Sometimes my boyfriend gets really mean with my children. Should I listen to the voice in my head telling me to end things?
Q. Dear Aunts, I am a single mother of two loving boys, 12 and 5 years old. I am currently in nursing college. I have a boyfriend and we've been together for five years. We met 6 months after I got my second child. My children adore and loves hi...
A. 7 August 2011: Thank you so much for the great adivce everyone. Your words of wisdom is exactly what I needed. However, I haven't spoken to my boyfriend as yet. Right now we're at odds and I will have a serious talk with him when we're both in the right state of ... (read in full...)
Sometimes my boyfriend gets really mean with my children. Should I listen to the voice in my head telling me to end things?
Q. Dear Aunts, I am a single mother of two loving boys, 12 and 5 years old. I am currently in nursing college. I have a boyfriend and we've been together for five years. We met 6 months after I got my second child. My children adore and loves hi...
A. 6 August 2011: Thank you for the response...It speaks to me on many levels. When I say "Meanie," here's an example. My youngest like to follow him around and whenever my child is in his way; he would trip him so that he falls, or if the child plays around him ... (read in full...)
How do I confront my alcoholic dad?
Q. My father is an alcoholic and it is really upsetting me lately. I'm 15 and I have no idea how to confront him about it as I have always been too scared and I was wondering how other people confront their parents about their addictions?...
A. 14 May 2011: Just ask your dad in a nice way; what does he see you becoming in the future? Tell him that kids learn by example, and the example he's setting right now is not a good one. Tell him you will be there for him to help him through this if he quits. ... (read in full...)
Questions about size and hair.
Q. Hey, I was wondering if a larger penis was more visually appealing. Does it turn girls on more than a normal sized penis? How about pubic hair, do most girls prefer completely shaved or trimmed? Thanks....
A. 14 May 2011: Definitely shaved for me, but that may differ with other girls...just ask the girl you're with...as far as size, I was with a guy that was really big; he never made me cum, however the guy that I'm with right now wow does he know what he's doing; he ... (read in full...)
Am I the only one who thinks the justice system protects sexual offenders?
Q. I am a 39 yr old woman, who has been in state care and also sexually abused, physically abused and mentally abused. I recently took one of my abusers to court and he got off. Since then my health has spiralled out of control, i have a personality ...
A. 29 April 2011: Firstly, You can choose to forgive these losers that offended you secretly(in you mind that is) they don't have to know you forgive them. This will help you progress mentally. Secondly, going to court and taking this person to justice is helping ... (read in full...)
Should I buy? Or rent?
Q. hi all need some advice ive saved 25,000 pounds and wants to know whats better renting or buying a one bedroom place any advice will be great . my family says get a mortgage and my mates says rent help ...
A. 29 April 2011: Your family is right...your mates are jealous and unfortunately, don't want to see you make good progress. I would definitely buy. The mortgage is a investment while the rent is not going towards anything, but a landlord. So in other words, Buy, ... (read in full...)
I feel as if I can't take on one more thing, but if I don't I'll feel guilty. Please help.
Q. Im in a very tough spot in life.....What can i do, if I simply run out of energy taking care of others problems around me ? My life got out of hand a few years ago, living in personal hell. I can't list the things I' dealing with, because m...
A. 16 April 2011: Ok, stop letting others dictate your life. You are in charge so start taking charge. Do you have siblings? If yes, let them share the responsibility for your dying parent. As for your husband let him share half the responsibility for your kid ... (read in full...)
This is making me jealous...am I over-reacting?
Q. My boyfriend always invites his best friend and his best friend's girlfriend over to our place, and I don't know how to tell my boyfriend that I'm uncomfortable around his friend's girlfriend. He told me a long time ago she made a pass at him and ...
A. 7 April 2011: Thank you so much for your advice. I did the opposite and he got really mad. I invited our neighbor that has a crush on me and instead of telling me his true feelings he let it in and let it fester. Finally, the guy left and he exploded accusing ... (read in full...)
The sex is just not happening!!
Q. What happens when sex just doesn't happen? We "try" to have sex but I am too large (according to him). I don't know what else to do. I have contemplated leaving as we have been together for 10 months and maybe twice have had successful sexual ...
