How do I politely tell this man that I don't wish to stay in contact?
Q. How do I let someone know politely that I don't want to be in contact with them any more? So there's a guy who I used to be kind of friends with in another city. I've met up with him a handful of times and we chatted occassionally on skype. For the ...
A. 18 February 2016: You can’t be polite in this situation just tell him straight and then he will back off ... (read in full...)
We've been dating for 2 years and my jobless girlfriend depends on me for everything!
Q. Here it is! My girlfriend and i have been together for two yrs. She has no job, no car, and depends on me for her children's appointment s or shopping and the like. I have no problem helping her as she had let me stay with her in the begining...
A. 18 February 2016: I think you need to man up. What if it was the other way round? You in your 30’s this is what happens when you’re in a relationship you do things for each other. You never know you might come out of a job and she might have to support you. Im sorry ... (read in full...)
I feel like his mom always comes first!
Q. Please can I have advice on how to deal with my husband and his mother, she has always been very reliant on him but in the last few months since he became a house husband, he spends all his time on the phone to her and going round to her (she lives ...
A. 18 February 2016: I’m kind of with you. If you are both on a day out and he just ‘drops’ everything for her (unless it’s an emergency) i would be completely fuming. My h2b is very close with his mother he was basically smothered when he was a child so since he has ... (read in full...)
would you be checking out hot babes on the internet while your girlfriend is sitting next to you?
Q. Guys, help me out here. I know men are visual, I've heard that many times. They like to look at the female body, my question is, would you be checking out hot babes on the internet while your girlfriend is sitting next to you? and making comments, ...
A. 15 February 2016: if a hot girl pops up on the tv my boyfrind makes a comment too it doesnt bother me at all... at the end of the day hes with me so why should it bother me?
same for you!
i think your being abit silly.
if it is bothering you that much, explai... (read in full...)
My gf is texting another guy
Q. Hi guys, I've been with my current girlfriend for over a year. At first, we started off as casual. During this time, she hooked up with two different guys and then met her ex girlfriend for Valentine's day (she swore nothing happened). I acc...
A. 11 February 2016: So let me get this right...
Your girlfriend went out 'met' a guy exchanged numbers and now they’re constantly texting each other.
Why are you putting up with this??
You need to tell her you are not happy with this!
You take her on holiday a... (read in full...)
Should I reveal all to the wife of my ex? My Bf will leave me if I fail to tell her
Q. Hi, I recently started dating an amazing guy, everything has been great and we are thinking about getting married. While talking about our pasts he found out that up until the day I met him I was still friends with an ex boyfriend. The...
A. 16 January 2016: No - do not tell his wife! If your boyfriend doesn’t trust you then he shouldn’t be marrying you, sorry but its true! I don’t see why telling the wife would make things better, he still isn’t going to trust you. If you tell the wife, who says the ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's sister has me rattled
Q. I am finding my girlfriend's sister really annoying lately and feel like I'm getting to the point where im gonna say something or snap. I'm trying to be understanding because she has recently got out of a long-term relationship, moved back home ...
A. 13 January 2016: Tell her straight!
Explain the rude remarks are annoying you and you don’t like it. Don’t pussy foot around because it is your girlfriend’s sister. But also don’t be rude yourself, I tell my husband’s mother straight if she says something I don’... (read in full...)
Should I go with the good guy or do I stay where I'm comfortable?
Q. About a month ago, my life got a little messy. I have been in a faithful, committed relationship for four years. My boyfriend and I have an apartment together, we own three cats and a dog. We've had a long history. We've been through everything ...
A. 13 January 2016: To put this bluntly – you don’t deserve either of them!
But on another level, only you can make this decision. You need to tell your boyfriend who you have been with for four years the truth, yes it will hurt him but you cannot keep this from him!... (read in full...)
I want to save this relationship, so how can I get him to understand that what I said was a mistake that was not aimed at him?
Q. The love of my life broke up with me a few weeks ago because I was in a confrontational mood and said some very mean and hurtful things to him. Obviously, I did not mean what I said at all and I love him dearly. He is obviously hurt. He goes out of ...
A. 13 January 2016: I think you need to give up! You’ve expressed how much he has meant to you and that you was sorry its now your turn to let him stew! If he doesn’t realise then you need to move on.
Good Luck!
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My girlfriend treats me like a child
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend for 9 months, we met in the health club we work at (I'm a physical therapist, she's a yoga instructor). Things have been great, but their is one HUGE a problem, she's 10 years older than me (I'm 26,she's 36) and she ...
A. 13 January 2016: You are not going to like me after this but I only do honesty!
After reading this it sounds like you are acting like a child. Being in a relationship means you do things for each other weather you like it or not. My husband asks me to do thin... (read in full...)
When is right to ask her over?
Q. Hi, is four dates, too early to ask to come over to her place, bring a movie, and popcorn so we can be alone, and snuggle. We have been out dancing, out to eat, talking on the phone, that is texing. I have ask, she says its too early. I don't dr...
A. 13 January 2016: no i dont think it is too early.. but maybe thats just me! i invited my husband over after 2 dates for a movie and food. i think there is more to her and her drink if she is talking about it all the time. considering this i would just wait maybe 1 ... (read in full...)
Will he ever get some courage and finally ask me out?
Q. Will he ever get some courage and finally ask me out? im 32 and he is 27 he is a store manager at a grocery store...from the looks of things he is doing quite well for himself. well ive had a couple of customers ask me was I his girlfriend..i sa...
A. 13 January 2016: he is obviously a very shy person, why dont you just ask him out and see what he says? whats the worst that can happen, him say no? least you tried! ... (read in full...)
Is he treating me right?
Q. So I have a question. But the whole story first. My boyfriend and I arranged an evening to spend together before he leaves for college. That same day (of the evening) he cancelled because he rather wanted to go out with his friends. With that he ...
A. 13 January 2016: the answer to that is NO!
i'm sorry but he obviously isnt into you as much as your into him. Let him stew for a change dont keep messaging him, let him go to college and see if he starts messaging you. it could be a way of him trying to ease off ... (read in full...)
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