My crush says he's not the relationship type. How do I make him like me?
Q. so ive done it again... ive fallin in love and once again the guy dosnt want to love me... i just told him that i was crushing on him... and he knew for a while. he said hes not the relationship type of guy... and he dosnt know why.. and i can ...
A. 1 May 2013: You don't understand something fundamental, something so basic it goes to the nature of all relationships. Men and women don't make rational choices about who they love and none of us are able to simply make such a decision, to love someone or ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy to hope there might be more between us or should I just move on?
Q. I have had a FWB for three years (we've known each other fir 16 years) when we are together we act just like any other couple but if we're at work or out with friends we act as if nothing is going oneven though mist of them know we're sleeping ...
A. 29 April 2013: You didn't give us the kind of info that might help us help you decide, but from what you did say, my thought is that you should KEEP HIM.
And tell him that you'd like to be more than sex-partners, that you want to be close in other ways, not only... (read in full...)
I'm conflicted. Since I'm a virgin is it unreasonable to want to find a girl who is a virgin to date?
Q. I don't really know how to approach this topic eloquently, so here's it in a nutshell: I'm extremely conflicted right now about sex. I'm 22 years old and have never had a girlfriend, and am still a virgin (obviously). I've never even kissed a gi...
A. 29 April 2013: First, I'm impressed with who you are and I'm pretty sure you are going to have a terrific life. I was once 23, in college, pretty much a virgin, and an older woman 10-15 years older, asked to date me. And she gave me whatever I wanted, sexually... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and feeling sad knowing my child's father won't be in the picture
Q. Im having to face being a single mum and only in the last week or so I have been feeling loss of love towards my baby. I know it could be hormonal but i dont like feeling this way. Especially when I felt nothing but excitement towards my baby from ...
A. 28 April 2013: Okay.
How are your finances? Are you able to live okay, you and your children. This is important.
Who is the father?, is he married? Can you provide some additional detail as to how you and he decided (or maybe it just happened,) to ha... (read in full...)
How could she give a guy a Bj if our marriage is really great? Twice I've found out she's cheated on me.
Q. I don't really know where to begin so I will back up to before we moved to this island. Four years ago my wife wanted a divorce. I could totally understand why at the time. I had gotten fat and lazy, letting her do most of the work while serving ...
A. 28 April 2013: Steamroller75, I am not glad or happy to be telling you this; I recognize that you're in a lot of pain. (I was once there. I married a girl who moved out, basically for no reason, she just didn't want to settle down, after ten days. I was two... (read in full...)
How could she give a guy a Bj if our marriage is really great? Twice I've found out she's cheated on me.
Q. I don't really know where to begin so I will back up to before we moved to this island. Four years ago my wife wanted a divorce. I could totally understand why at the time. I had gotten fat and lazy, letting her do most of the work while serving ...
A. 28 April 2013: No, your marriage is over. I'm pretty sure that if you were able to check you'd see this has been just the tip of the iceberg.
Sorry.... (read in full...)
I'm 30 weeks pregnant. How do I get my husband back in bed with me? He's been looking at sexy pictures of girls instead.
Q. My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years now. I am also 30 weeks pregnant. I have only gained 18 pounds so I feel a little silly moping, but I could really use some words of encouragement. My fears began when our love making sessions...
A. 28 April 2013: First, your man seems like a real jerk; I don't know what others are thinking but as I read your notes, that's my opinion.
But, dealing with your question: Blow him. No man can resist that. Make fellatio a regular part of your relation... (read in full...)
My wife has been cheating on me for 3 years. How do I get her to want me?
Q. Where do I start? I've been married for 12 years but been with her for for 18. We have 3 boys who I wake up for every morning to make all the money I can so they have everything. My wife doesn't work, I was raised thinking u should support the ...
A. 27 April 2013: You are getting exactly the same treatment and respect you gave your wife.
Talk to her, tell her you know. Admit your behavior and tell her that you can not continue like this.
Because even if you think you can, you can't, it's apparent th... (read in full...)
My husband wants to have a baby with another woman. He's says I'm making this out to be a big deal. Am I over-reacting like he says?
Q. Im 20 years old and have 2 kids. My oldest is 4 and she is from a past relationship. Im now married and we just had our son in February. Recently my husband has been talking about having a baby of his own with another woman. I thought he was k...
A. 27 April 2013: Your marriage is in real trouble!!, and all your indecision is accomplishing is to worsen your situation.
See a lawyer, this guy is cheating on you. My guess, he's already gone forward with this project of his.
You have grounds for divo... (read in full...)
What does a man feel emotionally when receiving oral sex?
Q. Hey guys....I read something once that "Giving a man a blow job is like giving a woman flowers" What kind of feeling does it give a man when she wants to give him a bj? Is it just a feel good sexual act or do you guys feel a connection with ...
A. 27 April 2013: Years ago a girlfriend gave me oral, basically, all the time. Everyday, whenever we went out, usually 2-3 times on a date, sometimes 3-4. When she came over, that was one of the first things that happened. It was just something she was willing ... (read in full...)
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