Am I just an ego boost for him or does he have feelings for me?
Q. I have a crush on a guy at work. He's married but I don't know if he's happy. His wife is really beautiful and classy but he rarely ever talks about her. At work he always sits next to me when we're in meetings; he compliments me frequently on my ...
A. 1 January 2012: Please dont do anything with this guy, i got into a realationship with a married man, we i had thought where friends, good friends when it began. It is more heartbreak than you will ever know, even if he is interested which probably yeah he is, dont ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's lazy, unhygienic, has cockroaches on his bed,wants to get married and live in a trailer park..I'm done with him! Is it bad if I break up with him through text?
Q. Hey. I have an issue. I've been dating my bf for a year, and I want out. The problem is, he doesn't know I feel this way... Yet. I told my friends that I wanted to break up with him and when they all got drunk at a party, they told my bf's best ...
A. 26 December 2011: Woman up and tell him face to face! dont be one of those low people who deny someone of closure, this will in the end make it worse for both him and you as this will be all he wants and will keep hasseling you for answers trust me i know as i have ... (read in full...)
How to move forward in an off and on relationship
Q. Just wondering if it sounds like I'm being ridiculous.. In almost 3.5 years, my bf has broken it off twice. This is our 3rd time back together. Each time we broke up or got back together it was always a bit of a surprise. I would go back to him v...
A. 12 December 2011: you feel insecure because he has done it too many times before, why on earth would you trust him? You cant just decide to change and then do it. People don't really change. All of your instincts right now are telling you to move on, you came bac... (read in full...)
Do you think I just need to give him time to realise what he's missing or have I blown it?
Q. I've been seeing my b/f for 7months. We have been having a very serious relationship and I thought we were both madly in love. My bf works a hell of a lot and recently we have hardly seen each other or spent any time together and I've missed him ...
A. 12 December 2011: I dont think what you where asking was unreasonable, you wanted to spend more time with him. However, that being said he did say he was busy around this time of the year because of work. He may just being taking time out, or he could be angry that ... (read in full...)
Does he want me to move on?
Q. i don't know how to take this. recently the man i've been involved with for a better part of 5 yrs responded to an email i sent him wishing him and his family a Happy Thanksgiving. Mind you this was the first time i attempted to write to him...
A. 4 December 2011: I would say he wants time to sort everything out, if that is what he said. and he feels ike right now he cannot offer you what you need, which is someone there with you.
I think in away in probably flatters him that you are still waiting for him.... (read in full...)
Does my husband keep me around for the sex or because he actually loves me?
Q. My husband has signed up for dating and sex sites over 7 times in our * yrs of marriage. watches porn all the time......and we are having other issues as well..... is it just a guy thing or is he really looking for something else???? we have always ...
A. 15 November 2011: Hi
I dont personally think the porn by itself is an issue, you guys obviously have a good sex life. I dont think it nessessary to say he has a sex addiction, i think now days we immediately just say someone has an addiction. Talking to other wome... (read in full...)
I love my husband but am not in love with him and I think about my first love 24/7!
Q. Ive been married for 10 yrs my husband has been a good man and provider.. Weve had our ups and downs. 2 years ago i met my first love on facebook and fell in love again and want to be with him but i feel real guilty over leaving. Familyn giving me ...
A. 13 November 2011: Hi It is actually emotional abuse to threaten to kill yourself to make your spouse stay! I feel really sorry for your husband i do, and believe it or not when you leave it will cut like a knife and you will suffer more than you know. But somethin... (read in full...)
How can I be more romantic when we live so far apart?
Q. I am currently in a long distance relationship with a woman right now and she is becoming dissatisfied with the distance. Neither one of us can afford an airline ticket right now and she is not sure we can maintain this for long if we don't meet ...
A. 10 November 2011: You could always send her flowers! Make a video where you do something special and send it to her. Letters and skype are good ideas. Go to the same movie at the same time, even though your not together etc. Make up was with you or if you were with ... (read in full...)
Threesome concerns
Q. IS it ok for my boyfriend to want to be bestfriends with my babys daddy and perhaps thinking about having a threesome with him and also trying to get me jealous over him?? Is this normal because i'm having serious issiues with it, help!! sexyginger...
A. 10 November 2011: Yuck, that is disgusting, if you were comfortable with it, which it does not sound like you are than that would be fine, but where is your boyfriend coming from. As with Him and your ex being friends then if they generally have a connection as ... (read in full...)
How will I ever get over this affair...please help?
Q. Last year I had an affair with a married woman,(she is married to a male)and has children. I am a 27 year old woman myself who thought i was heterosexual but had very strong feelings for this person, and it is something that happened because we were ...
A. 7 November 2011: what makes you think that they are actually happy, i would say that she loves her children and that is probably the only reason she is staying in that marriage. Thopugh she may love him too. However, this is not your typical affair, as this woman ... (read in full...)
Give it another chance? or is he using me? do you guys think he lied to me when he said he didn't meet anyone?
Q. Dear friends... i need some advice. I broke up with my bf 5 months ago and It's been really hard. I know our relationship wasn't working and that we tried so many times to be ok, but we argued a lot! i never stopped missing him, though... ...
A. 7 November 2011: Hi, i know what its like to miss someone like crazy and want them back. But if you have a weird feeling them i would follow your instincts because they are usually right. plus the facebook incident sems abit suss so i do think he is probably lying ... (read in full...)
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