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... Send *enny Wren a private message | | | *enny Wren's profile:Hi, I'm Jenny and I'm REALLY REALLY old (well, compared to some people on this site anyway). I live in West Sussex in the UK. I currently work in a school. I have worked as a Community Psychiatric Nurse for some years, so I know a lot about mental health problems, and I also know quite a bit about sexual issues.
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Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)
Q. ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...
A. 31 December 2007: Dear Jenny,
It is interesting that your recurrent dream/nightmare has changed a bit. Most people have the ability to influence the way their dreams go - altering the story - and this can be a way of conquering fears or working through prob... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mom I was sexually abused by my dad? Will I ever have a healthy relationship with a man? Is it bad I live with my parents still? (returning home after my husband's abuses.)
Q. ok...i was sexually abused when i was 6 till i was 17... the few people ive told said i need to tell my mom... and ive been reading other peoples advice on here...most said to tell the mom too....but i cant. i cant do that to her... its been 6 year...
A. 25 December 2007: What a brave and sensible person you are - even after your Dad behaved so badly towards you. It sounds to me as if you are trying to work through this by yourself, and starting to make progress. Most people who have been abused tend to find tha... (read in full...)
Very self conscious about my big breats. Any natural method for breast reduction?
Q. Hi, I feel really self concious about my boobs, I'm 15 and I'm size 34DD. Is this too big?? Iv tried eating less and exercising more to loose some weight off them and haven't really lost anything only 6 pounds... Should I get a Brea...
A. 24 December 2007: Yes, I agree with "Smeedle", but just wanted to add a couple of extra points... At 15 you may not have stopped growing yet, and even if you don't get any taller, your body proportions may well change as you get older. When I was 14-15, my bust was... (read in full...)
Every time I masturbate or have sex I always think of my ex girlfriend.
Q. Every time I masturbate or have sex I always think of my ex girlfriend i mean this is terrible and its destroying my life i mean i just dont know what to do i am not on speaking terms with my x so i can't even tell her to try to get it out my head...
A. 1 June 2007: Don't let it ruin your life - its only thoughts, and nobody can read your mind...
The trouble with things that we don't want to think about is that the more we worry about not thinking about them, the more we think about them. If I was to ask you ... (read in full...)
Im feeling so down all the time, tried all the usual but cant get in to gear.. please help!
Q. I just feel fed up all the time. It's as if a light has gone out and i can't get it back. My bloke is great, but i just cannot pull out of this black hole. People say go to the doctors but i dont want to be on some long term anti depressants and end ...
A. 24 March 2007: I just wanted to add that if you do decide to try medication in addition to the things you are already doing to help (exercise etc), bear in mind that if one type of medication doesn't seem effective, or has unpleasant side effects (eg; sedation), ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Now accepting your articles, tips and stories!
Q. Hi folks, this is Andrew, site guy here. I've added a new link to the main navigation bar called "articles"... I'm looking for anyone who is good with words to share their wisdom :-) All articles will be linked to from your profile page,...
A. 23 March 2007: Yes, I'd like to contribute if people are interested.
I have quite a bit of experience in mental health issues and in sexuality (studying and working in these fields for a total of 23 years).
I like the fact that the site's contributors provide ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant after dry sex??
Q. Today is Friday. On wednesday i had dry sex with my boyfriend. Is there a possibility that I am pregnant? I am expecting my period next week, if i DO get it... could i still be pregnant? Is it true that if his cum (which could contain sperm)is ...
A. 23 March 2007: OK, you're obviously very worried about this, so it's best to sort it out as soon as possible. I assume that you are not using any contraception (something to think about for future sexual activity). If it is possible that any of your boyfriend's ... (read in full...)
Finding it hard to meet new moms my own age - 15... any tips?
Q. im a 15 year old who gave birth 9 weeks ago to my lovely little girl but find it hard meeting new mums my age any suggestions?...
A. 31 December 2006: I agree with "Willy Wombat"(!)- there are often "Young Mothers" groups organised by health or young people's services, and Health Visitors would normally know about (and often organise) these.
If there isn't one near you, you could encourage your... (read in full...)
How do we go about getting an abortion ?
Q. hi i have just got my girlfriend pregnant and i am not ready i did use a jacket but it still got to the egg, we have already got a baby and he is lovely but we want to get anabortion so we can enjoy r baby growin up how do we go about abortions?...
