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writes: I think I have a crush on my gay friend HELP. sometimes I'm not sure if the signals are there, he is a very nice guy. This crush doesn't seem to go away and its so annoying. I can't really avoid him because he knows my friends and vice versa, we all sit together in lectures. Shall I just tell him, and get it off my chest and utterly embarrass myself or carry on and hope it will pass.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (19 February 2006):
 Go for it! you will always wonder and dream about what if`s if you dont take this forward, if she is not interested that at the worst she will tell you and will no doubt have been flattered that a lovely woman like you fancies her, and at best you will start a relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2006): The crush will go away eventually, and when it does you will thank yourself forever that you didn't tell your friend about it. Consider it a gift to your future self.
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reader, GodofGraphics +, writes (19 February 2006):
 You have to tell him. Dont make it black and white, dont say straight up that you cant stop thinking about him or you'll freak him out a bit and neither of you will want to lose each others friendship.Tell him you think hes a great guy, that you find him attractive, if he's anything like my freind alex, he'll already know. You dont want him to figure it out then for things to become weird, and its always better to be truthful with friends.GoG
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