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How can teens delay teen sex?on how to avoid early sex

Q.   Please provide advice for teens on how to avoid early sex There are many pressures on teens and everyone wants to feel like they are like every one else. And not be different from friends. And so many people think they are successful if they can be w...

A.   21 August 2011: I had sex because its something so widely discussed i felt like i was missing information on one of the most important subjects around but its really not THAT great afterwards. You dont really learn anything new it just that your involved in the act ... (read in full...)

Is there anyone genuine on the internet?

Q.   Has anybody met anyone genuine on the internet? I have met some really rude people and am beginning to wonder if it's me. Met one guy who sent me an email with bullet points saying why he didn't want to meet again. Another guy brought 3 con...

A.   21 August 2011: I met my boyfriend of 5 years on the net (although he did go to my school and added me because he knew my sister) but i think its the best way to get to know someone! its like a blind date but your blind the whole way through and really get to know ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend keeps breaking up with me so she can go out with other men, what should I do?

Q.   hello everyone, so my girlfriend cheated one me broke up with me saying it was my fault, then when i found out it was cause she was cheating on me i forgave her and we got back together. then she started a fight so she could go on a date with ...

A.   6 January 2010: Dump that abusive turd.... (read in full...)

Best form of birth control?

Q.   Hi, I've recently decided to pick the option of going on birth control. Both to be safe and because my period kills me most of the time (as i'm sure it does with every girl). However, I also want to be very sure of the type of birth control I ...

A.   6 January 2010: Well im on the pill and its fine but im switching as soon as im 18 (becuase thats the age you need to be so im sure to get it) to the implant becuase i think it will be alot easier! i wont worry about getting ill and it not working and i cant ever ... (read in full...)

Is oral sex considered losing your virginity?

Q.   I am 14 and I want to save my self for marrage but I keep having sexual urges and dreams tempting me.and I think it oral sex would help but I dont know If its considered loosing your virginity please help me ...

A.   6 January 2010: No you would still be a virgin if you had oral sex..... (read in full...)

My penis was wet after having sex with her without a condom, will she get pregnant?

Q.   hi...i am 16 and my girlfriend has juz turned 18 last month.... today when i was at home with her fooling around.....i put my penis ingide her vegina juz 4 times without a condom....well i wasnt cuming when i had sex with her but my penis was ...

A.   6 January 2010: pre-cum baby! Theres a high chance she could be pregnant as pre-cum contains sperm (you dont need to ejaculate to get her pregant) but the wetness on your penis was probably from her and you. Yes she should take a pill (24 hour pill) just to be ... (read in full...)

It hurts my girlfriend when we have sex in the missionary position, what other positions can we try?

Q.   my girlfriend told me I hurt her when we missionary what shall I do, different position?...

A.   6 January 2010: she should go get checked out.. i dont think its normal to be sore doing that maybe she is nervous and needs to relax.. try using lube and be very gentle xx... (read in full...)

If I cheat on my boyfriend how will it affect me if I never tell him?

Q.   So me an my bf are going on 4months. And for either of us this is a big deal. But I have been talking to this other guy corey and I am starting to get feelings for him. We talk more than my boyfriend and now I think that me and my bf are just too ...

A.   5 January 2010: Sounds like coreys using you a bit.. he doesnt want a relationship but wants sex? just explain to him you dont want to be friends with benefits you want to be in a relationship and dont think that giving him what he wants will persuade him to be in ... (read in full...)

I think my teacher may be attracted to me

Q.   i think my teacher might be attracted to me, i see him all the time and we're pretty close. some things he has said or done: told me i am beautiful, cute, said i had a nice arse, once he even said i was orering him around like a married couple. ...

A.   5 January 2010: Hes using you. Hes taking advantage of a child becuase he knows he can and hes probably pulling the same thing in his other classes. Dont think your anything special hes just a creepy peadophile who will tarnish your reputation and ruin your life ... (read in full...)

Is it a good idea to ignore him for a few months so he will eventually give up on me and I can move on?

Q.   OK... So I slept with my friend (Ultimate mistake!!) And of course, me being the chick, I started to have feelings for him.I thought we could have been really good together and I know he did at one stage too cuz he told me. Anyway, I have totally ...

A.   5 January 2010: im confused you say that you will end up sleeping with him again and that he needs to get over you but it seems like he is trying to show you that he is over you if he is adding you into emails where he is checking out other girls.. ??... (read in full...)

I made a mistake whilst my girlfriend and I had split up, now there is a chance she could find out! What should I do?

Q.   About a year ago, my girlfriend, of about a year at the time and i, broke up, i stupidly got drunk to deal with it and slept with a girl who id been friends with and known for a while. I hated myself for it after and my girlfriend and i got back...

A.   5 January 2010: ok.. dont do what i would and say "oh.. no.. they are telling lies!! I didnt do that!" you will probably just be digging a bigger hole for youself (i was about to say you cant dig youself out a hole but you can if you dig steps?.. anyway) and she ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wont tell me she loves me or show any affection towards me, what should I do?

Q.   My girl and i have been going out for over 8 months. We really get along but the only snag in our relationship is that she doesnt tell me she loves me and she doesnt allow me to hold her or stay close to her. I know that she loves me but not hearing ...

A.   5 January 2010: ok.. you cant do anything.. i know this because i was like that with my boyfriend for AGGGGES just allow her to get comfortable with being close to you take things VEEEEERY slowly she just needs to know that you love her no matter what and that she ... (read in full...)

Everything Happens For a Reason - WHY?

Q.   I am a firm believer that "Everything Happens For a Reason!" The problem is that we don't know the reason! We can drive ourselves mad asking ourselves "WHY?" Why do people touch our lives and then disappear? Why is there so much pain and h...

A.   3 January 2010: If there wasnt any bad in the world then there wouldnt be any good.. everything would be just like that movie pleasentville.. watch it and yeah i believe everything happens for a reason because all of those bad things lead up to a good thing and if ... (read in full...)

Condom Help!

Q.   Recently I have been having some trouble with condoms. Luckily this is just me experimenting with the different sizes, etc. I do not think I will have a problem with premature ejaculation (or at least hope not) I take my time when I masturbate, i ...

A.   3 January 2010: You are cumming because you have a condom fettish..? jk Buy bigger condoms and just think about something you dont find attractive.. like what the inside of a radiator looks like or how lightbulbs are made or something while you put it on lmao xx... (read in full...)

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