My wife no longer loves me after what I thought were 15 happy yrs. Out of the blue. How can it better?
Q. Hello, i am lost. My wife has just told me she no longer loves me after what i thought were 15 happy years together. This is a bolt out of the blue for me. We have 3 children, I cannot fight her on this because it only drives her further away,...
A. 12 November 2007: I am so very sorry you are going through this, I cannot begin to imagine how difficult it must be for you. Can you give us more information on why she is unhappy or why she would want to live her life without you? Please take care of you during ... (read in full...)
He likes sex with me but does not want to marry me.
Q. i badly love a guy. according to him he is also loves me. he is working in a placement services. so he called me for a job in janubry but after that we didn't have any contact. in may he was again calling me for a job. after that we was talking on ...
A. 28 October 2007: You are confusing love with sex. They are very different for men. The reason there are so few male prostitutes is that women equate sex with love and therefore have no desire for a prostitute. Just because this man has sex with you does not in ... (read in full...)
I think he is a child porn addict.
Q. My boyfriend was out of town last night. I got drunk by myself (mistake) and had a thought that I would go to his apartment and look through some photos that he seemed to be hiding from me (mistake). So after much delay and trying to talk myself ...
A. 26 August 2007: I think if you ask him about it he will lie to you, if you tell him you know because of his journal, he will make up a story about how he doesn't do this anymore. Be patient and a little more observant, and gather a little more evidence to support ... (read in full...)
Told my boyfriend's sister something secret about his sexual history... will he forgive?
Q. I was angry at my boyfriend and crossed a boundary that I shouldn't have. He told me something in confidence about his sexual history, I had been angry with him earlier and in while in that angered state, I told his sister. He has every right to be ...
A. 26 August 2007: You can try the 3 A's of sincerety...Apologize for what you did, Acknowledge what you did wrong, and Assure it will never happen again. But you have to mean it... good luck!... (read in full...)
He cheated online , and now I dont trust him and am a jealous maniac!
Q. I have recently found out my partner of three years have been 'cheating' online with a girl he claims he never met. I came across a saved msn conversation on the computer which was quite graphic, this girl knew I exsisted as she asked where I was, ...
A. 25 August 2007: I feel your pain! It has been a week since I broke it off for good with my boyfriend over the exact same thing...this all surfaced about a year ago and he has promised and sworn a thousand times exactly like your man, that it is all ... (read in full...)
I have a problem with the "lower area". Do you think she'll be freaked out?
Q. Alright I'm wondering if this is enough to weird a girl out.. and it willsound a bit gross, but w/e. so here goes... I had a whitehead on the base of my penis, in other words, its basically a white bump, its not massive, but is definatley noticabl...
A. 22 August 2007: This is for the way to trusting and not looking out for number one (that's yourself) ladies. If my man had a bunp on his penis, and he has had other sexual partners before me, I would want that bump to either be gone or checked out by a doctor ... (read in full...)
I'm an 18 year old and a porn model. Most people look down on me. Why is that?
Q. I'm an 18 year old and a porn model. Most people look down on me. Why is that? What is so wrong about it? What is everyone's opinion on me? ...
A. 16 August 2007: You are so young to make a decision that affects the rest of your life, and this will. Can you imagine seeing your mum in a porn film? Well, someday your children, or the man of your dreams, or your father, or brother, or sister will see you. How ... (read in full...)
When will I most likely get pregnant, just before my period or right after?
Q. If I have sex right when my period stops will there be a bigger chance of me getting pregnant even if he wears a condom? When will I most likely get pregnant, just before my period or right after?...
A. 14 August 2007: don't take chances if you are not ready for a baby, pregnancies happen all the time.... (read in full...)
I've been seeing a guy for about a year now. He has no sex drive whatsoever.
Q. I've been seeing a guy for about a year now. He has no sex drive whatsoever. We've had sex a few times that's it. He likes to kiss me and that's where it stops. Is there anything I can do?...
A. 14 August 2007: There is another possibility, although a very debated one, does he look at a lot of porn? I am in a relationship with a man for 3 years now who has an addiction to porn. He loves me very much, he is kind and touchy feely in public, but at home he ... (read in full...)
What is the consensus on the difference between men and women's differences in fantasy and drawing the line with including other people for visual stimulation versus tactile?
