I'm being forced into marriage in India. Please help!!
Q. My parents have arranged a marriage with someone I really do not want to be with. He is 17yrs older than me, short, balding, overweight, unattractive and the few times I have been forced to sit with him I found him to have bad hygiene! I know people ...
A. 1 January 2009: Listen whatever you are saying seems so unbelievable.
If you can write English as well as you did, you can get job in number of call centers in almost all major cities in India.
There are number of PG (women only) options available.
I ... (read in full...)
I don't believe in getting intimate with any boy just to satisfy sexual needs, I want to wait for the "one". What do you think?
Q. Hello friends. I am a 29 year old unmarried, virgin girl from India. I would like to discuss one of my beliefs with all of you. Hope you don't call me a psycho as all others call me. I have been a very outstanding student, always a topper. I am wor...
A. 29 December 2008: You can take up masturbation.
Better than frustration.
... (read in full...)
How to pleasure a girl without having sex?
Q. Whats the best way to give a girl pleasure WITHOUT having sex?...
A. 29 December 2008: You can try foot massage. Earlier in our relationship, that was the max physical we got.
I used to wash her feet and kiss them. She just loved it.... (read in full...)
I'm soon to be married to a she-devil.
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm a 28 year old man from India. I'm an investment banker and about to be married to a lawyer in about 60 days time. In the last 150 days of our engagement, we have gottent to know each other a little, even confessed love. But...
A. 29 December 2008: Dear Friend,
I am from Delhi, age 34, IIT graduate, run a 25 cr business.
So, I really know where you are coming from. It took me some time to read and re read the entire chain.
Bugs, others are awesome.
I would like to suggest a resource... (read in full...)
Lost interest?
Q. hey guys this may seem a really weird question or problem but recently my boyfriend and i seem alil off with each... in the sence that previously we would have sex like 3 or 4 times in one night and now it just seems that after one round he just ...
A. 29 December 2008: No baby,
The first few months in a relationship, guys can do endlessly.
This is normal. Happens to all guys
Ask him to get more exercise. And have dates with warm milk at night.... (read in full...)
I'm having such a difficult dating..need some advice!
Q. This is a long post and I don't have a specific question really - I am just unsure of what to do. I have never had a boyfriend or dated; I rarely am approached by guys. I'm a great person but I just don't have the "it" that attracts men. ...
A. 29 December 2008: Read the Secret.
Transform your clearing and universe will align.
Just be passionate about your life. Go to a new class, take up a new hobby, essentially meet new people, things will happen.
Stop looking for guys, you will have more than ... (read in full...)
I want to make love with my boyfriend before marriage, we are from India, should I do it?
Q. Hey everyone suggest me to do right. I am from India, here in US for my PhD. I love a US guy here. But my parents in India have settled my marriage with an Indian boy, and i am going with their decision as our society wll not allow me with a US guy. ...
A. 29 December 2008: You are asking this question because your heart says no. So you are kind of seeking public affirmation.
Sorry dear. I would say no.
Look like this. The first sexual act (this is what I presume it is) is like imprinting.
You CAN NOT tak... (read in full...)
My guy and his best female friend have weird relationship
Q. I have been dating this guy for two months and one of his best friends is a girl. I know her and she is nice to me but there is something i cant really put my finger on it but something weird about their relationship. She has a husband and a child ...
A. 29 December 2008: If he loved you, there is no doubt, that he would have got you something.
Heck, this is the first Christmas you guys are together.
He is in love with her.
Get out.... (read in full...)
How do I stop my crush on my teacher?
Q. i am in love with my 58 yr old physical education teacher n i am abt to turn 15.i was totally depressed in my 9th grade when my boyfriend cheated on me,he helped me get out of the stuff.its been 2 years and we are now very good friends.we frequently ...
A. 24 November 2008: Dear Friend,
You know the right answer.
You know what is required to be done.
Just pray to GOD every day.
And stop meeting / calling him.
It is normal to get attracted to the father figures in our lives. But no need to let that crush... (read in full...)
I'm having an affair with my sons HS basketball coach and now I'm pregnant, help!
Q. My name is Ashlee my husband and I been married 18 years and we have 3 beautiful kids a son and two daughters, but I am having an affair with my son's high school basketball coach. My son is 16. The trouble is, we're both married. I had noticed how ...
A. 24 November 2008: My advice as a man would be,
a) Get abortion As SOON as Possible
b) DO NOT talk to your husband. Mostly guys would'nt even know.
c) Go and clean up to your GOD. BUT DO NOT talk to your husband or the coach or anyone about pregnancy. It will f... (read in full...)
Anyone know about any home remedy for breast enlargement?
Q. best home remedy for breast enlargement.i m 19 years old.i really feel shy in wearing tops....
A. 24 November 2008: Accept yourselves as you are and as you are not.... (read in full...)
Is this normal or am I crazy??
Q. OK so I have so many questions and I dont know where to start so I giving this a try, I'm honestly just looking for advice, so I am a fairly younger person who has recently went through a divorce, my marriage was falling about a year ago, anyways ...
A. 24 November 2008: You get sex,
You get emotional support
Stop looking for permanence in this relationship. This relationship has an expiry date.
Enjoy while it lasts.... (read in full...)
What are the chances of her being pregnant?
Q. Hi, yesterday me and my girlfriend had sex.. we didnt use condoms. i did not cum. but there was a liquid kind of thing.. she said she felt something wet, but im 100% sure i did not cum. is she going to be pregnant? what are the chances? ...
A. 24 November 2008: It is called i-Pill by CIPLA.
And use protection next time.
If you guys are steady and a couple, why doesn't she move on pill.
You guys are'nt married. Abortion risk is hers. Not worth it darling.... (read in full...)
This 23 year-old guy gave me my first orgasm - I'm 38 and married. Should I move out to India to be with him?
Q. If anyone out there can help ME GET MY HEAD STRAIGHT please do. At the end of Dec 2007 I met the most lovely, handsome and charming Indian man - problem is he is 23yrs old - 15yrs younger than me and I am married,I have always been faithful to...
A. 24 November 2008: Don't be silly.
It is simply sex, hormones, body needs.
Enjoy if do.
But, don't leave your husband. It will go no where.... (read in full...)
Is it legal to do sex between an unmarried couple in a hotel room?
Q. I want to do sexual intercourse with my girlfriend in a hotel. Is it legal to do sex between an unmarried couple in a hotel room? May I arrested by the police?...
A. 24 November 2008: The legality of sexual relationships in India is as follows:
a) If she is less than 16, then consensual or not, it is RAPE and you will get fucked if ever this comes up.
b) If she is over 16, consensual and she is currently not married to someo... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a guy but don't know how to tell if he likes me too?
Q. I love a boy more than my life...I think of him every second...He is my classmate...We both are friends but we are not too close..He always makes fun when I m with him.He talks only with three girls of our class and I m one among them...There was an ...
A. 24 November 2008: I would advise you to just not add any meaning to his actions.
You give power to someone when you allow their action to decide your happiness.
And guys want to chase. Not be chased.
So just play cool.
And focus on your studies.... (read in full...)
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