Help! My ex boyfriend is making my life a living hell!
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend and he is trying to make life a living hell for me. He bought me a phone and now, he's taken it back. I want to forget about him totally cos i have the feeling I don't love him anymore. What should I do?...
A. 26 November 2005: You shouldn't do anything only u know urself truly enough to know whether or not u still have feelings or not 4 this boy, mayb he cud do wid an explantion from u explaining why u ended it, get rid of anythng that reminds u of him, ur decision is 2 ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and he's 19. We've been texting, but I want to move on to more!
Q. I met this boy who I really like at a fair that always comes to town. We each got other people to swap numbers. Anyway we have been texting for about a year now and both said we like each other, but we have been with other people. I see him every da...
A. 16 October 2005: Hun i know it's not what u wana hear but his an adult, and ur still a child, i don't think u 2 sud have a relationship, the age gap at ur age is 2 much, what happens wen he wants more out of the relationship like sex ur far 2 young 2 make any of ... (read in full...)
I insisted my girlfriend tell me about her fantasies, but I didn't like what I heard!
Q. My girlfriend and I were having a frank discussion the other night, and I asked her if there was anyone besides me that she fantasized about having sex with. She didn't want to tell me, but I forced the issue because I felt like she was hiding ...
A. 4 October 2005: Firstly get these thoughts out of ur head or its gona drive u wild, wondering wot she's getting up 2 while ur not with her, secondly haven't u ever seen a girl on the street or sum1 u know and had fantasies about them coz if u have then it's the ... (read in full...)
When we were forced apart, my girlfriend started becoming more distant...
Q. I am a lesbian. My g/f and I are different nationalities. Because of visa difficulties we have had to be apart for the past 2 months. Communication has been difficult, but we spoke when we could on the net and we sms a lot. About six weeks ago the ...
A. 4 October 2005: She obviously does care about u, u can't just switch off ur feelings like that, mayb she feels this long distance is putting a strain on ur relationship, wen she says she has problems in her country that u don't know about, mayb u sud respect that ... (read in full...)
Nobody's really good enough for me!
Q. OK, so you're so gonna hate me for saying this but I'm genuinely in distress. My problem is that I've never had a boyfriend, not because I'm ugly or weird, but quite the opposite. I've never met anyone who I feel is good enough for me. To say I'm ...
A. 4 October 2005: K high opinion of urself but that's a good thing, hun mayb u sud stop judging boys on looks and look personality wise, that's sumthn iv experienced, not all good looking guys are sweet and romantic, i'm not telling u 2 jus settle down with any1 but ... (read in full...)
Rejected one time and I don't feel like I can ask my partner for sex ever again...
Q. I have a problem. I can never bring myself to ask my partner for sex. He has mentioned this to me as well. I did once a few years ago and he rejected me. It was really hard to ask but after that incident I feel I could never ask again. What's wrong ...
A. 3 October 2005: no this doesn make u frigid, the fact u got rejected once has probably knocked back ur confidence, making u fear a second rejection, question why are u asking 4 sex surely if u 2 were both stable u wudn need 2 ask it wud jus b sumthn that cums ... (read in full...)
I've found evidence that my girlfriend is playing up with someone else, but how do I bring it up?
Q. I have recently receieved information from a mutual friend of my girlfriend of 4 years and I. He told me that a friend of his was bragging about hooking up with my girlfriend and how he was going to visit her at her college and have sex with her. He ...
A. 3 October 2005: There's no easy way, 'just confront her' she needs 2 no, that u no otherwise it will carry on, wot's she's doing 2 u is not right, i wonder how she wud react if it was the other way round, she's seems so disrespectful, she obviously hasn't ... (read in full...)
He starts texting, then he stops. Now he's disappeared. What's the deal?
Q. Hey! Im a 16 year old girl. I really fancy this guy J* who is a couple of years older than me. When we first got to know each other, he was sweet and I started really liking him, so we started texting each other, just a bit of fun. Then he tur...
A. 3 October 2005: Hun he sounds like a complete jerk 4get him, he sounds like a nasty piece of work, i realize those abusive txts must have hurt, and all bcoz he didn get his information ryt, hun ur beta out of da picture, this guy does'n care about u, his jus ... (read in full...)
One day after I lost my virginity to him, he's spreading rumours about me. I feel awful...
Q. Dear Cupid, I am only 16 years old and I just lost my virginity to this guy I am really into. Our relationship has been very on and off for the past year and we aren't even really dating right now. Some of our mutual friends are calling me a slut n...
A. 2 October 2005: Hey hun don't b 2 hard on urself, i'v been thru exactly the same and no how u must b feeling, i got called names and judged by ppl i thought were my frends, i know it's humiliating and upsetting. His a jerk, his obviously very immature and needs ... (read in full...)
Yes, I'm definitely going to speak to her, but I could use some "ice breakers"...
Q. Hi Cupid. I am 26 and have been single for about 5 years. There is a girl (roughly my age) I have liked for a couple of years. I never used to see her very often as she is a friend of a friend's girlfriend's sister (complicated I know) but have b...
A. 28 September 2005: hey awww don't worry why not compliment her 'you look nice', 'how are you', 'would you like a drink' to get the conversation flowing, then im sure your think of other stuff, and im sure she will wana no stuff about u.... (read in full...)
The kiss didn't change anything, she says, but I feel like being more than friends!
Q. I need some help. Here is my situation. Two weeks ago, I met a girl, and she's amazing. We have a lot in common, and we became fast friends. She keeps making all these gestures that she likes me more than a friend, but I don't know. I'm going...
A. 28 September 2005: hey hun mayb she does have feelings for you but doesn't want to ruin the friendship by becoming a couple. It definately sounds like she feels something for you otherwise she wouldn't have kissed. Why don't you ask her out straight where you stand, ... (read in full...)
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