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*illy123456
writes:So I have a question. But the whole story first. My boyfriend and I arranged an evening to spend together before he leaves for college. That same day (of the evening) he cancelled because he rather wanted to go out with his friends. With that he told me that he will only leave in twe days. So he will spend the whole next day with me. So the next day he came to me at work. Sat there while i was working. And then we went to the garage to fix his car. He got a call from his dad saying that they are driving the same eveing. (They were supposed to drive the next day) I was highly disappointed in him for putting me second. It was about the 3rd time he did that to me. I arrange things. And he cancels on the last minute for his friends. He also did the same thing yesterday. My mom had to have an emergency operation and i texted him. He replied like once or twice. And when i texted him everyhting and i told him i needed him. He didnt reply me, gis excuse was that he was playing Fifa with his friends. My question is.. is that right? Is he treating me right?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 January 2016):
 Sounds to me like he is at the stage off life where he does not want to commit to a girlfriend. He wants to spend time with his friends. No it is not fair that he cancels your plans, he obviously would prefer to hang with his friends. He is simply not ready to commit to a serious relationship and just looks to be with you when there is nothing else to keep him entertained.
You need to take a back seat. Go out and enjoy your life with friends. Don't put him first and see how it goes.
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reader, Honest-Lu  +, writes (13 January 2016):
the answer to that is NO!
i'm sorry but he obviously isnt into you as much as your into him. Let him stew for a change dont keep messaging him, let him go to college and see if he starts messaging you. it could be a way of him trying to ease off as hes going to college so he will want to be a 'LAD' and have fun. he cant do that when hes in a relationsip! and for him not to even be bothered to see if your okay when you mum had an operation is low. you deserve better!
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