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writes:Will he ever get some courage and finally ask me out?im 32 and he is 27 he is a store manager at a grocery store...from the looks of things he is doing quite well for himself. well ive had a couple of customers ask me was I his girlfriend..i said no.....and he looked up at me and then put his head down....anyway he is shorter than me im 5'3 and he is 5'0 and he is fluffy ( I normally don't date men of that stature ) but if he was to ask me out id give him a chance, he seems like a very nice guy..he picks on me constantly, he knows I like to cook so now he asks me what am I going to cook him......lmao.....even my brother was like that dude wants you.....well yesterday I went up to him and I was like, hey and he turned around and stared at me with this shocked/stunned looked on his face and I said here and I gave him a folded piece of paper with my name and number on it and I walked away...since I did that do you think he will finally get some courage and ask me out? thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2016): UPDATE Well i went back into the store about two weeks after i gave him my number and i got no phone call..well he gave me an attitude and started smirking at me when i asked him where something was, they are moving things around in the store again.....well his friend decided to come over and help me and ol boy got hell a jealous...but he doesnt like me, so why get jealous...talk about petty and highly immature....thanks for your help everyone
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2016): why can't you ask him out? why does it have to always be the "Mans" role? why is a guy not a "Man" if he doesn't?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2016): thanks for all your answers, im going back to his store on friday, just to do shopping. (0= i wont say anything else to him.
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reader, Honest-Lu  +, writes (13 January 2016):
he is obviously a very shy person, why dont you just ask him out and see what he says? whats the worst that can happen, him say no? least you tried!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (13 January 2016):
 Well, he should !, if he is into you , and does not call you, he must be a veeeeery bad,sad case of social anxiety. I mean, in case he did not want to risk rejection, - you made everything so plain and easy for him, you could not have signaled better that you are interested, other than wearing a T-shirt with " Ask me out " on. Not that I am reproaching you ; in fact I think you made the right move. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
Of course , there are unknown variables , we can't predict 100% the results. He may not call you, regardless of the attraction to you which his body language betrays.... because he already has a Ms. Fluffy waiting for him at home. He may be very happily single, and not interested into anything dateish / coupley . And so on and so forth.
But, at least you have tried , and the little push you gave him was discreet and gentle .
So ... good luck !
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