I feel guilty after sex with a guy, not with a girl
Q. I don't know what to do, I need advice and guidance. Ever since I was 14, I knew I was bi, I had a sort of relationship with a girl before hand, and since then had a brief relationship with a guy. I say brief, we got intimate sexuall, not act...
A. 24 May 2011: maybe you just favor girls over guys. Maybe you should stick with sleeping with girls. I mean why sleep with a guy if your just going to feel awefull after wards, if you like a guy or love him then you shouldn't have that type of emotion afterwards. ... (read in full...)
I'm sleeping with a married man and he wants me to stay at his house. Should I?
Q. I am seeing a married guy 3 or 4 times a year we meet in cities away from home in Fl and or Ca I am 69 and he is 40. When in Ca I have dinner with him and his wifr, I am goig to Ca next and he suggested I stay at his home. Good idea ?????"??...
A. 24 May 2011: Is this a retorical question? I mean, I wouldn't feel comfortable sleeping with a guy thats tooken and sleep under his roof with his spouse too. I agree with the writer that says its the one place thats her own, give her that much respect. go to a ... (read in full...)
I am getting mixed signals from my best friend. Please advise.
Q. I am still getting mixed signals from my best friend. I tried telling him to back off and leave me alone but that didn't work since he gets full on and will almost stalk someone until that person has forgiven him. When I want to talk to him I ca...
A. 23 May 2011: Get a new guy best friend, open your options ok, you dont have to be stuck to one friend. When you are doing that you can also look for a boyfriend. You need to keep your mind ocupied. ignore him more; why are you going after this guy thats tooken? ... (read in full...)
How do I ask out this friend?
Q. So here's the thing, I have this friend (female) that I'm actually really into, I see her about 2 times a week (but in a group of friends, not one on one). She's coming to a house party on this week, I just want to know how to pull her aside, out of ...
A. 16 May 2011:
1. chat with her for 5 minutes or so.
2. Then ask if you can get her phone number
3. txt her, asking her if she wants to get a cup of coffee later on that week.
4. meet up with her there and have coffee and chat.
-if everything is running sm... (read in full...)
We are having huge issues lately, could this be because he is cheating on me with a girl?
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i have been having HUGE issues lately, I really don't know why they started, the things he does are kinda making me mad though. He gets mad over every little thing i do wrong, he is always angry, he has been ignoring...
A. 16 May 2011: You didn't give a lot of information to work with lol, but I will try and figure it out. Critical thinking: I would ask him: I have things that have been on my mind lately. why is everything falling apart lately. How are the little things ... (read in full...)
Why did my youth leader reveal this in front of everyone?
Q. Why did he have to do that? I feel so bad.:(? ? ? Last week I went to a prayer meeting with the youth at my church and when we were praying the youth leader said the Lord revealed to him that I've done something physical and the Lord has giv...
A. 16 May 2011: I would say to him, All the things you have said her, go over all the facts with him and say do you remember now, and if he cannot come out with an answer then maybe he was lieing, it is writen, "Just as there were false prophets among the people, ... (read in full...)
I'm SO confused about my sexuality it's killing me. Is this normal? What on earth do I do?
Q. I'm 21 and I have come to accept that I am gay. I've had a long term girlfriend before and was sexually attracted to her. But now I'm single I barely see girls as sex objects anymore. I am only attracted to guys. Now, I can't see myself having sex ...
A. 15 May 2011: Your so funny lol. umm to start off, lets leap ahead to where you said "I can't see myself having sex with a guy" & the reason you think you are not sexually attacted to them is bec, you are not out. It wouldn't really matter if you weren't out, if ... (read in full...)
He has photos on his phone of another guy.....what should I do?
Q. Hi I wonder if you could give me advice. LAst night I had to work late and I checked my BFs phone (we are a gay couple) and seen photos from another guy which he recieved the same night. THe pics are from a guy who he met up with before we got ...
A. 15 May 2011: You can do one of 2 things, option one: I would make up something like ohhh, I was going to take a picture of my self on your phone and put it as your screen saver, and I took a picture and as I was looking it up I came across this guy, he looks so ... (read in full...)
How do you respond to someone telling you they no longer find you attractive?
Q. So I'm a gay male that has been in a LTR with another man for over 10 years. We are both in our early 30's and are monogamous. At various points in our relationship, my partner has emotionally and mentally been exploring the idea of being with ...
A. 15 May 2011: I think its always important to seek out your partner instead of others to talk to, because you can create a new attachment with someone else that could be unhealthy. Yes and in any relationship there is going to be the harmless flirtation now and ... (read in full...)
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