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The sex is great but he's married

Q.   I have been seeing this guy that is 26 years older then me, he is married and has 3 kids 17,16,13. He does not like his wife and they dont sleep together or even speak. We have the BEST sex ever. I am so in love with him what should i do?...

A.   25 October 2007: this guy is lying to his wife, what makes you think he is not lying to you, this guy is not worth it, the best thing to do is break it off now, find someone that will treat you with the love and respect you deserve... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a guy to say that to his true lover during oral? Makes me feel uncomfortable.

Q.   is it normal that my guy says "f_cker" while we were doing oral sex? i feel very uncomfortable to hear that. its sounds like im a prostitute..so i wonder is it normal to a guy say that to his true lover?? thanks for help!!...

A.   25 October 2007: hi a lot of guys can say things like that when they are at a point when they are out of control, it just means he is really enjoying it, if you relly dont like it tell him as he probably doesnt know its upsetting you, ... (read in full...)

I'm 20 she's 17, will we have enough in common or am I too old for her?

Q.   I am 20 and mid way through my junior year of college. I'm trying to decide if I want to start a relationship with a 17 year old high school senior girl that lives back home. I'm worried about a few things, (1) is age a problem, (2) where we are at ...

A.   25 October 2007: hi if you truly like this girl age doesnt matter and then i say go for it, if you relly like this girl you wouldnt be thinking about it this much you wouldnt be able to keep away from her, but only you know how you feel ... (read in full...)

I want to end it but I can't. What should I do?

Q.   hi, heres my problem. im with this guy who is also with someone else and i thought i would be ok with it but now his other girlfriend has announced she is pregnant.the bad thing is that i want to end it with him but ive fallen in love with him and ...

A.   24 October 2007: you should end it now before even more people get hurt, there is going to be a baby involved, this guy isnt worth it as even with a baby on the way it hasnt given him the push he needs to sort this out sorry to be so blunt... (read in full...)

Is there an ointment or gel that I can use to make intercourse less painful?

Q.   i have been in a relationship since 3 years im a virgin me n my partner really want to have sex we have tried it a couple of times but couldnt't really do it cause everytime he tried 2 insert his penis it caused me pain ,could u suggest somethig ...

A.   24 October 2007: try some ky jelly, that is spose to be helpful, it will get better after a few times i swear , ... (read in full...)

Are we more than friends?

Q.   well im 15 and there is this guy who i have known all my life (hes 17). I love millions as a friend, and almst like a brother. The other day i was a bit upset and so he was cuddling up to me and comforting me and then kissed the top of my head, al...

A.   24 October 2007: it is only wrong if you think it is, if you are happy and your friend is happy then it doesnt matter what others think, it is nice that you have someone to go to in times of need, so dont worry,... (read in full...)

Her unfounded suspicions are destrying our relationship

Q.   i'm in a lesbian relationship, we have been together for two years. She does not trust me at all. Shes so disrectful to me. Always calling me vulgar names. Everyday I'm accused of cheating, with the neighbors, people walking down the street, ...

A.   24 October 2007: hi end this now, it will only get worse you need to put yourself first as this relationship will destroy you, go and stay with family for a while until you get yourself sorted, sorry to sound brutal but action is needed sooner the better,... (read in full...)

Help with feminine issue

Q.   okay wll recently started my period, and i swim so i guess ill have to go straight into using tampons. the prob is i have tried a few times, but it feels really uncomfortable and sometimes painful. am i putting them in wrong or something ? please...

A.   24 October 2007: hi it takes time to get used to tampons if it is not in enougth it will hurt, the instructions are pretty clear but you need to take your time and feel relaxed, after a while you will be able to use them without thinking about it,... (read in full...)

Don't say give it time

Q.   Hey im almost 16 i was with a guy who was 17 for almost 7 months. Due to reasons that were partly my fault he broke up with me about 3/4 weeks ago. It was a bit of a messy break up and we both said some nasty things. I've apologised and even tri...

A.   24 October 2007: hi, he sounds like he might still hurting by what was said when you broke up, as he says he still loves you, it means you might be in with a chance, if he didnt listen to your apologies, then maybe write a letter then give him some space to th... (read in full...)

Will it hurt?

Q.   Heey, My boyfriend wants to finger me and I'd let him but I'm just worried about how many fingers he can get up :S.. I've fingered myself before and I can only get 1 up and I think he thinks he'll be able to get more up.. Nd if he tries to get ...

A.   24 October 2007: hi, it sounds to me when you say you would let him that you dont really want him to but maybe feel that if you dont he might leave you, but if you are not ready then please dont or you will end up regretting it, if he truly likes you he will wait... (read in full...)

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