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writes:Dear Cupid,Lately I've been feeling like I'm losing everyone. So when I tell this to one of my best friends, whom I have dated and now like again, he tries to help. He makes me feel amazing like I'm not losing anyone at all, or like I don't need anyone but him. He'll text me calling me sweetheart, he'll tell me he loves me, and he'll overall just flirt with me. I decided I'd tell him how I felt and when ever I do this he tells me he's sorry. I ask why and he says for hurting me. I guess my question is why is he acting like this? Is he scared? Does he like someone else? I mean I know he doesn't have a girlfriend... but I asked him to be honest with me and tell me how he feels, he avoided the question and left... I don't know what it means. Could you maybe help me understand this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI feel like a complete idiot. Shortly after posting this, I read something on his IM messanger thing. It said "Taken. =x" So I assumed he had a girlfriend, I then tell him that it might be best that if we don't talk; which is stupid and insanely hard to do. He then goes on asking me why I like him, why do I feel the way I do... he keeps bringing up the fact that we never talk. [Which I would say is a lie. I think he's just trying to convince himself that it's the truth...] We do talk, not a lot but enough for me to fall for him. My friends call him after this and they ask if he has a girlfriend, he doesn't. I feel so stupid... I said these horrid things before knowing the truth. I'm thinking that I am annoying him now... he's leaving soon and I just wish that I could get what I want out by the time he leaves. I've told him before... but how can I get him to really understand how I feel without coming off as annoying, obsessive, etc? :/
By the way: Thanks for your thoughts on my situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): i think that he may like u,or just wants to make u like him again he might be a big player or he might say wat he really feels..so i think that u should just be like i'm starting to like u and make him answer to u dont make him change the question
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reader, girlygirl2thextreme3 +, writes (17 July 2008):
 Wow exactly the same thing with me too!!! Well, anyway, if he says I'm sorry maybe hee feels like he's making you like him although that isn't the case at all. If he really cares about you, that might be it. Good luck!
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