My brother terrifies me and is getting away with it
Q. A couple months ago I got pregnant. I am 14 years old and the pregnancy was in a way my fault. My brother has been doing stuff to me since I was young. i had a misscarrige and the doctor said it was because brothers and sisters arent meant to have ...
A. 28 May 2010: I agree. This is not right to you, in any way. You need to find someone you can trust. If you can't, you should contact some law enforcement to protect you from your brother.
What is happening to you is unacceptable. What you're going through ... (read in full...)
Love my boyfriend but no sex makes me want to move on
Q. my boyfriend and i are having problems i guess you could say. we have been together for a year and a half now. we only have sex about twice a month. his first excuse was that he never wanted to cause im too pushy about it but now he says he has a ...
A. 11 May 2010: honestly, you're young. your urges are only going to get stronger. women tend to peak at an older age too. for him, at his age, it will be different. his sex drive may decrease.
you can maybe try watching porn together? mutual masterat... (read in full...)
How does one overcome bitterness, or should I say pettiness?
Q. I know a lot about myself and why I react a certain way to certain situations. But I want to know how I can overcome my pettiness complex. I am still twisted and angry that all the girls at school and university ignored me. Is this being petty? What ...
A. 11 May 2010: I had the same exact problem. Except, I'm a girl. I'm angry that the entire male population overlooked me. I try to make myself attractive, to be friendly, etc. But sometimes it just doesn't work.
I used to figure, "hey, i'm pretty attracti... (read in full...)
How can I wait to have a baby?
Q. all i see every where is pregnant woman oryoung girls and im so jealous. i really wnt a baby, but my boyfriend doesnt yet. i dont know what to do to carry on for a couple years longer. does anyone know what i can do? please help me its hor...
A. 11 May 2010: do you know any friends with children? maybe babysit or just visit. Spending time with babies is great. They have their ups and downs.
Also, talk to your boyfriend. Wanting a baby is an important talk, he can give you reasons to hold off... (read in full...)
The guilt is haunting me so should I give him my diary?
Q. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-tell-my-boyfriend-i-nearly-cheated.html the above link is the situation i was in 9months ago. i have gone ahead and not told my bf about what happened. nor has he found out. the guilt still ha...
A. 11 May 2010: ok. i've read your very long entry and your very long previous entry. and honestly, i'm speechless.
You didn't cheat on him. Not at all. You flirted and never intended to cheat. You were dodging his physical advances. The teacher took adv... (read in full...)
I'm hot so how come I never get asked out?
Q. Im not ugly i swear everytime at school all the guys always say like DAMN when i pass by or LOTS of other things i never flirt with NOBODY though i dnt like to do tht cuz then they will call u hoe or somthin but the thing is that guys always check ...
A. 11 May 2010: There are many myths around hot/pretty girls.
1. She already has a boyfriend.
2. She is a slut so flirting alone will get some action (sad to say but true).
3. She's out of my league.
4. She's a bitch.
5. She's a tease.
6. She's h... (read in full...)
How big a deal is your partner's past?
Q. how big of a deal is your significant other's sexual past? she recently revealed that it is many more men than she said at the beginning of our relationship, and she hinted that there may have been 2 at once. this new information makes mor...
A. 11 May 2010: I agree with the first commenter. Can you get over what you know? Is there a limit to what you can handle with your partner? Will you be able to get over it? Will you be able to be comfortable with her sexually now?
The past is the past. A... (read in full...)
Too young for this love?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 8 months now, and says he wants to give me a ring, engagement ring to be exact. I was thrilled when he said this, but as i laid in bed i thought. Im 17,almost 18, this is my first serious relationship. ...
A. 11 May 2010: I think this is a two part question. 1) Are you too young for this love? 2) Are you sure he's the one when he's the only one you've been with?
1) No. Love happens all the time and outsiders can't understand how you feel when you're with him... (read in full...)
Pressured to get a boyfriend...
Q. I'm 14, Will i ever get a boyfriend? All my friends have boy friends and i feel pressured to get one, other wise i will be left out :( I want a boyfriend but i don't really have any guy friends that i hang out with or see anymore. Most of my frien...
A. 11 May 2010: You're 14. You're young. You have plenty of time to find a boyfriend. Don't worry about these things. First of all, don't worry about finding a boyfriend.
Your first goal should be finding things you like to do and things you have fun doin... (read in full...)
Caught wife in a car going down on another man, what to do?
Q. I was at a party this past weekend with my wife and in the middle of the party I lost my wife. When I tried to find her, she was nowhere to be found. Finally, I went out to chekc our car and she wasn't there. Ont eh way back I noticed a guy ...
A. 11 May 2010: Honestly, you know the answer to all of this. She came to the party with you. Drunk or not, she remembers that she was with you. Not enough alcohol in the world will make you forget that you are married, with your husband, etc.
You caught h... (read in full...)
What shall I do for my birthday?
Q. I'm not sure what to do this weekend for my birthday. I dont usually like going out drinking , but i thought as its a special occassion, i'd like to go. I want to go to a town that's close to where i live, as thats the better place to go if you want ...
A. 11 May 2010: what do you want to do? just you. it's your bday, not theirs. don't regret it. and don't think about other people because you'll enjoy yours less. whatever is funnest and easiest for you.... (read in full...)
I think I need therapy, but I don't know where to start...
Q. I'l try and keep this short. My friends have advised me to seek therapy, but i am not sure what to type to seek and if there are other ways in which to help me. Basically, since the age of around 17 I have been getting increasingly obs...
A. 10 May 2010: I would start with group therapy. See if there are any body image / eating disorder sessions available for you. I had the same problem, I would start fad diets all the time.
South Beach. Cookie. Diet Pills. Etc. In the end, if you really w... (read in full...)
My friends have ditched me for relationships. How do I let them know that it hurts?
Q. Should i tell my friends it really hurts me that they've all ditched me for boyfriends and girlfriends? I recently moved to a new school and have found it really hard to fit in, anyway about a month or two ago I felt really sure that I had made ...
A. 10 May 2010: I know exactly how you feel. In high school, I was the girl that never had a boyfriend, went to the prom (lack of date), etc. And I always felt excluded. I realize now what I should've done back then.
Maybe you should invite your friends ... (read in full...)
Changing his passwords on his accounts--says its "his business not mine"
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together a year, living together for 6 months. Last week he changed his hotmail and facebook passwords out of no where. He says its his business and none of mine. Why the sudden change? Should I be worried something is ...
A. 10 May 2010: I would just talk to him about it. What's the worst that can happen? If he's guilty of something, you'll find out. If he's feeling like things are going fast and he needs a little space, you'll find out. If he's just being a jerk, you'll find ... (read in full...)
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