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writes: I have been going out with this really nice guy for the last 6 months. We really get on well and he makes me so happy,however, he doesn't want to have sex with me. When I asked him about it he said he wants to wait for the right time. I have always been a very sexual person and this is really starting to get to me. What can I do? I love him and respect him for wanting to wait but I really want to take our relationship a step further. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, smeedle +, writes (18 February 2006):
What is your hurry, he sounds like he will get there eventually, if it was the other way around you would want him to respect your decision to take it slow.
Pleasure yourself this will take the edge off your sexual appetite and help you wait.
The best things are worth waiting for!!
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reader, GodofGraphics +, writes (18 February 2006):
If your boyfriend is a virgin then this is understandable. Otherwise, you should talk to him about it, tell him you really want to connect with him physically, emotionally. He may be nervous about not being 'good enough' at sex, or dissapointing you. If you talk about it and get it out in the open it will make things clearer
GoG
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