Flirty friend? or boyfriend?
Q. I really like my best friend. And he has become more flirty around me but I don't know if I should tell him how i feel.. It could ruin our friendship for ever. But on the other hand I just want to know if he feels the same?? what should I do??...
A. 5 October 2010: You're young and most likely in 3 years you'll never be seeing this guy again. So don't worry about ruining your friendship with him. I wouldn't tell him though, it would be better to slowly just start touching him. Flirt back some, let his emotion ... (read in full...)
Is he just trying to break it off in a nice way? or is he legit?
Q. I recently ran into an old classmate on a social networking website. We exchanged text messages multiple times a day and even spoke for hours at a time on the phone. We made plans to get together, being that we live an hour and a half away from one ...
A. 4 October 2010: Maybe he really is religious, maybe he wants to do things the right way, because his feelings are that strong. Can't hurt to take some time and talk it over with him. Find out how he became so religious.
Also do some soul searching. Are you as r... (read in full...)
We broke up, I slept with his friend
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me,just up and left.A week later i slept with his friend.We got back together a couple days after that. I told him what happened,and he still can't forgive me and hates me everyday for it. I dont know if we are going to ...
A. 4 October 2010: Guess it depends on how long you two have been going out. If you have only been going out for like 3 weeks. Then there wasn't much time for the relationship to mature. If you two have been together for like 2 years, then ya 1 week later means you ... (read in full...)
Why does he bother to say he'll change when he doesn't even make the effort?
Q. i have been on and off with my partner for 7years because he has cheated,lied,and wudnt take on the responsibility of a father and was a selfish partner.every time i would leave him,he would come looking for me some time later.i have 3 kids with ...
A. 3 October 2010: Family is important, good communication is important for family. He doesn't communicate well.
He needs to start telling you everything. If he doesn't listen or doesn't like it then time for a new man for the family.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend went abroad, does he want me to stick around for him?
Q. Ok, so I have a boyfriend and we've been dating for nine months, the big challenge now is that he traveled abroad to study and the time difference is about six hours, we hardly talk because of that. It's been three weeks and some days now. Before he ...
A. 3 October 2010: He is the one who decided to go off into blue yonder. You shouldn't have to feel upset by how often he contacts you. Best thing to do I find a hobby and forget about him for a bit.
Personally I like to keep balance with things. If your not the ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me and gave me no reason why!
Q. Last night my boyfriend of 3 years left me. We have had a thing for each other since 4th grade (In 1 year of college now) Out of the blue, We have been going threw some rough times. I just didn't know he would do this to us. He has been planning fo...
A. 3 October 2010: Eat. Go workout and look sexy again, Lose your phone.... (read in full...)
Body imperfections making me uncomfortable, suggestions needed on how to cope??
Q. Have you ever felt uncomfortable infront of your boyfriend or girlfriend because of a flaw/imperfection you had? For example, a crooked nose, a birthmark smack dab in the center of your face. Did aknowledging the flaw ever come up in discussion ...
A. 3 October 2010: Imperfections are glossed over by people that are in love. You maybe totally worried about your nose or a birthmark, Instead take a moment to find something about your body that you like and try to show it off. Distract and confuse lol
If your a w... (read in full...)
I am confused over my ex and in pain. He still responds to me. What do I do? Think?
Q. Hi All, I would appreciate your advice on the following heartache. In breif. I dated a guy and he took me to meet his parents and best freinds within weeks. All was good, and we got on very well. I fell in love with him within a few weeks, but we ...
A. 3 October 2010: Sounds like the dude likes you but someone in the family didn't. Think "friends" and find someone else. When a guy is in love you will be his main priority. Don't settle for anything less.... (read in full...)
Abusive ex keeps walking all over me
Q. Im a single mother and the father of my child (my ex) is emotionally abusive and keeps walking over me..what can i do/ ...
A. 3 October 2010: If you have a good support group around you Like a helpful mom. You can probably avoid talking to him completely. If he is verbally abusive he lost the privileges of talking to you. Thats the nice thing about him being an ex. If your mom isn't that ... (read in full...)
My lady tastes like salt??
Q. Hi there, I wonder if other guys (esp) have the same experience? I am not used to giving oral as my long term ex liked to give but didnt want me down there...although we did loads of "other things" ;)...lol I am with a new partner who I t...
A. 3 October 2010: The reason she is tasting like salt is because she is a vegetarian, Canned veggies have a lot of sodium in them. Best thing to do is to eat something sweet like a pop tart before heading to the bead room, Salty things taste really good after having ... (read in full...)
Fiance killed in war, I'm only living for our unborn child
Q. My fiancé and I had been together for what would've been six years in November; since we were 15. While he was on leave from the Air Force, he proposed five months ago and we set the date for 11/11/11. Which, coincidentally, would have been our ...
A. 3 October 2010: People often find excuses for things when there life presents them with a tragedy. Everyone has the ability to make certain things more important then others. The answer is to stop seeing yourself within the tragedy. Pretend for a moment that its ... (read in full...)
B/f acts like I don't exist!
Q. I need help and advice. Me and my boyfriend have been together six months, but recently he's been too busy for me and its like i dont exist. We normally talk everynight on the phone before we go to sleep, but he hasnt done it once the past 2-3 ...
A. 3 October 2010: The relationship has only been alive for 6 months. Your putting to much focus on it. He knows everything about everything about you. All you have to do is make him curious. Stop calling, find some new girlfriends, just forget about him for a while. ... (read in full...)
I am not attracted to my skinny boyfriend with his beer gut!
Q. Me and my fiancee just made 2 years we have a 6 month old son, i am 19 and he is 24 and we plan to get married next year. Here is my dilemma im in love with him but not physically attracted to him. I like my guys muscular at least somewhat, he is ...
A. 3 October 2010: Communication is the key. Guys that are in love usually make an attempt to modify certain behaviors for the well being of the relationship. Let him know when he is kissing you the way you like. And kiss him back the same way so he feels what you are ... (read in full...)
I am not a jealous type person but now I feel like I can't trust my boyfriend and I am becoming a jealous person.
Q. My boyfriend of 5 month and I are very in love. We both are continually amazed at how well we work together. I truly feel his is the only man for me. However, about a month ago I snooped through his phone on a whim. We had been eating dinner at a ...
A. 3 October 2010: It took me a lot of ex-girlfriends to realize that if you really love someone. You have to be happy for them no matter what that means. If this guy is the right one for you then he wouldn't do things like that. He could still be the one, you will ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling guilty about my soon-to-be exwife being dumped by her new guy!
Q. hi i wonder if anyone can give me much needed advise please? i am currently seperated form my wife of 18 yrs,we had a good marriage,but the last 5 years just grew totaaly appart from each other ,different lives,hobbies,friends,lost feelings and res...
A. 1 October 2010: It appears that there are 2 main relationship killers. The big obvious is cheating. The second is failure to appreciate. If you still love your ex wife. Stay casual, get excited about something else, that you want to share with her, listen to h... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants me to give up porn...and I would choose her but I refuse to pretend to be something I'm not.
Q. Before anyone chips in and says that I don't understand this from the female perspective, please hear me out - because I have read posts, and heard views from the female side - and believe me they are pretty mixed. My girlfriend and I have been tog...
A. 1 October 2010: My girlfriend doesn't like me watching porn or masturbating at all, so I stopped. Its not really an issue because she takes care of me daily. In the beginning it was hard because on days that she had her period, she wasn't feeling sexy so I wouldn't ... (read in full...)
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