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writes: Hi I am 18 and I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for just under 2 years now and I think that the relationship between us is falling apart. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Helen05 +, writes (2 August 2005):
You have probably done a lot of growing up in the last two years, and have both probably changed a lot too. The choice you now face is wether you want to grow together or you have grown apart. Be honest with each other, talk and share your feelings.
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reader, kim21 +, writes (2 August 2005):
i think you need to sit down and try to see when it all started going wrong. talking is an essential part of a relationship without communication you wont get anywhere if you really love this man and want a good future with him then tell him you love him but you think there is something wrong see if he can offer a solution to the problem but if you dont think you love this man then take a break rethink your plans and see were it goes from there. let me no how you get on im here if you need to talk.
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reader, Kayleighbabe +, writes (2 August 2005):
Join the club hunni! My relationship with my ex partner has been so complicated but now i feel like the end is here too and i KNOW what to do...but i just cant do it!Me and Ben are school lovers. We started going out when we were 15. He was so obsessed with me and finally i accepted that i also like him more than a friend. The first 3 months were amazing, but then it changed. At first he was attentive, affectionate and really wanted me and we each lost our virginity to eachother. A month late we did split and was apart for 9 months. Then he came back to me and said that he had made a mistake. we got back together again but i found out that he had slept with two girls since me and this always created jealousy for me. We split again and he dated a girl who was close to being my worst enemy, we didnt talk for months then shortly after wards he came to me whilst i was dating somebody else and confessed his unconditional love for me. I couldnt deny that i felt the same and broke off with my 'lover' and went back to my ex again!....things were so perfect for 3 months. I had never been so happy and really thought that this person would be the one to spend the rest of my life with. I get on so well with the rest of his family, but dont talk to my mums side so his mum is like a second mum to me. Unfortunately, i found out that he had been lying to me..and when he said he hadnt slept with this girl that i hated, he had been lying. i was so devestated and went mad at him, then he started saying he doesnt know if he wants a commitment anymore. I do love him deep down although he always seems to upset me...on the other hand, he is one of the only people that can genuinly make me feel happy. recently he has met somebody else but now becuase she is messing him around he comes to me for sex and bcus i still have feelings for him, i do it. I dont want to, i know i look foolish and i wish i didnt but untill i meet somebody i feel so complete with its not going to happen. My advice to you is dont let it happen to you. If the relationship isnt making you happy then walk away and remain friends, nothing else. if i had done this in the first place i know that i would not be in this predicament now and i know that he would respect and care about me more.
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