How can she say that?
Q. I was just wondering if you think this is normal. My girlfriend said that if I was to die she knows that she would probably love someone else, and that she would love that person as much as me, but how can she say that ir even imagine that if she ...
A. 21 September 2009: How can you want her to remain lonely and miserable for the rest of her life if you die, if you really love her?... (read in full...)
Do you think he'll come back?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have just broken up, he has been seeing another woman for a month, I found this out yesterday. We've been together for a year and a half and I feel as though my whole life has come tumbling down. I know who the woman is and ...
A. 17 April 2009: You will never know the answers to your questions, because he lied to you. He deceived you, and even if he answered your questions, do you think you'd really believe him after what he did?
I know what it's like to feel 'not good enough' compared... (read in full...)
Wondering if the guy I'm seeing is also seeing hookers...
Q. Wondering if the guy I'm seeing is also seeing hookers.. I found dozens and dozens of emails in his account going back and forth with hookers on Craigslist.He travels a lot, and most of the cities he was in, he seemed to correspond with the hookers ...
A. 27 February 2009: I wouldn't believe the guy. There are plenty other things one can do when they're bored than message hookers and ACTUALLY give them his hotel and room number. I think that's a dead giveaway that the hookers did come to his room, and seeing as a ... (read in full...)
I'm confused because he hugs other girls as well, help!!
Q. Theres a guy at school, who i knows likes me but i don't think i like him in that way, but there is a guy that i kinda like and i was talking to my friends about the guy that likes me and the guy that i like was there too and he's friends with the ...
A. 27 February 2009: He COULD be just a really friendly guy, but he is definitely showing some interest in you, whether it be platonic or romantic. Try to relax around him and talk to him as just a friend, this will allow you to gauge what you're allowed to do around ... (read in full...)
Whenever I want to discuss an issue my b/f gets defensive, what should I do?
Q. How do you discuss an issue concerning your relationship with your boyfriend when his immediate reaction to the discussion is to get enraged and become distant. He is not able to have a non judgemental conversation or just hear you out about your ...
A. 27 February 2009: Sometimes, we don't realize that we actually DO come across as offensive. The best way is to wait for a time when you are alone together and both in a good or calm mood. Then say something along the lines of, "Honey, I love you so much, and I just ... (read in full...)
How do you tell your partner you aren't happy with the sex?
Q. How do you talk to a partner/lover about your unhappiness with the sexual aspect of your relationship? I have some issues with my girlfriend, and I feel like I need to talk to her about them, but the more I think about it the more I feel like an a...
A. 27 February 2009: Don't tell her "I don't like our sex", but rather tell her what you do like. "I like when you do that" or "Can we try this?" this is how me and my boyfriend figure out what works, and we don't take it offensively, we just do it. At first, everyone ... (read in full...)
I have a b/f but I miss the thrill of the chase that I could have with this new guy, any thoughts?
Q. Im happily in love with my boyfriend, and though we have our ups and downs, its great, only thing is, theres this guy.. and i dont like him, but he speaks to me on msn and lately hes been telling me he likes me .. he gave me his mobile number and im ...
A. 27 February 2009: This kind of thing happens often. I think that, as long as you don't cheat, you are allowed to flirt (otherwise, you'll feel trapped and may actually cheat one day!). Just make sure your flirting doesn't go into the territory of EMOTIONAL CHEATING - ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to encourage his feelings for me again?
Q. Please can you help me with my current situation? A few months ago I had a brief relationship with a guy I had known for many years. We were both fresh out of long term relationships and things between us seemed to move very fast. He recognised th...
A. 11 November 2008: You have done the right thing.
He will be able to feel comfortable around you now that he knows you aren't gonna be pushy for a relationship again.
However, if you do want to take things to the next level once you feel he is over his ex and read... (read in full...)
I HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING BUT KISS A GIRL BEFORE, NOW IM GOING TO DO ORAL FOR THE FIRST TIME, I NEED ADVICE!
Q. ive been with my girlfriend over a couple of months now, and we are both ready to do oral sex. i've never done anything but kiss before. and im really nervous about showing my dick. im scared i might be too hairy, too small, and the main reason im ...
A. 11 November 2008: Most guys are self-conscious about HAVING foreskin! I've been with guys who have had them and who haven't, and I prefer guys who don't have them, BUT it really doesn't make much of a difference to me. You're just scared because it'll be your first ... (read in full...)
How long will it take me to get over him and move on?
Q. 4 months ago my boyfriend left me for my best friend! We were together for 2.5 years and I have a 20 month old son with him, whom he hasn't seen in about 3 months, he doesn't come to see him or call to check on him or pay child support for that ...
A. 10 November 2008: That's really terrible what he did to you, and what your best friend did to you. Even if he does come back, I am telling you the wisest decision for you would be to NOT take him back, but perhaps still keep in touch for the sake of your child. If he ... (read in full...)
We had sex once and now he doesn't want to do it again! What gives?
Q. Hey, well basically i am a 22 year old girl and i've started going out with this guy who is a year older and we get along really well and i'm really happy with him. We've slept together once and this was a few weeks ago when we were a bit drunk, ...
A. 10 November 2008: You will really never know until you ask him.
I know that sounds difficult, but maybe you can ease into it. I find that sometimes my boyfriends and I get into intense conversations where honesty and openness are appreciated. When one of these come... (read in full...)
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