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I'm with someone but my ex from 4 yrs ago is back in my life and is 'the one' but I worry that my weight is an issue?

Q.   About 4 years ago I had a boyfriend, long story short we were perfect for each other. Matters beyond eithers control we couldn't be together for a minute but before we could get back toegther I had to move and we lost contact. Flash forward 4 years ...

A.   18 September 2007: This is actually a really tough spot to be in. The thing is you are in a bad position to not knowing exactly how your ex feels. Will he accept you the way you are now, or is he in Love with the person he met before. This happened to me. Throughout ... (read in full...)

Married 22 years, 2 children caught in the middle, financial problems, had to give up work due to depression, unsupporting husband, no friend... What on earth am I going to do?

Q.   Hi, I really don't know what to do? I have been married for 22 years and have two teenage children. We have got financial money problems owing alot of money to alot of people. I have had to give up work due to suffering from depression and am u...

A.   17 September 2007: Stress is a marriage killer....Managing stress is one of the hardest things to do when you have two teens, no job, and an unsupportive husband. The financial problems need to be addressed, besides sex this the next biggest argument issue in ... (read in full...)

How can you get the man you love to want sex with you again?

Q.   We are a couple in our 30's. Together 4 years. No children, no stress, nice home and nice jobs. Sex life non existent.. well maybe once a month. You would think he was the female of the two of us. There are no sexual issues, not impote...

A.   17 September 2007: This is actually a typical problem for men in their 30's. Men just like women have their sexual peaks, but those peaks never seem to be on the same time, and if so, not for very long. What you are describing could be two things. (1) It could be... (read in full...)

My fiance is a control freak! He's forbidden me from wearing clothes I like and slapped me across the face!

Q.   my fionce is controlling, weve bee together just over a year and at the beginning of the relationship it was so perfect! now, hes a control freak, i cant even wear the tops that i like. hes pinned me down by the throat wen weve bin arguin n slapped ...

A.   15 September 2007: Sweety, you dont need to have all the facts. If a man puts his hands on you thats all the facts you need. He put his hands around your throat for CHRIST SAKES! What more do you need. Thats not respect. If you think it gets better, It doesnt. I deal ... (read in full...)

Last week when I was home he didn't come home and I know he was with an escort again. What do I do?

Q.   I have recently discovered that my partner has been paying for sex. I've been away a couple of times this year with our 6 month old and each time I've been away he has contacted an escort agency. Last week when I was home he didn't come home and I ...

A.   15 September 2007: Sometimes "Love" is just not enough. Its very sad that people involved in relationships do these things to themselves. The end result is always the same. If you stay, you stay and eventually it will happen again and then you are just hurting even ... (read in full...)

He says "your my girlfriend, not my mother". Should I be so concerned with his life choices?

Q.   Hey its me again, about the should I chuck him or wait for a miracle. I've got another question, my boyfriend wants to do more pot which is completely against my morals. He has plans to do it this weekend. I want to use the old "three strikes your ...

A.   15 September 2007: Relationships are about respect and compromise. If he doesnt respect you or your opinions then you need to re evaluate just why you are in this. Compromising is not something learned early on in life as that if he is between the ages of 17-21 he has ... (read in full...)

I take it from his actions he doesn't love me any more?

Q.   My guy broke up with me a few weeks back, it's so hard to get over him.. he doesn't even want to be friends.. says it's for the best.. I really want to get back with him.. I've emailed him telling him how I feel but he just doesn't reply:( I don't ...

A.   15 September 2007: The flip side to this is the fact that you are still pretty young and for the next couple of years you are going to experience these type of relationship troubles. Unfortunate as it may be, I have come to realize this. Every ending relationship I ... (read in full...)

Is my fiance cheap? He makes 2800 a month and spend 2000 on my ring.

Q.   Is my fiance cheap? He makes 2800 a month and spend 2000 on my ring....

A.   15 September 2007: If the ring is beautiful, why should it even matter. We are talking 2 grand right? When has 2k ever been considered cheap, regardless of what you make a month. If I had to make a guess we are giving the wrong person advice. I should probably be ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend isn't communicating with me right now. I could use some advice.

Q.   I met my boyfriend about 2 years on an internet dating site. Due to some personal situations we only started seeing each other more seriously about 6 months ago. Since then our relationship has been quite good. We are both independently minded ...

A.   12 September 2007: If this type of behavior is not normal then at this point something is pushing him away. I must say that I have been in the position where something goes wrong and I decide not to answer the phone or not respond to any communication from the other. ... (read in full...)

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