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Why is he pushing me out of his life?

Q.   Okay my b/f and me broke up and now he wont even awknowledge that i exist, when we were together we got along like best friends. Now he has moved on and im fine with that but he acts like Im not even there and we sit at the same table! His frie...

A.   7 May 2008: sometimes people prefer not to be friends after dating. just happens sometimes.... (read in full...)

He's nervous when he talks to me...why is he acting like this?

Q.   For the past year, I've been running into a crush at a local bar. I've known him for a while through a ex-friend (I can't ask my friend about him), but I never sat down and spoke to him. I would always say hi to him, and he would say hi back and ...

A.   7 May 2008: Sounds like he likes ya. Maybe you need to burst his bubble and establish a connection between the two of you. It might make him more comfortable. Like if you both had interest in a similar sport or something.... (read in full...)

One partner wants sex every night, while the other wants it once or twice a week, what's the solution?

Q.   One partner wants sex every night, while the other wants it once or twice a week, what's the solution?...

A.   7 May 2008: sex every night can make a person tired. if they dont get sleep it could possibly effect their day and work life. why does sex have to have a number? cant it just be something that two people share? regardless the number of times in a week? id say ... (read in full...)

I want revenge on my cheating boyfriend! What should I do?

Q.   My bf and I were together for 2 years. I found him cheated on me in Jan 08. She was with him for 4 years. So he is cheating on me all the time. I forgave him once because he told me he broke it off already. Then, things happened, My bf forgot to ...

A.   6 May 2008: two wrongs dont make a right hell always be a cheater so trying to do something to teach him a lesson is pretty pointless but if he really pissed u off u could always egg his car or something. it eats the paint off and every time he sees his vehi... (read in full...)

He said he doesn't believe in marriage but will he eventually marry me?

Q.   HELP! I have been seeing a guy for 2 years now. He used to talk about getting married sometime in the future (neither of us was ready in the early stages) but now he has told me that he doesn't believe in marriage and he won't marry me. At this ...

A.   6 May 2008: i dont really have any good advice for you, but i wanted to let you know people are reading this. id like to be able to help ya out but im for marriage so i dunno... hope it works out for the best though... (read in full...)

I don't feel like a woman because I have a small chest!

Q.   I am 28 years old and am 4'10" and weigh about 95 lbs and my chest is rather small....is that a big deal for men? My husband says he doesn't care and that I'm perfect, but is he telling the truth? He's always told me that he is a "butt" man and I ...

A.   5 May 2008: boobs are boobs! who cares if they are big or small. be happy with yourself and what youve got!... (read in full...)

What am I doing wrong that I can't get a girlfriend?

Q.   Hi... I'm 20 almost 21 and and I have never had any girlfriend, nor have I kissed, hugged, touched hands... etc, etc... And it's driving me insane!... when i see the couples on the park i just turn around... I'm on med school, I speak 5 langua...

A.   5 May 2008: hey guy. i hate to say it, but most women enjoy a guy whos a little bit of an asshole. girls like the badasses. it probably sucks not havin a girlfriend, but be yourself. when a girl accepts you for you...shell be the right one. theres no reason to ... (read in full...)

He's jealous of my past, is it because of trusted childhood?

Q.   My boyfriend gets upset everyime he is reminded of my past. Not just the physical things I did with other guys, but if I was flirty with someone, even if we didn't kiss... all of that bothers him. I think it's a bit extreme, I mean, all I did was ...

A.   5 May 2008: Even the most confident people need assurance from time to time. they just might be too proud to ask for it. id say try thinking of something that would show how much you care for him and only him. i think people just need to know they are really ... (read in full...)

She said she loved me, then dumped me! How to get rid of this horrible feeling of loss?

Q.   Hey. I am wondering how do i get rid of this horrible feeling of loss......my girlfriend dumped me Saturday at a Christian camp out.....the same day as prom. she just came up to me after like not even talking to me or hanging around with me for like ...

A.   5 May 2008: it'll be all right man. most people feel this when they get dumped. it's entirely natural. time heals all wounds and eventually youll meet the right girl. good things take time.... (read in full...)

I dread when night time comes, because he always wants sex. But I'm in love with my lesbian friend!

Q.   I'm a 32 Y/o female. I got married in Feb 2007. I met my husband while serving in Iraq, he was in my same unit. we got back to the states and I got pregnant. we set the date to marry. I was't so sure. I so love this man, but it wasn't the same. My...

A.   5 May 2008: the heart wants what the heart wants. maybe he tried to substitute sex with the lack of mutual love and respect in your relationship? just think of it like this...who do you think about when you go to sleep at night? who do you have those odd little ... (read in full...)

I wonder if I should jump ship before I get too attached, as I am skeptical about LD relations?

Q.   I've been seeing a guy for a few weeks now, and we're not serious yet, but I think we're headed in that direction. He's really starting to grow on me, and I think he's feeling the same way. But the thing is, he's going to be leaving to go to ...

A.   5 May 2008: personally i found that they dont work. it was hard for me to accept it though because i really loved the girl, truely and honestly. She loved me too, but she had a hard time being faithful. I say sometimes they can work out, but it will require a ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend an ABUSER?

Q.   I am confused about whether of not my bf is abusive. Please tell me what you think. We haven’t been dating for long (just under 2 months) so part of him is still putting on the perfect guy act I think, but I feel that maybe these little things that ...

A.   5 May 2008: yes he sounds very abusive. and the fact that he doesnt care shows he has no guilt. he sounds like he is insecure and requires constant reassurance that you are faithful to him. id say get the heck out of this relationship as soon as possible. if ... (read in full...)

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