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When you are dancing with a girl and she is grinding you with her bum, what are the men supposed to do?

Q.   this might sound like a stupid question, but when you are dancing with a girl and she is grinding you with her bum, what are the men supposed to do? just move with her while she does it? this happened to me on the weekend when i went out round the ...

A.   27 March 2007: haha, welcome to the world of clubbing. Go with the flow and have a great time but be wary of who your dancing with and keep your eyes open and be careful of who you touch and where you touch. YOU DO NOT know who is watching you i.e. bf's ex bf's ... (read in full...)

She says I'm smothering her and needs time apart! Will time heal this relationship ?

Q.   My relationship of 18 months has been fading for several months. I am as committed as I was in the beginning but she says that I am smothering her and needs time apart. There has been a tremendous lack of intimacy and she is unable to explain why? ...

A.   27 March 2007: Now is the time to re invent yourself and your life. This is for yourself and no one else. Be that fun bubbly person you once were and give her the space she has asked for. 1) Please abide by no contact - ignorance is bliss (not sure if this is ... (read in full...)

Ho do you know when a relationship is coming to an end or you're falling out of love with someone?

Q.   Ho do you know when a relationship is coming to an end or you're falling out of love with someone? I don't know whether this is the case so to walk away or whether this is just a phase because I'm bored at the moment? What do you think? What should ...

A.   6 March 2007: Depends what you want from life? Perhaps some time apart will help, communication will as well! Don't mess your partner around though, its horrible to be on the other end of a 'hot and cold' relationship. ... (read in full...)

I am 14 and never had a boyfriend but my friends have one, please give me advice on what to do?

Q.   Hi, im 14 and i've never had a boyfriend. I dont feel as if i'm ready to have one right now as i'm shy, but i feel pressurised to as my two best friends have one. I dont think i will ever get a boyfriend as i am too shy and not really pretty. Please ...

A.   6 March 2007: Huh, I didn't get my first serious GF until 20. What you worried about, do what you want when you feel you are ready. You shouldn't have to feel pressured to do anything you dont want to. Society and culture do not be to influenced by it. ... (read in full...)

What weights or machines can I use to help build more muscle in my arms?

Q.   Hello, I need some advice on gym. If I want to build my biseps, and triceps, and tone my arms I usually use the other machines that form part of the "circuit" where you exercise your legs, thighs, arms, shoulders, and you increase the weights as y...

A.   5 March 2007: www.teenbodybuilding.com Join the forum here + read everything you can on this site. 1) Eat 6-8 meals a day 2) Whey protein/multivit/creatine/flax seed - standard supplements which may help (bare in mind they supplement) 3) Train 4-5 days a we... (read in full...)

I can't and do not want to get over her, even though logically, I should!

Q.   I want to start off by sayin that I am 19 years old, but I d'ont want people to say the same thing people alwayz say to me, and that is how "I'm still young, and this will all pass", because, really its not... please, i need some actual advice. ...

A.   5 March 2007: It is important for you to be able to forgive and forget. Mistakes are made and you must make admission of your lost love. It is natural to miss your partner, but there will be others. 1) Please abide by no contact 2) Get everything which... (read in full...)

Body building and muscle toning advice needed! Any thoughts?

Q.   I hope this gets posted, I would appreciate some advice on this. I'm 22yr, male, excellent health, average height, 73kg weight, my metabolism is very good, and my body has the potential to look great, I'm slender, but can tone my body, and improv...

A.   17 February 2007: A plant grows from a seed and without nurture it will surely die. You will start to see results after a couple of months, depending if you train right, eat right and sleep right. 1) Train one body part a week unless one is lagging etc, lis... (read in full...)

He wnats a 2 month break to see if we really love each other but I'm afraid I might lose him. What can I do?

Q.   its the 4th day of our 2 month break.should i sms him and tell him i dont wanto get back together or should i wait and c how i feel at the end of the two months. the two month break was his idea-its to c if we really love each other,i know he doesnt ...

A.   17 February 2007: If you love someone set them free. If he loves you he will come back to you. Problem is when we are young we are constantly looking towards what we want in life, searching for who we are. Some people never reach reach "what they want." It ma... (read in full...)

My girlfriend has just dumped me, I think she wants to sample the scenery. How do I move on?

Q.   Relationship has finally ended after 7 months and this is the third time we have split. The day before valentines day and 2 weeks before my 21st birthday. We had an hour chat over the phone. Her feelings no longer exist for me, she has tried ha...

A.   13 February 2007: 2 :), she hasn't even told her family yet! hoho they all liked me. O well her loss. I got plenty planned. Onwards and upwards, no freinds and no getting back together, the horrible girl. ... (read in full...)

How can I build up my body?

Q.   Hi, I am 19, 20 this year and i am 6ft 1 tall. I have always been very slim, i'm uncomfortable about my body being on show when i'm going swimming or when in the summer it's hot and want to take off my top. The problem is weight like 9 stone and...

A.   8 February 2007: www.bodybuilding.com 1) Sign up to your local gym, 2) Work out 4-5 times a week 3) Split your workouts into: - shoulders - chest/triceps - legs - back/biceps 4) Eat 5-8 meals a day 5) 2.2 pounds protein per kg of ur body weight every d... (read in full...)

I believe if you get alcohol mixed in with dance and loud music and another man... something will eventually happen!?

Q.   Long Message, any advise on my situation would help: I have been going out with my GF now for 7 months, our age difference is 3 half years, I am at University (working in industry for a year at the mome) she is studying for a-levels). It wa...

A.   7 February 2007: She feels like she wants space and wants to have best of both worlds. I don't want that at all. But because i want to be with her, I will have to cool of alot more. I will let her do what she wishes, therefore I hope she will respect me more for ... (read in full...)

Does he really have feelings for me or am I being used big time here?

Q.   This is a long one, but please help me, it's getting me so upset and hurt, i thought i'd found love... A couple of months ago i found someone i REALLY liked, i cant explain it. He's 18, i'm 17 in a week, which was good because in the past i have ...

A.   7 February 2007: Sorry to be so blunt, this guy sounds like he has issues and used you for sex. Don't be a victim, let him do the running, if he really wanted to be with you, he would have contacted you. ... (read in full...)

He is claiming he "needs time..." Is this a clue that he wants out???

Q.   dear Cupid I am in a long term relationship and lately my boyfriend doesn't return my calls and he has been coming home later than usual. I don't even know why he acting like this and I don't really know what is going on. I contacted him yester...

A.   7 February 2007: (1) Show your partner you respect their choices more than anyone else. Do not do anything or say anything which forces your partner to do things or see things your way! If they have to make their choice whether they want yo... (read in full...)

I like my ex again.....but hes going out with my friend!

Q.   I really like my ex again....and hes goin out with my friend! She told me that if i told her that i liked him, she wouldve said no to him, but i feel bad to like him. She said its ok but its weird. Should i get over him or keep liking him?...

A.   7 February 2007: Be full of life. Be fun, attractive, joyful and yet mysterious. Bare in mind he is with your friend, anything which you might do could result in you loosing one or both your ex and friend. ... (read in full...)

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