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writes: Iam 15 and my bf is a bit older then me at first it was great, but i just get angry with him for no reason what so ever i just go of at him for no reason i just turn really selfish it is really causing big promlems i can never really get the right words to explain it its like something inside me is constantly there forcing me to kick off, also i go really mad when he calls me nice stuff theres something in my head at the time saying "U are ugly" "U are horrible" etc pls help me its tearing me 2 piecesasap x x x Reply to this Question
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reader, xLEAHx  +, writes (25 October 2006):
 Are you sure your not going off your boyfriend or maybe fallen out of love with him..sometimes if you get bored or fed up with the person you tend to react like this ..but where your saying you hear in your head 'ugly and horrible' maybe you are feeling very insecure about yourself and you shouldn't be if his always paying you compliments and being nice to you..if its none of the above Hi Anon,
it could be to do with your hormones,most girls/women get ratty ,angry and selfish at a certain time of the month,i know i do,if it continues maybe make a appointment with your doctor and see why your feeling this way,also when you find yourself in a mood like this and feel like kicking off then its best to deal with it in your own way try steering clear of him when your like this, so you don't hurt or upset him..if he tells you your beautiful,sexy and compliments you ..accept them because his telling the truth..
GOOD LUCK
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reader, Jenny Wren +, writes (24 October 2006):
 You have done really well to express how you are feeling, and recognising that there is a problem. It sounds to me as if something in your life has made you feel as if you are ugly, bad, worthless etc, and that now someone is being nice to you, it doesn't fit with the way you are used to seeing the world and creates uncomfortable feelings as a result. You are expressing these feelings as anger towards your boyfriend, who just happens to be in the firing line. I hope that you have explained how you feel to him, as this will help him to deal with it better (you could show him your question). I would suggest discussing the situation with him and/or someone else you can talk to easily. Perhaps talk to a counsellor if this is too difficult.
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