She says she won't cheat ever again, but she still sees the guy she cheated with at social gatherings!
Q. My girlfriend has cheated on me more than once. She says she will never cheat on me again and has been going to counseling. My problem is that she works with the guy she cheated with and a lot of her friends hang out with this guy. She promise...
A. 21 November 2005: ok so if it bothers you that much and she is willing to go to counselling to sort out the problem give it time talk to her tell her how you feel about her hanging around with this other guy. try and compromise. if she loves you she will be willing ... (read in full...)
My ex will take me back, but what if I miss a chance with a new man?
Q. I need help. Fisrt I'll give you the run down of the situation. I cheated on my ex-boyfriend *Colin (* = not real name) so he obviuously broke up with me. I was very regretful and begged and begged for him to take me back but he refused. So one ...
A. 21 November 2005: it just doesnt work second time around there will be no trust he will end up using it against you in arguements and drag it up whenever possible make a fresh start you have plenty of time for love you will find someone else maybe brian maybe not ... (read in full...)
When I tried to break up with my boyfriend he threatened to kill himself or "make my life hard"...
Q. Help, I have only been dating my boyfriend for three months and he has always been very kind to me, but now that I want to end the relationship, he has changed. There are 15 years between us and although it bothered me, I went along with it. I trie...
A. 21 November 2005: obviously this man has issues, you want to get out while you can go to a friends or parents house pack your stuff while he is out just think if the relationship is like this now what will it be like in another three months contact the police make ... (read in full...)
He flew me from Miami to Boston and we had an intense time. Now what do I do?
Q. I was on vacation in Miami (from London) and I met a guy who I instantly took a strong liking to. After only a couple of hours, we slept together (I couldn't resist) We got along really well and had a lot in common and seemingly a lot of chemistr...
A. 2 August 2005: That is like reading a love story. I was truly moved by it. How do you know there could never be a relationship? Ask him how he feels towards you. Try going to see him on vacation, talk through things. You never know. Stories like this one nearly ... (read in full...)
We've been seeing each other for 4 years but I still don't know where I stand with him
Q. 2nd/aug/2005. I'm confused about my lover's feelings. He told me he loves me, but blanks my phone calls and texts every time we get too close. We have been seeing each other for 4 years but still don't know where I stand and I can't get any straight...
A. 2 August 2005: he needs reassurance tell him you love him kissing and cuddles can make all the difference make sure he understands your needs as well though you dont want to be hanging about waiting for him to say when it is ok to commit or not a bit more ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm gay, but I've been questioning my sexuality...
Q. Hi I am a 22 year old female. I have recently been questioning my sexuality and this has resulted in me going in to depression. I did speak to a psychologist however, she was no help and I still feel the same. When I was younger, when I would get...
A. 2 August 2005: everyone goes through a stage of questioning their sexuality you wouldn't be human if you didn't. maybe go to a gay bar were no-one knows you then at least if you meet a woman and it feels right you will know but if it feels wrong take it as ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is developing a friendship with her boss that's driving a wedge between us!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for over 7 years, she has recently developed a close friendship with her boss (who is also gay). I am getting more and more paranoid that something is going to happen, but in the process I am driving her away. I don'...
A. 2 August 2005: now this sounds familiar i think the only problem here is you are jealous of the friendship bond they share if it was with a women you wouldn't even notice that much but cause he is male you are going all macho about it any man would just tell her ... (read in full...)
I can't see myself with anyone except the guy I broke up with!
Q. Am a 17 year old female. And about a year ago now I broke up with a guy I really loved and still love. I go to his house now and again and we still have a pretty good relationship/friendship. Sometimes we end up kissing but that hasn't happened...
A. 2 August 2005: you are only 17 you are still so young keep having the odd kiss is just leading each other on be blunt about the situation tell him how you feel you will either get the reply you have longed for or get knocked back then at least you will no where ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend found out that I cheated and I hate myself for what I've done...
Q. Heya, I really need some advice on saving my relationship. I stupidly cheated on my boyfriend and got pregnant, altho I convinced myself it was my boyfriend's, I couldn't be 100% sure. Since we had only been together 6 months and I'm a student, m...
A. 2 August 2005: i dont think it was just a drunken mistake i think it is something deeper maybe something your boyfriend couldn't give you the excitement perhaps but then you find out your pregnant thats when reality hits. speak to your boyfriend about it if he ... (read in full...)
The sex is amazing for me, but I need tips on how to help my boyfriend ejaculate!
Q. Hello I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months, but before that we were friends for two years. We love each other to bits, and the sex is amazing...for me! He says it's brilliant for him too, but I can't make him ejeculate. He had to really ...
A. 2 August 2005: maybe he has said he has slept with alot of people to try and impress you obviously he hasn't he is trying to hard getting to nervous and it is putting him off. try doing something different catch him by surprise handcuffs are quite a turn on for ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is so fun and cheeky that he attracts other girls besides me!
Q. I've been with my bf 15 months and have been living together for the past 4. He's a great guy and we have loads of fun together. He's a very funny/cheeky which is what attracted me to him but I notice that he attracts other girls too. I don't th...
A. 2 August 2005: of course your not a nightmare girlfriend it is natural reaction. the thing you have to ask yourself is does he come home to you at night if the answer is yes there is one thing you dont have to worry about as for girls looking at him dont be ... (read in full...)
My relationship isn't as strong as it used to be. What should I do?
Q. Hi I am 18 and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for just under 2 years now and I think that the relationship between us is falling apart. What should I do?...
A. 2 August 2005: i think you need to sit down and try to see when it all started going wrong. talking is an essential part of a relationship without communication you wont get anywhere if you really love this man and want a good future with him then tell him you ... (read in full...)
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