A. 30 March 2011: Oral for lifetime will not work...hey I know most guys like oral...but they like other things too, so I think eventually he will look else where...have you tried just using your fingers for a while...one finger then two then three eventually ... (read in full...)
I broke up with her so shouldn't I be the one who's ok?
Q. What the dickens is wrong with me? I broke up with a woman 16 mos back but I'm obsessed with keeping tabs on what she doing. My obsession is taking over my life. I half a** eat, condo's filthy, don't go out. I feel like I'm married to my laptop and ...
A. 2 February 2011: I can't help but laugh...you expected her to do what you're doing but she didn't...you're doing it for her...or you want her back...do you? If so, you were brave to call it off be brave and tell her you made a mistake...y did you break it off ... (read in full...)
Cialis, first experience & side effects?
Q. I was wondering about using Cialis to get a firm hard erection. When I get excited, my penis does get hard a little but it doesn't point upward or straight. And I feel real embarrassed when it happens. I read about Cialis and want to give it ...
A. 9 January 2011: My boyfriend used Cialis and it give him an instant headache that lasted a long time and his heart rate was out of the ordinary. We have been looking into a lot of different herbs for him and have since found that gingseng is the best so far. ... (read in full...)
He is cheating and I am scared he will leave.
Q. My SO and I have been together for 5 years now. We have had many trials including infidelity even including a child. HE had an affair 4 years ago which resulted in his son. He left me for some time when the little guy was born but then came back ...
A. 9 January 2011: Firstly, since when he's the only man available. Believe me he's not, you just have to find your confidence back since he stole some of it, but's it time for you to take it back. I believe that there's a soulmate out there for everyone, and yours ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant but he doesn't want it. What should I do?
Q. i am 43 and my boyfriend of 2yrs is 27 i just found out im pregnant and i already have 3 kids he has none we are very serious and i thought he might be happy about this but he is very unhappy says hes not ready and does not want it.. what should i ...
A. 30 December 2010: Do what your head tells you to do, not your heart.... (read in full...)
Am I dumb for staying with my fiancee' if he has cheated more than once?
Q. Me and my fiancee' has been together for 3 1/2 years but for a year straight he cheated on me and the 2nd year was shaky then the 3rd year we got right and he changed. Now we are going on our 4th year and I still can't get over what he has done in ...
A. 30 December 2010: You definitely need to let go. I remember when I just started out in a new relationship, I wasn't sure who or what I wanted therefore, I talked to lots of guys and saw them occasinally. This was my choice not the guys choice not fault of theirs. ... (read in full...)
I am ashamed of my looks...
Q. I am a 20 year old guy and I am gay. I have always been Dusky which made me feel ugly as I'm usually attracted to fair guys and It always makes me think that a fair guy will never fall in love with me. I started using a skin lighting cream which ...
A. 21 December 2010: I think if people don't like you for who you are, they are not real themselves. I say that you go as you are and if they don't like what they see then that's their loss. Most of my friends that are gay aren't that good looking, but they are funny, ... (read in full...)
Why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?
Q. ok, so my question is simply 'why is there no middle ground when it comes to porn?' It seems there are two sides, those for porn, and those totally against it. I have read many a question about porn on here, and there are the guys and some women who ...
A. 1 December 2010: I honestly have to say when I first met my boyfriend I was shocked at the many porn he had. However, it didn't bother me since I used porn to get myself off. We are in our fifth year and living together. I absolutely hate it when he watches porn ... (read in full...)
Any woman that shows interest in me I want to shove away!
Q. I had a really great romantic relationship going with a girl I loved. She decided that she was in love with a guy she spent a weekend with a few months ago. We did a lot of great stuff together, and a an awesome personal intimate connection. but I ...
A. 29 November 2010: Firstly, she's not every woman. You have to keep in mind that everyone is different. Obviously, you still have feelings for her, but you definitely did the right thing. Everybody is entitled to true love. True love is, people being faithful to ... (read in full...)
Should I let my boyfriend watch porn?
Q. Me and my partner have been together for 3 and a half years and have recently moved in together. We found it difficult at first but now we are getting back to how we used to be. But there's one thing that really bothers me about him - he watches ...
A. 29 November 2010: I am 30 years old and living with my bf who is 44 years old. I have a problem with my bf watching porn when my kids and me are around. If we're at school or not at home he can watch, and jerk off. I told him that already, but he's still doing ... (read in full...)
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