How can I tell if he is the one for me?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. Its always great and i am so happy but other times i have doubts. When im happy i feel that he is the one for me. I really love him and he is everything that i could ever ask for. I think i have too ...
A. 5 May 2006: Everyone has their doubts. Its part of any healthy relationship. It could happen 3 months down the line, or 3 years. Its only natural.
If he really is the one for you, then you'll know. When you are happy you say you feel it. If its been 3 years ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my good boy about my bad past?
Q. okay well i sort of have a past experience with some things that most ppl wouldn't. lets just say i was'nt any where near good. i am with this new guy and i fear that he will not want to be with me if he finds out. he is sort of a good boy and still ...
A. 3 April 2006: You cant lead him on to beleive you've been an angel in the past. If the guy loves you, then he'll understand. Tell him you've done things in the past that you're not proud of, or tell him some things you've done.
Dont go into detail, because ... (read in full...)
I found animal porn on his computer...
Q. i found animal porn on my bf computer, i feel so sick and i don't know what to do or say to him about it? i can't even look him in the eye anymore, i just don't know what to do about this....
A. 3 April 2006: I dont want to really get into this, but it depends on the amount.
One stupid video could just be a prank by a friend, or something silly someone sent him.
If there is a large amount, I guess i dont know. I've never been a porn guy, and I think... (read in full...)
Am I right in thinking she wants me?
Q. There is this girl at work i like and i think she likes me too but i am not sure if it is just as a friend, and because we work together it's a bit difficult to talk to her about it. It started a few months ago when she said that she missed me while ...
A. 3 April 2006: It can be risky to assume somehting a woman is thinking. I know a few women who are just very flirty as people, very open, very happy.
If you want to risk the friendship you have for a chance to be with her, then take that risk. One of my many reg... (read in full...)
How do I get out of this situation without my friend resenting me?
Q. Hi, my friend asked me to bring in a deposit so we can go to millenium stadium when we have our GCSE results back and i really dont want to go, but i told her i need to get money... what shall i tell her, she will be funny with me if i tell her i ...
A. 3 April 2006: If your friend is really a friend, if you tell them the truth, it should all they need to hear.
Give your reasons, tell the truth. If they resent you, then they're not a good friend. I wouldnt make my friends do anything they dont want to.
L... (read in full...)
My foreskin doesn't retract. How do I correct this?
Q. Alright, I am an 18 year old male, living in the UK. Growing up I lost my virginity with my grilfriend when I was 15, and have had various sexual partners since then. When I lost my virginity, my slightly more experienced girlfriend mentioned...
A. 26 February 2006: I have that, whether or not it is meant to be there.
Also, I'm lost as for what to do, I dont want to make a fuss about nothing, but if this is serious, I dont want it to get any worse...... (read in full...)
Need some help figuring out my premature ejaculation problem!
Q. I'm 19 and a virgin. The problem is when I've been messing around with girlfriends I've been ejaculating prematurely. I can't seem to figure this out and it's stopping me from losing my virginity cause I'm really embarrassed. Also I don't know if ...
A. 19 February 2006: Premature ejaculation can be caused by many things, and all you really need is the time and the practice at controlling yourself. It is a common problem that men face nowadays, I myself have had the problem. During sex, I couldnt hold myself for ... (read in full...)
He has had past relationships and I haven't - which makes me feel weird!
Q. Hi everyone, I am completely in love with my boyfriend. I trust him and respect him. He's my first love, but I am extremely uncomfortable with the knowledge that he slept with other people and had previous girlfriends, whilst I on the otherhand, d...
A. 19 February 2006: If you really really love him, this shouldnt be an issue. You should love him for the person he is with you, the person you are with him. His past is past, I'm sure we've all said and done things we regret, and dont mean. Think about your prese... (read in full...)
Should I tell him how I feel? Even though he now has a girl?
Q. I met this guy through a friend 4 months ago, his friends told me that he liked me a lot, and I also felt that he was. The feeling was mutual. He's a really shy guy and doesn't really initiate things, him and I had something (I haven't slept with ...
A. 19 February 2006: If he has gone out and found himself a girl, he might have lost his feelings for you. By telling him how you feel you will releave yourself of a huge burden, but you risk losing a friendship. You need to decide whether or not he is worth the ris... (read in full...)
Could my friend be pregnant if she had sex on her period?
Q. My friend thinks she might be pregnant. She and her boyfriend had sex when she was on her period and he didn't use anything. Was it better or worse that they did it while she was still on her period? Is there a high risk that she could be pregnant? ...
A. 19 February 2006: Although it is highly unlikley that she could get pregnant, it DOES NOT mean she is not pregnant. As the person before me says, statistically it is unlikley due to the life of a sperm, and the natural cycle of a womans eggs, but it doesnt mean she ... (read in full...)
Is it best to articulate a crush? Or just keep quiet?
Q. I think I have a crush on my gay friend HELP. sometimes I'm not sure if the signals are there, he is a very nice guy. This crush doesn't seem to go away and its so annoying. I can't really avoid him because he knows my friends and vice versa, we all ...
A. 19 February 2006: You have to tell him. Dont make it black and white, dont say straight up that you cant stop thinking about him or you'll freak him out a bit and neither of you will want to lose each others friendship. Tell him you think hes a great guy, that ... (read in full...)
She didn't tell me about her boyfriend when we went out together. Now I can't get her out of my head...
Q. I went on a date with this girl on my course a couple of months back. Then a week later, I saw her in a club with another guy. I was devastated. Then about a month back, things started hotting up and I got her something for her birthday. Then abo...
A. 19 February 2006: To me, it sounds like the girl is no good. You dont want a girl who is a picky b*tch, and even worse, is willing to cheat on both of you until she decides which she prefers. You can do that with clothes in a shop, but with human beings its ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want sex until "it's the right time", but I'm getting impatient!
Q. I have been going out with this really nice guy for the last 6 months. We really get on well and he makes me so happy,however, he doesn't want to have sex with me. When I asked him about it he said he wants to wait for the right time. I have always ...
A. 18 February 2006: If your boyfriend is a virgin then this is understandable. Otherwise, you should talk to him about it, tell him you really want to connect with him physically, emotionally. He may be nervous about not being 'good enough' at sex, or dissapointing ... (read in full...)
My husband and I have no communication, no common ground...and we argue. I'd leave, but for the kids. Help!
Q. Hi, I am 40 years old and a housewife. I have 5 kids their ages being between 2-20yrs, been married for 20yrs. I'm unhappy at this point because my marriage has always been the same...taking care of the kids and my normal house routine. My hus...
A. 18 February 2006: You should confront your partner about this,and maybe seek professional help with your marrige if you both see it as a problem and want to stay together.
My opinion is you should never stay together for the sake of the children. If you are unha... (read in full...)
What age should you be to have sex the first time?
Q. Hey, I am wondering whether to have sex for the 1st time. I am 14 and so is my girlfriend. She has done it before and is kean for me to join her, but I am not entirely sure about what to do. Please help me! P.Enguin...
A. 18 February 2006: If you feel mature enough to make that decision, then you are old enough. Your girlfriend, if she is someone you feel like you care about, and you want to remember forever, then by all means, you are old enough.
The only problem is law, as you a... (read in full...)
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