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writes:Hey!Im a 16 year old girl. I really fancy this guy J* who is a couple of years older than me. When we first got to know each other, he was sweet and I started really liking him, so we started texting each other, just a bit of fun. Then he turned nasty when he thought I had spread rumours about him and sent me abusive texts. After that he didn't text me for months, and whenever I'd text him out of sheer desperation he would be incredibly horrible. He would go round telling his friends not to talk to me, that I was only going to move onto one of them next and that he was going to ignore me, it would be best if they did the same. Much later he realised that I had not started any rumours and basically texted me to let me know he was ok with me. By that time I was going out with someone, a friend of his (not a close friend). I had gotten over him and didn't think much of him anymore. The same night he texted me again saying how much he wanted me and that he knew that I wanted to have sex with him too! I ignored the next three similar texts, then later got a message saying ' I didn't mean any of what I said, I was just checking to see if you're good enough for my friend'! Again I ignored this. A few months later, I split up with my bf and J was back in the scene. He texted me every day for two weeks and he genuinely seemed like he had changed as he was really nice again.So I texted him back, realising that I had never been over him. Suddenly his texts stopped, he didn't bother to even ask how I was doing, and when I saw him at a social event, he gave me one smile and disappeared! He hasn't texted me for three weeks now. What is going on?? Can anyone help me, I really like this guy. thanks
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reader, kelly16 +, writes (3 October 2005):
Hun he sounds like a complete jerk 4get him, he sounds like a nasty piece of work, i realize those abusive txts must have hurt, and all bcoz he didn get his information ryt, hun ur beta out of da picture, this guy does'n care about u, his jus miserable with his life 'relationship' wise and is trying 2 ruin urs 2, making sure if his not with u nobody else has u, he doesn deserve ur love, he doesn care move on 4get about him.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2005): Babe, this boy is playing mind games he is extremely imature, so imature infact he perhaps doesn't realise how much it is hurting you. You perhaps don't like him as much as you think and it's more infactuation, have you ever heard of the saying; treat them mean and keep them keen, yes! well there you go thats your situation! You deserve much better sweet heart, you are only 16 so you should be concentrating on having fun with your freinds and letting boys take you out on dates BUT no sex!! what is the hurry, and defenately don't let him use you!!
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