like. Maybe say something like, so, wanna see a movie tonight?
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female
reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 Guys these days are more laid back or shy and they seldom do the initiating.
If you need to move to actions, you will have to become more aggressive
Don't hint with guys, they cannot get your hints..
Talk to them in plain simple English and they will understand.
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reader, Entirely Unique  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 It's great you are feeling this way and no it's not wrong, nowadays it's very common and seen to be normal to most people for things to be equal.
I would try for something light, nothing to heavy or formal just meeting up for an afternoon less 'date type' more like a guy and a girl spending some time together plus that way you'll get to know them more before stepping into the boyfriend/girlfriend stage and finding out they aren't what you thought and a good relationship is based on a good friendship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): No there is nothing wrong with it, for most guys it would be a very nice change indeed.
That was my response, until I saw your age. Sorry but guys around you age are going to be incredibly insecure and to aggresive an approach might well scare them off.
They might be flirting with you, but they are likes dogs chasing cars, it is all fun until they actually catch the car.
They might very well pick up your hints that you want more then just flirting and have NO CLUE how to proceed.
Try again in a decade and most men would welcome a female who takes the initiative, but right now you are scaring the poor boys to death.
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reader, kirstylou +, writes (8 March 2008):
 Its not wrong at all :D
I say "go girl" lol
Just be cool about it, just ask him 'oh i fancy going out on the weekend - would u like to go for a drink or something, if not then thats ok'
U gotta take a chance, you wont know til u find out.
good luck thou, im sure who ever it is will say yes :)
xxx
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