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Should I get back in touch with my ex?

Q.   Hello! I need advice as to whether I should get back in touch with my ex! Please let me know what you think... I dated this guy for only 4 months last year - we broke up about 15 months ago now. It was the first gay relationship for both of us –...

A.   29 December 2009: You really can't be the one to start the contact. If he does send you anything (which is only a small possibility) than maybe he actualy has realised what you had, if he doesnt than you just have to realise that it was never really going to be. ... (read in full...)

Everything in life seems against me right now

Q.   Look I don't know why but I always find myself depressed. I lost all my friends. My family is a broken one in which I have no one to relate to. My school work is terrible at this rate i don't see myself succeeding much in life. I'm also gay it's all ...

A.   29 December 2009: I wouldnt say you where definately not gay- only you really know whether you are sure about that or not. Know maybe you aren't doing well at school but from the sound of it you are actually very smart- the amount you understand yourself and realise ... (read in full...)

I don't know what to do, should I speak to him to try and stop him feeling bad?

Q.   Hiya. I recently came out as gay after a long period of not really knowing and I have felt alot happier now I've come out. One of my friends intoduced me to a gay friend of hers and at first we just spoke online and had a great day together as ...

A.   11 October 2009: He has been out as gay for a while- and has had sex once- but he has never been in a serious relationship before.... (read in full...)

How do I find out if the man I am attracted to is gay?

Q.   I'm Gay and I am sexually attracted to a man, but I don't know if he is Gay.. How can I find out?...

A.   11 September 2009: I have to strongly agree with the previous two comments it is the only way to know for sure... (read in full...)

The annoying thing on my mind

Q.   Hey, I'm a 16 year old guy and will be 17 in 2 weeks. Me and my gf both lost our V plates to each other when we were 15. My girlfriend is 3 months younger than me which makes her a year behind me in education. Thing is, even though now we ar...

A.   1 June 2009: My advice is very simular to Wreck and I also agree with everything koenig said but I think it would be a good idea to bring the conversation of your sex life up. This way it will look like the decision has been more thought through and a more ... (read in full...)

I've just had sex with my TEACHER!

Q.   I've had sex with my teacher last week and I don't know what to do. I can't look him in the eyes any more, I feel ashamed and bad. Can somebody give me an advice what to do?...

A.   16 February 2009: You really must tell someone because you don't know how many other students he has had sex with- maybe more forcively or violently and how can you ever be taught by him again. Anouther teacher would be a good person to speak to and remember I bet ... (read in full...)

Any advice on making 1st time sex special?

Q.   Okay so I have some questions about sex--And I do NOT want anything about "Oh your too young for sex" and stuff like that. Please. That's not what I'm asking for here. Anyway, My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now and I reall...

A.   8 February 2009: Well being that it's your 1st time you dont have to worry about it not being 'special' as sex should aways be 'special' especially the 1st time. Just do what comes natural and enjoy it even though it may be very awkward.... (read in full...)

14 & lost my V-card

Q.   I just moved to a new city same state. At my old school I was just getting involed with boys. I was in 7th grade then. And now I am in 8th and I moved here over the summer.So Im in 8th grade now suopose to be in 9th. But lately I have been making ...

A.   4 January 2009: It seems to me that you have been leading him on a bit so you can't be so suprised that you got yourself in this situation. What you need to do now is to talk to him about the relationship that you want and if he can't provide it than maybe you ... (read in full...)

My life sucks and I'm very depressed!

Q.   Well here goes i believe my life sucks. Im 15 never ever dated or even had my first kiss,Ive asked out more then 50 girls and they all denied me,Im also very short im 5-1 so that makes life tougher,My parents disowned me,And i have no friends ...

A.   1 January 2009: What may help is if you don't ask loads of people because everyone will just think you're desperate. Remember to be yourself and if people can't get over your size than they are the ones with the problems. ... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and want to have sex with my 14 year old cousin

Q.   Hi i am 15, and I have these really deep feelings for my 14 year cousin who i badly wanna have sex with, i did it with her once when i went to her place out of town for a week, and it was great, and it brought us closer, she didn't resist, but we ...

A.   1 January 2009: I'm going to agree with Dr. Lovely even though when I first read the title I thought it was sick. This seems to be more than just a little lust and a want for danger. What I think you should try to do is talk and spend time with her instead of the ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to not have a wet dream?

Q.   Hi I'm 15 years old and i have never had a wet dream. I haven't really asked many peole if they've had one yet but all of them have said yes. Is it normal not to have one? I seem to masturbate OK....

A.   21 October 2008: Thamks for your responces. In responce to Daniel i do masturbate regually. If anyone else has anything more to say I'd appreciate if they added an answer.... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and want a normal teenage life! Will a girl want to have sex with me?

Q.   Ok well I'm 15 and basically I have no life:( I don't really have friends and i just want to live the normal teenage life. Everyone i no has the normal life. They go to parties they hook up with other people they drink. I want to be like that and ...

A.   28 September 2008: Don't worry your not alone. I'm exacly like you and i know many people just like us. If you can't find anyone close to you that have common interest- join clubs and spread your wings out then you'l find someone you get on with well. Just always ... (read in full...)

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