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writes:Hi, I really want to break up with my girlfriend. Trouble is she really loves me but I do not. She studies in my other class "B". And her friends study in my class "A". And I am really good friends with them. I am so terrified at breaking her heart and breaking the relationship with her friends. I have no idea why I chose her. Maybe I was so confused because one of my girlfriend's friend was in love with me and I heard that my girlfriend and her friend loves me at same time. I like both of them. But I have no idea why i chose the current one. I do not know how to break up with her without hurting her and her(our) friends and can you guys help me? Thank you very much. Reply to this Question
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reader, Jim01  +, writes (16 November 2009):
Listen to Paul Simon- 50 ways to leave your lover
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reader, imogen1068  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 best thing to do is go somewhere alone, sit her down and explain that you want to break up with her, you'll need to give her reasons why you want to break up with her because thats the first thing she will ask. practice what you are going to say to her. yeah okay you will hurt her feelings, but if you dont love her and want to break up with her, it wouldnt be fair to string her along pretending you love her when really you dont. maybe you could still stay friends if you are close, but sometimes its best to just keep away from eachother. just be truthful and say what you feel good luck x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 November 2009):
There is no way that you can't hurt her. You just have to tell her directly and camly that it's over. Speak to her in person about it, sit down and tell her that it's over. Yes, it will hurt her, but you have to allow her time to move on and find someone else. De calm and short about it, and don't say anything cruel
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