A. 31 December 2006: Hi, I'm answering from the U.K., so I only really know about the healthcare system here, but I hope this helps. First make sure you have discussed your situation honestly together, so that both of you feel that you have had your feelings and ... (read in full...)
If you don't have sex, is it true that your vagina closes up?
Q. I lost my virginity this july, and i prob wont have sex for a while now! is it true that like your vagina closes up (and what does that really! mean by the way) Advice plzz...
A. 27 October 2006: No it isn't true. Unfortunately there are a lot of myths about sex and it is easy to be misinformed - the best thing to do is to ask questions of people who will give you an honest answer (which you're doing), and read as much as you can about sex ... (read in full...)
Mt gf hates my Mom-I can't even mention her! Why should I have to tread lightly about my family??
Q. my girlfriend and i are having problems understanding each other. she hates my mum and now i can't mention her because otherwise she goes wierd on me and gets in a mood. also, i feel that i have to tread carefully so's not to annoy her but when i'm ...
A. 25 October 2006: Do you know why she hates your Mum? Has your Mum offended her in some way, or is your girlfriend perhaps linking with feelings/perceptions from the past and reacting as if the same thing is happening now? (Perhaps she has experienced offensive ... (read in full...)
I fancy a girl at school but don't know what to do!
Q. i fancy this girl. we dont know each other. we only met once before properly where we had a good chat and got on well with each other! otherwise at school i just say hi. how can i ask her out? when? shall i get her number? but i cant phone her? ...
A. 25 October 2006: Like jack23 says, your best bet is to try to find (or manufacture) a shared interest. See if she does any after school activities that you could join in (eg; drama, archery, chess, voluntary work..).
I have sometimes found that I can start a conv... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and he's my 33 year old tutor! He's flirting one day and ignoring me the next day! I'm so confused by this
Q. Hi, the problem is my tutor, im 16, he's 33, big gap i know but hey!. he keeps being flirty, but he has some days when he will completely blank me, n some when he seems so happy 2 c me he won't stop smiling! wa should i do, he is taking the class...
A. 25 October 2006: I would hope that the reason he is being friendly one moment and blanking you the next is either because he has no idea that you are keen on him and is treating you like anyone else, or that he has realised that there is something going on, and ... (read in full...)
My man's penis won't get hard! Is there something wrong with me?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have sex about 5 times a week, but the past few days he is unable to get hard. One night I gave him oral sex and a hand job and he orgasmed perfectly fine. Is there something wrong with me that my man's penis wont get hard or is ...
A. 24 October 2006: 1. Try not to worry. It sounds as though you have a healthy sex life and a little lull is not going to do you any harm.
2. There are lots of reasons why men can't always get an erection eg; alcohol,tiredness or worries, that have nothing to do with... (read in full...)
Negative actions and thoughts are causing me to lash out at my bf. Help me!
Q. Iam 15 and my bf is a bit older then me at first it was great, but i just get angry with him for no reason what so ever i just go of at him for no reason i just turn really selfish it is really causing big promlems i can never really get the right ...
A. 24 October 2006: You have done really well to express how you are feeling, and recognising that there is a problem. It sounds to me as if something in your life has made you feel as if you are ugly, bad, worthless etc, and that now someone is being nice to you, it ... (read in full...)
He said he had orgasmed in my mouth and I couldn't tell!
Q. i gave head the other day 4 the first time! is it normal to have (sorry 2 go in2 details lol) lots of spit in your mouth?? he said he had cum and i couldnt tell :S ...
A. 24 October 2006: Hmm...interesting..
It is possible for a man to experience orgasm without ejaculation, but it is not a frequent occurrence, sometimes happening when the man has ejaculated fairly recently before. It is also apparently something to aim for when perf... (read in full...)
Do men prefer girls who are easy or are they scared of girls looking for love and stability?
Q. Do men prefer girls who sleep around and are scared of girls looking for sexual and love stability? What is best to get them mental about you? TA...
A. 24 October 2006: The rather unsatisfying answer is..sometimes. It's impossible (and unhelpful) to lump all men together just as it is to generalise about all women. If you are looking for someone who wants a serious relationship, then that person would expect to ... (read in full...)
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