Q. I need some discussion on masturbation, my mate only wants sex with me 1-2 times a month but masturbates to porn almost daily, it has become a huge issue since I would like sex more often and feel sexually frustrated. Recently he told me that I ...
A. 11 August 2007: sorry hlskitten, but you are misinformed. google sexual addiction or porn addiction and you will find what I am speaking of..... why do people smoke? some people smoke cigarretes when they are young and then quit for a healthier lifestyle, some ... (read in full...)
What is the consensus on the difference between men and women's differences in fantasy and drawing the line with including other people for visual stimulation versus tactile?
Q. I need some discussion on masturbation, my mate only wants sex with me 1-2 times a month but masturbates to porn almost daily, it has become a huge issue since I would like sex more often and feel sexually frustrated. Recently he told me that I ...
A. 10 August 2007: Thank you Danielepew,
I have read some of your other responses that you feel that a woman's feelings should be respected if she doesn't want porn to be part of the relationship, I have great respect for you and commend you for having this ins... (read in full...)
What is the consensus on the difference between men and women's differences in fantasy and drawing the line with including other people for visual stimulation versus tactile?
Q. I need some discussion on masturbation, my mate only wants sex with me 1-2 times a month but masturbates to porn almost daily, it has become a huge issue since I would like sex more often and feel sexually frustrated. Recently he told me that I ...
A. 10 August 2007: G***##$@&rockstar,
thanks, I have been able to do the same on the phone with him before, but I can't intitiate...he has all say over when, where, how, blah,blah, f*c#ing blah, I am getting to the point I just hate his selfish bullshit so much and ... (read in full...)
What is the consensus on the difference between men and women's differences in fantasy and drawing the line with including other people for visual stimulation versus tactile?
Q. I need some discussion on masturbation, my mate only wants sex with me 1-2 times a month but masturbates to porn almost daily, it has become a huge issue since I would like sex more often and feel sexually frustrated. Recently he told me that I ...
A. 10 August 2007: thank you deejuliet and to the anonymous writer, it amazes me that from complete strangers, with so little insight that you are able to nail things so precisely. I really wanted to debate about the masturbation but you have all steared clear and ... (read in full...)
What is the consensus on the difference between men and women's differences in fantasy and drawing the line with including other people for visual stimulation versus tactile?
Q. I need some discussion on masturbation, my mate only wants sex with me 1-2 times a month but masturbates to porn almost daily, it has become a huge issue since I would like sex more often and feel sexually frustrated. Recently he told me that I ...
A. 10 August 2007: marieclaire, I never thought of this, his selfishness.....he does tend to be selfish in other ways but I cut him a lot of slack in other areas, not so when it comes to sex because I enjoy it so much :-) I didn't see this as an extention of his ... (read in full...)
What is the consensus on the difference between men and women's differences in fantasy and drawing the line with including other people for visual stimulation versus tactile?
Q. I need some discussion on masturbation, my mate only wants sex with me 1-2 times a month but masturbates to porn almost daily, it has become a huge issue since I would like sex more often and feel sexually frustrated. Recently he told me that I ...
A. 10 August 2007: Thank you cxxx,
I agree that one should not include third parties in a healthy relationship and that is why this is becoming tiresome to me because not only does the porn feel like a third party, but a fourth and fifth and so on ...and I have trie... (read in full...)
Am I gay or or bi?
Q. hey, i am questioning the fact of me being bi or am i lesbian? cause i have noticed i tend to notice chix alot more than guys. i also have never had a "sex" dream about a guy it has always been girls. and idk if maybe this is just curiosity since i ...
A. 9 August 2007: you are very young and could be heavily influenced by the media which teaches women to check out other women and you may fantasize about other women because most porn is directed at fantasizing about women and doing things to them.....are you ... (read in full...)
My penis curves to one side, what can I do about it?
Q. I have a problem with my penis, it bends to the left when it is erect. It takes the form of a banana. I have had this problem for as long as I could remember please help. ...
A. 9 August 2007: use it to your advantage.......women's g-spots are under their belly buttons, use the angle to hit that little spot and watch your girl react...speaking from personal experience, I think it is an advantage, it's like having added girth... (read in full...)
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