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In love with a Capricorn Male, Is this someone who might care for me and is scared or do I need to give up on him?

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Question - (10 April 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I am in love with a capricorn male. I am a cancer female who is separated and will soon be divorced.

I left my huband for this capricorn male. He has flirted with me, sends text messages and says he would go out with me but has cancelled all dates.

I have told him my feelings and he says that he is guarded but flattered that I like him. Now he has asked me not to call, text, or come by to see him.

I believe that he is my true love and have opened up all of my feeling to him. Is this someone who might care for me and is scared or do I need to give up on him?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2008):

a male capricorn likes to do the pursuing. if he likes you believe me he will let you know. they are picky and want the grace kelly type of girl. You have to be yourself, they like smart classy women and a wildcat in the bedroom :):) :) :) female cancer goes very well with male capricorn

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2008):

They are complex... They don't like too much being approached for a serious involvment when they don't feel ready, It's a long process for them because when they love, involvment for them is forever, that's why they have to make 100% sure about you and their feelings,... Better let them go to you and ask for you, otherwise, they might change their mind!! Your guy was maybe panicked when you told him about your feelings and left husband for him?!! They are really serious...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008):

What star sign was your husband?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008):

I'm a crab, and have only been able to tolerate a capricorn for only so long, then I want to just snapped them in the butt.

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A female reader, Guru1 Australia +, writes (10 April 2008):

I'm really surprised you left your husband based on some fairly non committal behaviours. I think this guy is terrified you could be a fatal attraction. I think it would be wise to explain to him that you didn't leave your marriage for him but because of other problems, I hope that is the case!

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A male reader, oldbiker United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2008):

oldbiker agony auntHi,

I'm sorry to say, it looks as tho' you have read into the relationship what you wanted to read. You got positive responses but no commitment. It could be that he is not ready to take it as far as you but it looks to me as tho' he is either not ready or was quite happy to flirt.

What do you do now? You can bombard him and scare him off totally or wait and see what happens, I fear that 'nothing' will happen.

I assume that there were other problems that caused your separation/divorce other than the appearance of Capricorn male on the scene?

Take care

Oldbiker

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