Should I contact my ex to see if he is ok even though he disappeared out of my life with no reason?
Q. My ex and I broke up 7 months ago. We only dated for 6 months and he was having a terrible time from the 2nd month we were dating and onwards. His ex-wife was demanding money, his father died and he moved house all in the space of a month (that wa...
A. 31 May 2013: Just let him go dear, why would you want to contact some who blocked you. Haven't you dated any one within this one year? Do u still miss him? I really don't get what you want from him. Concern? Believe me if you call him he will get mixed signals ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of the pain he caused me, should I call him back or wait for him to call again?
Q. Hello good people So I have been writing about my unplanned pregnancy with a gut that I barely know and denied the pregnancy and left me. Well he hasn't come back yet but I'm delighted to inform you that scary as it was I am HIV negetive I'm so...
A. 31 May 2013: Trisha I meant I looked in to adoption not abortion sleep of the tongue ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of the pain he caused me, should I call him back or wait for him to call again?
Q. Hello good people So I have been writing about my unplanned pregnancy with a gut that I barely know and denied the pregnancy and left me. Well he hasn't come back yet but I'm delighted to inform you that scary as it was I am HIV negetive I'm so...
A. 31 May 2013: Tisha-1 thankyou for your advice, I went to church the pastor called both of us and asked the way foward what his plans were and he said he didn't trust this was his child "as usual" that he thot I slept around funny how he continued to touch me ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of the pain he caused me, should I call him back or wait for him to call again?
Q. Hello good people So I have been writing about my unplanned pregnancy with a gut that I barely know and denied the pregnancy and left me. Well he hasn't come back yet but I'm delighted to inform you that scary as it was I am HIV negetive I'm so...
A. 30 May 2013: Thankyou sugarplum786, missaqua777 and anonymous for taking time to reply to my question.I am in South Africa and the DNA when stil pregnant test is very expensive when still pregnant so I will be able to it after I deliver that is if I can still ... (read in full...)
I just want to know which method is highly risky or if both methods are equally risky? help me
Q. Dear friend, I had unprotected sex with a guy but he ddnt ejaculate a week later I had protected sex with a different guy. I jus want to know how safe are condoms compared to non ejaculation? Nine months is far for me to get a partenity test a...
A. 14 May 2013: Thanku Largentsgirl 89 the calculater helped me get a clearer view
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Do men feel guilt at denying paternity, when they are informed about a pregnancy? Or do the men just move on and feel no guilt? Should I feel damaged by their actions?
Q. Hello, friends, aunts, uncles etc I have a question again.... I am pregnant thanks to the advice I got I'm keeping my baby God will provide something for us. My question is do these men who abandon they children really move on or they do sit d...
A. 12 May 2013: Thankyo very much guys for the advice, you people really care I jus thot tht deep dwn I'm nvr gona love and loved because I will now b w a fatherless child, but as u sd in time I will heal but for now e truth is I'm really broken. Abella thankyou so ... (read in full...)
Should I contact an ex who hurt me for answers and possibly to get him back
Q. I was in a 1 and a half relationship and ended it last year March because my boyfriend was behaving badly He was flirting with other women. I expressed my distaste with this behavior and suspected that he was doing more than flirting with two other ...
A. 8 May 2013: Gal I can't believe you are defending this guy...you don't seem to get e advice you are told... (read in full...)
I don't want to raise another child alone. I don't think this relationship will last. Should I have an abortion?
Q. Hello all, I need some major advice. I am 29 and a decent paying job. I have a 12 year old that I have raised by myself. I am currently 13 weeks pregnant and fully comitted for about 3 years. This would be his first child. His job is not that gre...
A. 7 May 2013: Hey I actually need advice from you. The father of your 1st child what happened to him? Is he supporting or visiting the child at all? If not does your child ask about his dad? Was he ever there and left later or he denied the pregnancy before... (read in full...)
I just want to know which method is highly risky or if both methods are equally risky? help me
Q. Dear friend, I had unprotected sex with a guy but he ddnt ejaculate a week later I had protected sex with a different guy. I jus want to know how safe are condoms compared to non ejaculation? Nine months is far for me to get a partenity test a...
A. 6 May 2013: The thing is the guy that used protection is more understanding and is willing to take responsibility unlike the guy who ddnt use protection. The guy who used protection insists it ddnt burst but thnks anything is possible and the one I suspect ... (read in full...)
I Have been seeing my ex-husbands brother ever since my divorce 4 yrs ago
Q. I was married for 15 yrs. my ex cheated on me with his best friends wife. I was a very loyal wife when I was married to him. After my divorse I fell head over heals in love with his brother. we have been seeing one another in secret for 4 yrs now. ...
A. 6 May 2013: Tjo......dating brothers. This will definitely make their brotherly relationship worse and pple will surely think u guys were attracted while stil in e marriage. Wen u marry into a family you not only marrying yo husband they all become yo relatives ... (read in full...)
What are the consequences I'm going to be facing being a single mother?
Q. Dear Cupid, This question is for all the single mothers out there, please encourage. I have decided to keep my baby because he/she can't suffer for my mistakes but I want to know how does it feel when the father denies the pregnanacy and y...
A. 2 May 2013: Phew yah thank you for the heads up about going to the doctor I really ddnt think it even reached the baby coz it seems as if I vomited everything but thts my 1st step indeed doctor and beggining to love my baby and praying to God for ha solution. ... (read in full...)
The mother of my unborn child wants nothing to do with me!
Q. She's 13 weeks pregnant and I swear she hates me and told me not to call or sms actually she dumped me...must I leave her? I really love her but seems like nothings gets fixed when I apologise and ask for secoind chance...yes its my child please ...
A. 1 May 2013: Wow when I 1st read ths I was like wow what a man very few r like yu I'm pregnant and baby daddy gone so I'm alone and I thot we still do have me left but u put your hands on a pregnant woman, its ok for her to walk, u cannot expect to return now ... (read in full...)
I still haven't talked to him about us being in a relationship, it's just like we chill and have sex. So my question for you guys, should I talk to him about how I feel?
Q. I have been talking to this guy for a few months now. And the first time we officially chilled was on Christmas day. When we chilled, we did have sex. But before we chilled, it wasn't established what either of us were looking foe (like a ...
A. 1 May 2013: I think you need to talk to him and find out where this is going then allowing yourself to get used like this. Men are users and he won't say anything as long as he keeps getting satisfaction clear the air make it clear, you need to be having s... (read in full...)
I'm so tired of my mother!
Q. Ok well, this is pushing me to the limit I can't handle this any more I think there is some thing wrong with my mom. She wakes up at 330am every morning because she makes coffee right next to my room because the kitchen is next to my room, so ...
A. 1 May 2013: Wats wrong with yo mum making coffee really? Wat makes noise e cattle or wat? Doesn't she own tht kitchen? Appreciate your mother n say how much you love her and how thankful you are she is still alife n stop having silly complaints. How mny hours ... (read in full...)
Should I submit and be treated like dirt because I'm pregnant or should I simply abort?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 26 years old 2 weeks after meeting a guy I discovered how rude, controlling, short tempered and impolite he is and so I ended it. Now I jus discovered I'm pregnant I text him messages telling him of my suspicions and he has flatl...
A. 29 April 2013: Hello Guys,
I know very well that what I did was wrong I ddnt even think he released the one time we had sex coz I kept pastering him to put on a condom I had an abortion about 2yrs bk and I have been very careful since I feel sad and I already ... (read in full...)
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