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I have a problem with the "lower area". Do you think she'll be freaked out?

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Question - (22 August 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 22 August 2007)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Alright I'm wondering if this is enough to weird a girl out.. and it willsound a bit gross, but w/e. so here goes...

I had a whitehead on the base of my penis, in other words, its basically a white bump, its not massive, but is definatley noticable, hich worries me because i know me and my gf will be having oral soon, and shes judgemental of other people (but don't let it fool you, shes great) anyways, i figure if shes going to be up close and personal with my shaft she's most definatley going to notice it.

I'm wondering if you think it is enough to freak her out or can i get rid of it?

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A female reader, hit-the-road,jack... United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2007):

you say you dont want a doctor looking at your "manbits" yeah

what would you prefer, him looking at it as part of his job, having seen loads of things like it beofre,

or her down there looking at you with a wtf look on her face and asking you "um sorry but wtf is this?"

just thinking of worst case scenarios yeah, but seriously, get it checked out.

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A female reader, hugs4u002 United States +, writes (22 August 2007):

This is for the way to trusting and not looking out for number one (that's yourself) ladies. If my man had a bunp on his penis, and he has had other sexual partners before me, I would want that bump to either be gone or checked out by a doctor before I touch it. My health is to important to take chances.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007):

I also have never heard of a whitehead on a penis. Are you sure it's not warts? They can look like califlouer. You need to go to the dr. you can go to the community health clinic for free if you don't have insurance. I would be freaked out if I were her b/c I would be assuming it were an STI. Go get checked.

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A female reader, lovehate United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2007):

lovehate agony auntDon't worry, she won't hate you for it! If she really likes you she won't care. Spots are spots they go away. It is probably usual for some guys. Although before you do ANYTHING get it checked it could be something you do not want to let her go near orally. Just be careful! Please be safe...

Good Luck And Have Fun x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007):

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Oh I know for a fact it's not herpees, I'm sure the doctor would have some topical cream or something to fix it right up... I'm not too comfortable having a guy holding my junk and whatnot, or even just examining me for that matter, it'd be pretty akward.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007):

I would be checking out the little bumb at the doctor's, it may be a herpes blister, and you certainly don't want to be having oral or sex and give this to your partner.....no sex until the bump is checked, I have never heard of having a whitehead on the penis???

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (22 August 2007):

love-him agony aunthey bbe, if she rly likes u so much thn she shudnt b worried.. if its just a normal spot leave it alone cos if u pop it thn it will spread.. if u r too worried about it then go to the doctor who will sort u out.. i hope i helped, mail me if u wanna talk x x

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A female reader, xoWhEnYourArOuNdxo United States +, writes (22 August 2007):

xoWhEnYourArOuNdxo agony auntI honestly don't think it will bother her too much, I mean, it's not permanent. You can't be the only guy that's ever gotten one there so I think she'll understand. I'm not sure exaclty what you could use to get rid of it because it's prbably sensitive down there. I would suggest to go to a drug store and find a creame that gets rid of whiteheads, and is for sensitve skin. Best of luck:]

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