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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im happily in love with my boyfriend, and though we have our ups and downs, its great, only thing is, theres this guy.. and i dont like him, but he speaks to me on msn and lately hes been telling me he likes me .. he gave me his mobile number and im so tempted to text him, its not cosi like him, but cos i miss the thrill of the chase.. you know when a guy likes you and you feel like as if your in control sort of thing.. i miss feeling like someone is trying hard to impress me .. dont get me wrong, my boyfriend is lovely to me and makes me feel so loved, but its a different sort of feeling .. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): Well I would usually say "grow up!" but then I saw how old you were and then it became clear. At your age, you should be having lots of fun "playing the field" so to speak, finding out who you are sexually etc.
It's natural to want to feel wanted, but if you plan on staying with your guy, then you should be actively trying to keep up the attraction with him. keep the spark going...
There's nothing wrong with flirting, but there is, of course, somehting wrong with cheating :D
Have fun!
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reader, Janicp14  +, writes (27 February 2009):
This kind of thing happens often. I think that, as long as you don't cheat, you are allowed to flirt (otherwise, you'll feel trapped and may actually cheat one day!). Just make sure your flirting doesn't go into the territory of EMOTIONAL CHEATING - which is telling another person you have feelings for them, leading them on sexually, or telling them too much information about your feelings, or lack thereof, for your current beau. It's ok to like the chase, but make sure it doesn't get in the way of your relationship!
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